Is there a diffence in growing in love or falling in love? (26)
You. Marry because. You really like that person. To really love that.person. Begins. Over time.............their good. Heart/understanding/manys. Things where you feel comfort. And wanted........... Jmo
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Sound the same to me..In saying that I have never been in love..
Had been attracted to one man in the past other than that that's I have to add
Had been attracted to one man in the past other than that that's I have to add
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Mercedes_00: Sound the same to me..In saying that I have never been in love..
Had been attracted to one man in the past other than that that's I have to add
I was going to fix my post but I'm sure you know what my last sentence was meant to say Had been attracted to one man in the past other than that that's I have to add
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the back round settings have to be right to fall in love, 
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Definitely a difference.
Growning in love, there is a history, prior to being in love, like companionship
Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
Growning in love, there is a history, prior to being in love, like companionship
Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
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CossackCat:
Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
Or a temporary psychosis....Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
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I would classify any romantic love as "falling in love" whether fleeting or everlasting. Lust is different.
I think "true love" comes from the kind that you grow into. Usually the faster you fall, the faster it burns out.
I think "true love" comes from the kind that you grow into. Usually the faster you fall, the faster it burns out.
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MysteriousGirl80: I would classify any romantic love as "falling in love" whether fleeting or everlasting. Lust is different.
I think "true love" comes from the kind that you grow into. Usually the faster you fall, the faster it burns out.
That is so true I think "true love" comes from the kind that you grow into. Usually the faster you fall, the faster it burns out.
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bodleing2: Or a temporary psychosis....
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At this stage, I would be classed as a ''born again virgin ''
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I can do without the falling part myself,
it ain't really that important; still a nice cherry on top if you're that lucky.
What would be nice however is if you parmanently stay just a little bit in love forever.
Yes there is a difference, and the growning part the most important.
It has to come naturel though or you're with the wrong one.
Both must pitch in with ease. As closer to 50/50 the better,
never more tilted than 60/40. It's ok if one is just a tad more eager
but never 80-20, as the simping and everything will mean certain doom of that rel.
jmo
it ain't really that important; still a nice cherry on top if you're that lucky.
What would be nice however is if you parmanently stay just a little bit in love forever.
Yes there is a difference, and the growning part the most important.
It has to come naturel though or you're with the wrong one.
Both must pitch in with ease. As closer to 50/50 the better,
never more tilted than 60/40. It's ok if one is just a tad more eager
but never 80-20, as the simping and everything will mean certain doom of that rel.
jmo
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online today!I have always thought that in love is the same as twitterpated, meaning you have a crush on someone....
If it is the right person you will grow to love them more, with each passing day. I had that with my late husband....we grew to love each other more as time went on.
Looking back, the only other relationship I had since he passed - I did not love him, nor did I like him. I did not respect things he did, or who he was.
If it is the right person you will grow to love them more, with each passing day. I had that with my late husband....we grew to love each other more as time went on.
Looking back, the only other relationship I had since he passed - I did not love him, nor did I like him. I did not respect things he did, or who he was.
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"You can't ever 'fall' in love. True love is never a fall, it can never be a decent. Infatuation, obsession and attachment are usually what happen in reality, and then given the term 'falling in love'.
True love in a relationship will never include infatuation, obsession and absolutely no attachment. There isn't the feeling of falling, but an 'uplifting'. There is no sense of confiinement but a real sense of freedom within the relationship. There is no 'heat' but a coolness and strengh that endures through all circumstances and events."
Mike George from The Seven Myths about Love.
True love in a relationship will never include infatuation, obsession and absolutely no attachment. There isn't the feeling of falling, but an 'uplifting'. There is no sense of confiinement but a real sense of freedom within the relationship. There is no 'heat' but a coolness and strengh that endures through all circumstances and events."
Mike George from The Seven Myths about Love.
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truheart1941: You. Marry because. You really like that person. To really love that.person. Begins. Over time.............their good. Heart/understanding/manys. Things where you feel comfort. And wanted........... Jmo
I believe for me I have to grow into love also. Maybe it would be easier if one could just fall
Mercedes_00: I was going to fix my post but I'm sure you know what my last sentence was meant to say
Nope no need to fix it I have been in love one time in my life and I grew to love him. Started out a little slow but when it happened it was worth the growing
pedro27: the back round settings have to be right to fall in love,
I wonder what makes them right 
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I got to dash back out for a bit. Thanks everyone for adding to the topic
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CossackCat: Definitely a difference.
Growning in love, there is a history, prior to being in love, like companionship
Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
Yep I do agree. I have fallen many times and I must say it has never been a good experiance. Usually end up with broken bones Growning in love, there is a history, prior to being in love, like companionship
Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
So nope I don't think I would be the falling in love type.bodleing2: Or a temporary psychosis....
That would explain it 
MysteriousGirl80: I would classify any romantic love as "falling in love" whether fleeting or everlasting. Lust is different.
I think "true love" comes from the kind that you grow into. Usually the faster you fall, the faster it burns out.
Mostly from what I have seen that is true. The faster you fall the faster it burns out. Yet I have a friend who met and married a man she only new three days. That was eighteen years ago and they still seem very happy. Guess we could call that shear luck I think "true love" comes from the kind that you grow into. Usually the faster you fall, the faster it burns out.
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Love is love, it is just the way of expression it.
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Mercedes_00: I was going to fix my post but I'm sure you know what my last sentence was meant to say
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CossackCat: Definitely a difference.
Growning in love, there is a history, prior to being in love, like companionship
Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
Growning in love, there is a history, prior to being in love, like companionship
Falling in love, could be anything from lust to a virus
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Track16: That is so true
Smart man!pedro27: At this stage, I would be classed as a ''born again virgin ''
I believe quite a few of us would be 
Grandsiozzie: I can do without the falling part myself,
it ain't really that important; still a nice cherry on top if you're that lucky.
What would be nice however is if you parmanently stay just a little bit in love forever.
Yes there is a difference, and the growning part the most important.
It has to come naturel though or you're with the wrong one.
Both must pitch in with ease. As closer to 50/50 the better,
never more tilted than 60/40. It's ok if one is just a tad more eager
but never 80-20, as the simping and everything will mean certain doom of that rel.
jmo
it ain't really that important; still a nice cherry on top if you're that lucky.
What would be nice however is if you parmanently stay just a little bit in love forever.
Yes there is a difference, and the growning part the most important.
It has to come naturel though or you're with the wrong one.
Both must pitch in with ease. As closer to 50/50 the better,
never more tilted than 60/40. It's ok if one is just a tad more eager
but never 80-20, as the simping and everything will mean certain doom of that rel.
jmo
I married my husband thinking I loved him and somewhere in the years it grew and grew. One day I knew I was madly in love him. We use to refer to ourselfs as still on our honeymoon. I laughing would tell him I would let him know when the honeymoon was over. When I knew the time was close and I had to let him go. I bent over and whispered in his ear how much I loved him and appreciated him. How worthwhile his life was and he could go now. That I would be ok if the honeymoon ended. I had known him since childhood. I will never know what magic made our life as wonderful as it was. The one thing I learned towards the end is that it is easy to love someone in the good times, but you know it is true love when you love them in the difficult times
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Packersbabe1: I understood it, and agree
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Happygolucky4u: I believe for me I have to grow into love also. Maybe it would be easier if one could just fall
Nope no need to fix it
I have been in love one time in my life and I grew to love him. Started out a little slow but when it happened it was worth the growing
I wonder what makes them right
I think it's wonderful for people like yourself who have had a real good dose of real loveNope no need to fix it
I have been in love one time in my life and I grew to love him. Started out a little slow but when it happened it was worth the growing
I wonder what makes them right
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bodleing2: "You can't ever 'fall' in love. True love is never a fall, it can never be a decent. Infatuation, obsession and attachment are usually what happen in reality, and then given the term 'falling in love'.
True love in a relationship will never include infatuation, obsession and absolutely no attachment. There isn't the feeling of falling, but an 'uplifting'. There is no sense of confiinement but a real sense of freedom within the relationship. There is no 'heat' but a coolness and strengh that endures through all circumstances and events."
Mike George from The Seven Myths about Love.
That sounds so beautiful True love in a relationship will never include infatuation, obsession and absolutely no attachment. There isn't the feeling of falling, but an 'uplifting'. There is no sense of confiinement but a real sense of freedom within the relationship. There is no 'heat' but a coolness and strengh that endures through all circumstances and events."
Mike George from The Seven Myths about Love.
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vyoleta: Love is love, it is just the way of expression it.
I gave this some thought and yes, I see what you are saying and yes, love is love. If we are lucky enough to find it may it be cherished and treated as the rare thing it has become ------ This poll is Archived ------
Mercedes_00: Great minds think alike.
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