Doesn't marriage , destroy love and take the magic away from romance? (56)
Love is free and wild, but I do not think that marriage should put it into a formal frame.
I would happily marry again, even though my last marriage was disasterous, down to the two people.
I would happily marry again, even though my last marriage was disasterous, down to the two people.
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My marriage was happy, all the years we where together, just live with the regret of him dying.
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foreveryoung1: My marriage was happy, all the years we where together, just live with the regret of him dying.
And to the OP, Marriage doesnt destroy love ot take the magic away........People do.........
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javid1964: I think marriage destroys love , it brings expectations , and puts love in a formal frame., but love can not be framed. Love is free and wild ,
An arranged One might!
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javid1964: I think marriage destroys love , it brings expectations , and puts love in a formal frame., but love can not be framed. Love is free and wild ,
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vinny1967: And to the OP, Marriage doesnt destroy love ot take the magic away........People do.........
intelligent comment , very true,
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vinny1967: And to the OP, Marriage doesnt destroy love ot take the magic away........People do.........
Yeah vinney I think I tend to agree with you on that one.
PEOPLE destroy everything in their path as far as love is concerned.
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Conrad73: An arranged One might!
if you arereferring to marriages in iran , i am sorry to disappoint you. there is no such thing as an arranged marriage here. I strongly suggest you search and study iran and look at some of the pictures. don't let the media brainwash you , it is an insult to your intelligence and good judgement.if we want to save this planet , we have to start thinking that we are all living on a lonely planet , we are all on the same boat , and we don't , our childern all over the world , may have to wake up one morning at the start of the third world war..and that is not a joke have a good weekend my friend
and yess we drink too over here,the best brands
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javid1964: I think marriage destroys love , it brings expectations , and puts love in a formal frame., but love can not be framed. Love is free and wild ,
It's not marriage that is the problem here but rather the opposite. Too many people walk into marriage with hidden expectations. If you want to keep the love, you have to realize it's not going to be the exact fairy tale you pictured in the back of your mind all those years. It's extremely unfair to expect your partner to change his or her behavior just so everything matches your childhood fantasies.
So ditch the expectations and focus on nurturing the love rather than fitting it into a mold. You are two people living as one, so it's very important to respect both halves of the whole and not just your half. If you can manage that, you'll likely find that marriage is about the coolest thing in the world. JMHO
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No marriage does not destroy love..... the following destroy love selfishness, lack of communication, the surrounding environment, expectations that are to high or not fulfilled...two people destroy love as they stop working at the love and putting in that romantic effort....
Love needs to be shown each day and nurtured or it shrivels and often dies.
Love needs to be shown each day and nurtured or it shrivels and often dies.
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Karen
Well written.
Well written.
WhatUwish4: It's not marriage that is the problem here but rather the opposite. Too many people walk into marriage with hidden expectations. If you want to keep the love, you have to realize it's not going to be the exact fairy tale you pictured in the back of your mind all those years. It's extremely unfair to expect your partner to change his or her behavior just so everything matches your childhood fantasies.
So ditch the expectations and focus on nurturing the love rather than fitting it into a mold. You are two people living as one, so it's very important to respect both halves of the whole and not just your half. If you can manage that, you'll likely find that marriage is about the coolest thing in the world. JMHO
So ditch the expectations and focus on nurturing the love rather than fitting it into a mold. You are two people living as one, so it's very important to respect both halves of the whole and not just your half. If you can manage that, you'll likely find that marriage is about the coolest thing in the world. JMHO
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vinny1967: And to the OP, Marriage doesnt destroy love ot take the magic away........People do.........
Agreed. The only thing that took away the magic in my last marriage was his death.
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javid1964: I think marriage destroys love , it brings expectations , and puts love in a formal frame., but love can not be framed. Love is free and wild ,
I agree 100%. I will not ever get married again. Paper, it seems, is the strongest chain!
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Sommerauer71: Karen
Well written.
Well written.
Morning Sommer!
I thought of something to add to your other list...will post later when I get back...
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javid1964: if you arereferring to marriages in iran , i am sorry to disappoint you. there is no such thing as an arranged marriage here. I strongly suggest you search and study iran and look at some of the pictures. don't let the media brainwash you , it is an insult to your intelligence and good judgement.if we want to save this planet , we have to start thinking that we are all living on a lonely planet , we are all on the same boat , and we don't , our childern all over the world , may have to wake up one morning at the start of the third world war..and that is not a joke have a good weekend my friend and yess we drink too over here,the best brands
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I don't believe marriage destroys love, but it does diminish the romance.
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A marriage, can include many forms. A marriage license issued by government is merely another tax and a means to gather information (statistics) on people.
A marriage does not destroy love, people destroy love..
A marriage does not destroy love, people destroy love..
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javid1964: I think marriage destroys love
Nope...It doesn't...
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druidess6308: Yes, because in familiarity there is trust...and freedom.
Positively Tantric.
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WhatUwish4: Think what you want and live how you want (as you claimed to believe in an earlier statement).
Not all of us fit into your sweeping generalizations. Personally, I lived the experience so I tend to think I know what I am talking about.
Not all of us fit into your sweeping generalizations. Personally, I lived the experience so I tend to think I know what I am talking about.
Hiya K! Agree, 100%. Been there, done that, and, hopefully, can gain that place again. The people I know that have had successful marriages/relationships hardly live in "fairytale land". Rather, just the opposite. More about accepting your partner as a complete equal. When that happens, EVERYTHING is better.------ This poll is Archived ------
woody636: Hiya K! Agree, 100%. Been there, done that, and, hopefully, can gain that place again. The people I know that have had successful marriages/relationships hardly live in "fairytale land". Rather, just the opposite. More about accepting your partner as a complete equal. When that happens, EVERYTHING is better.
Well hello stranger!
Obviously you were equally blessed...and I'm sure you will be again.
(perhaps you already are????
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how many married couples do you know who still hold hands on the beech and have candle night dinners..?
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javid1964: how many married couples do you know who still hold hands on the beech and have candle night dinners..?
I know of at least three on this thread who lived it...
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No, it should do just the opposite, if the married couple is truely in love..
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javid1964: how many married couples do you know who still hold hands on the beech and have candle night dinners..?
My parents...47 years of marriage and still strong. They still go on dates, too.
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javid1964: I think marriage destroys love , it brings expectations , and puts love in a formal frame., but love can not be framed. Love is free and wild ,
It only destroys it if you let it...why people think it changes anything is beyond me or it should change anything....I think some people quit trying because they view it as "we're married now so I don't have to show how much I love the person anymore....I got them and they aren't going anywhere"...It couldn't e further from the truth...this is how the marriage and the relationship dies....you are the only one in control of your marriage and relationship...it will die only of you let it....
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"some people quit trying" ERRRRRRRRRRRRR I love all the slow dancing, snuggling on the couch for a movie, cooking together ect. HATE the "trying" part. Is that wrong? Comments? Shel?
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