When you are dating a woman...is it not a good idea to leave an element of mystery? If you reveal too much to a woman too early...you may just have killed the attraction she has for you and the thrill of the chase could well be... stopped in it's tracks
The truth is...men and women think differently...but that's nothing to fear
There's so many traits, etc...that are really in "The Twilight Zone", so to speak. I mean, I've known women who carry on about their "guy" not showing emotion, etc...but if and when he does or (Lord!) cries, then guess what? They don't like it and don't want him anymore. Many women seem to love and want "bad boys", but when the heats on, they're like, "Oh gosh, I didn''t KNOW...{poor me, I'm just a little naive lady who fell in love....feel sorry for me....etc....} they run through his dresser and pockets and wallet, but God help him if he touches their purse, and so on.......many variables in both gender relationships.......too much to write here.....
rohaan: There's so many traits, etc...that are really in "The Twilight Zone", so to speak. I mean, I've known women who carry on about their "guy" not showing emotion, etc...but if and when he does or (Lord!) cries, then guess what? They don't like it and don't want him anymore. Many women seem to love and want "bad boys", but when the heats on, they're like, "Oh gosh, I didn''t KNOW...{poor me, I'm just a little naive lady who fell in love....feel sorry for me....etc....} they run through his dresser and pockets and wallet, but God help him if he touches their purse, and so on.......many variables in both gender relationships.......too much to write here.....
So glad you mentioned 'many variables in both gender relationships' ... it kind of makes 'they' redundant and easily replaceable with 'some' ...
i don't have anything to hide. very seasonal and prefer motorcycle riding on nice days and days off. maybe the firing ranges. occasional concert, etc. lots calmed down and changed after the kids grew into adults and the work schedule, so far, seems to have lightened up.
i'm more into introversion. i do go out and do things but generally not on the schedule many might want or expect. often, not the type of things they rely on or want.
big social circles and such aren't for me. maybe a few times a year, is more than enough for certain gatherings and events.
better to have that "boring" life up front. rather a woman run early than hang on just long enough to where i start to believe them then they leave any way.
i often wonder what types of "mystery" people refer too when applying it to the potential for attracting and keeping a mate.
truheart1941: Why do woman marry a man who is. Still in jail. For murder. Does that. Come under mystery ???????????
well as was pointed out here before,,, the more thuggish the guy is the more girls he will have ,,, and nice bits too , definitely a mystery ,,,,,,,,and a mystery to me ,,
michaelright: well as was pointed out here before,,, the more thuggish the guy is the more girls he will have ,,, and nice bits too , definitely a mystery ,,,,,,,,and a mystery to me ,,
My theory on that is as follows: You know how emotionally unevolved men can't keep their zippers done up and allegedy it's an ancestral need to propagate the species? Well my theory is that emotionally unevolved women have an ancestral need to feel protected against outside threats which a 'bad boy' would oblige with.
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The truth is...men and women think differently...but that's nothing to fear