I will tell you this. I am not even going to vote on the poll because all the answers you have given are irrelevant. So I will make up a new answer for your poll. I think you look fine just the way you are. You should never change yourself to please others. You should only change for yourself and change for the better. Not for someone else. If you are happy with the way you look then why bother asking what other people think. There is always someone out there for everybody no matter how a person looks. If you feel unhappy with yourself ask yourself why? Is it because you are too caught up on what others think? Or do You feel you need to change? The majority of the reason why people dont like the way they look is becuase most people feel they have to appease others; fit in the crowd so to speak. So please. Do not think that you have to gain weight and for those...loose weight just to please other men (and for men, please women). Because only you can be happy with yourself.
I think your right. A positive attitude would be the best thing. like I said before there is always someone out there for everybody. I do not think you need to gain weight.
I don't think so Arabella, when I viewed your profile you looked just fine as you are.
I just signed up on this site and was going to send a message to you and all of a sudden you're not there anymore. Where did yo go? Your profile seemed so interesting. I'd like to get to know you especially since we live so close together.
Please check my profile and see if you might have any interest. I'll treat you very nice, promise...
niceguyreally: I don't think so Arabella, when I viewed your profile you looked just fine as you are.
I just signed up on this site and was going to send a message to you and all of a sudden you're not there anymore. Where did yo go? Your profile seemed so interesting. I'd like to get to know you especially since we live so close together.
Please check my profile and see if you might have any interest. I'll treat you very nice, promise...
Being a big girl myself, I would not suggest being a big girl! I've tried losing the weight. It just doesnt come off. Thin women have everything handed to them. And Yes, Online big girls get a little more attention, because its not reality. A guy can say he appreciates a big girl online, however in reality would never show it. The internet is a mask.
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Should I Gain Some Weight To Get A Date???(Vote Below)
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