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Dec 26, 2007 12:28 AM CSTwhen choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts

when choosing a mate-what matters most?(Vote Below)

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looks
7
8%
body type
5
6%
brains
5
6%
personality
61
68%
income
3
3%
social status
0
0%
age
1
1%
doesnt matter
4
4%
other
4
4%
Total Votes
90
hope you all had a great christmas!!! since alot of us are here looking for that special someone, i was wondering what trait is the single most important to you when deciding who your going to be with?
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Dec 26, 2007 12:28 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
hope you all had a great christmas!!! since alot of us are here looking for that special someone, i was wondering what trait is the single most important to you when deciding who your going to be with?
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Dec 26, 2007 12:29 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA66 Threads 9 Polls 9,743 Posts
a sense of humor!

hope you have a great Christmas as well.cheers santa waving
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Dec 26, 2007 12:29 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico95 Threads 2 Polls 5,656 Posts
Hi hun...

I chose Brains...and heart counts a lot too..

hug
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Dec 26, 2007 12:31 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
brains are very important, ive always been big on personality. hope you had a nice christmas
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Dec 26, 2007 12:32 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico95 Threads 2 Polls 5,656 Posts
Great one and u?

applause
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Dec 26, 2007 12:32 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA85 Threads 3 Polls 6,177 Posts
I chose personality, but I think that includes brain and heart.
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Dec 26, 2007 12:33 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
spent it with my girls, had a great time
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Dec 26, 2007 12:34 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico95 Threads 2 Polls 5,656 Posts
Im glad hun, hope ur feeling better than the last time u posted....

comfort hug christmas happy
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Dec 26, 2007 12:34 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
a good sense of humor makes it easier
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Dec 26, 2007 12:37 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
feeling much better, thanx, everone really helped that night, im movin on and i know ill find someone who'll treat me better
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Dec 26, 2007 12:37 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA45 Threads 12 Polls 1,629 Posts
Well for me its a lot of things. Looks matter because I am a man, but I need to connect, so personality is important. Lots of things play little parts, not simple enough to narrow down to one thing
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Dec 26, 2007 12:39 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
i agree but theres usually that one thing that seals the deal
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Dec 26, 2007 12:39 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA40 Threads 3 Polls 5,583 Posts
What's important?
His efforts. If there is to be a real chance, serious effort has to be put into the relationship.

thumbs up
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Dec 26, 2007 12:41 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
thats definitely true, lack of effort will kill it
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Dec 26, 2007 12:41 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA35 Threads 4,430 Posts
Truthfulness with a sense of humor
wine
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Dec 26, 2007 12:43 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
honesty seems like its getting harder to find
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Dec 26, 2007 12:57 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico95 Threads 2 Polls 5,656 Posts
Im sure you will...

Just be careful what you wish for, for ur wish may come true....



hug dancing
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Dec 26, 2007 12:58 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
this time of year, it doesnt hurt to wish, right
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Dec 26, 2007 1:00 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA40 Threads 3 Polls 5,583 Posts
I wish you happiness.
hug
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Dec 26, 2007 1:03 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
thank you, i think heartache makes us appreciate even more when we find someone who treats us well and truly loves us. you would do anything to make them feel loved.
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Dec 26, 2007 1:05 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico95 Threads 2 Polls 5,656 Posts
It NEVER hurts to wish....

conversing
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Dec 26, 2007 1:06 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA40 Threads 3 Polls 5,583 Posts
I know it motivates me.
I can not speak for others, but I can hope.

hug
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Dec 26, 2007 1:06 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada23 Threads 4 Polls 1,348 Posts
A deep personal understanding of spirituality. Passion, compassion, love of life for all it brings. Too many things really but none are truly touchable beyond the initial physical attraction. The real stuff is all inside.

Markangel
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Dec 26, 2007 1:08 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
i think that when you do find someone special, the things youve been through will fade away quickly
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Dec 26, 2007 1:12 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
It always helps to be willing to take a "risk" also..grin
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Dec 26, 2007 1:12 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
i honestly believe we're all meant to be happy and loved, but it doesnt come free of charge. thers alot of pain and mistakes along the way. thats why when we do get it right, is is so incredible.
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Dec 26, 2007 1:13 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico95 Threads 2 Polls 5,656 Posts
And evertything becomes clearer and has a new meaning....smitten
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Dec 26, 2007 1:15 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
whats really inside a person is what eventually causes the relationship to succeed or fail, unfortunatley you usually find out to late, after your already invested
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Dec 26, 2007 1:16 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada23 Threads 4 Polls 1,348 Posts
Surviving the pain and mistakes, overcoming the pitfalls is the warmth of the memories we will share 'til the end of our time. Lessons cannot be avoided they will continue to repeat until we stop and pay attention. The reward for endurance in matters of the heart far outweigh the relief of a quick bail and retreat. No one likes a quitter especially the quitter...

Markangel
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Dec 26, 2007 1:19 AM CST when choosing a mate-what matters most?
bjhugs
bjhugsbjhugswellston, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 69 Posts
even though i havent found that special someone yet, i am looking at things much differently now. kiss
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by bjhugs (2 Polls)
Created: Dec 2007
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