Who would you fear most? (108)
Which would you be more inclined to date?
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30 plus and divorced twice or more,,,,,,
You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
30 plus and divorced twice or more,,,,,,
You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
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rasgumby: Hard call for me.
30+ and never married.. Possibly afraid to commit ?
30+ and divorced.. Possibly can't cope with long term and maybe not willing to get along and compromise?
What do you think and why?
30+ and never married.. Possibly afraid to commit ?
30+ and divorced.. Possibly can't cope with long term and maybe not willing to get along and compromise?
What do you think and why?
I thin both have their disadvantages....BUT I would have to honestly say that 30+ and divorced twice or more would give me more cause for concern...it tells me they either rush into serious things too quickly and want someone just so they won't be alone...or they cheat or do something to cause their partners to end their marriages because they don't take marriage serious enough.....
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rasgumby: Hard call for me.
30+ and never married.. Possibly afraid to commit ?
30+ and divorced.. Possibly can't cope with long term and maybe not willing to get along and compromise?
What do you think and why?
30+ and never married.. Possibly afraid to commit ?
30+ and divorced.. Possibly can't cope with long term and maybe not willing to get along and compromise?
What do you think and why?
I couldn't pick either, don't have a problem of either really.
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vonney: ok30 plus and divorced twice or more,,,,,,
You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
I don't know haven't been there yet.You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
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WOW... I don't know.... probably A but I guess it would come down to the person, and the vibes I got from them...
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30+ and never married - perhaps afraid to commit, other priorities up to this point besides relationships, etc., indecisive as to what they are looking for in a person, purposely choosing non-committing partners (safer), the list goes on
30+ and divorced twice or more - depending on your perspective they had things to be learned (from each partner) or possibly made some less than perfect choices
either one could be risky - I went with the second one as a higher risk based on some assumptions - perhaps they married right out of school, divorced and married again - the point being they may not know what it takes to make them happy and may well look to another person to do so
I know I'm opening myself up for criticism by making assumptions - but there you have it
30+ and divorced twice or more - depending on your perspective they had things to be learned (from each partner) or possibly made some less than perfect choices
either one could be risky - I went with the second one as a higher risk based on some assumptions - perhaps they married right out of school, divorced and married again - the point being they may not know what it takes to make them happy and may well look to another person to do so
I know I'm opening myself up for criticism by making assumptions - but there you have it
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vonney: ok30 plus and divorced twice or more,,,,,,
You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
Are you serious, you have to stay married, but separated for 5 years before you can get divorced? wow i had no idea.
does that actually help with the divorce rate in Ireland?
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rasgumby: Which would you be more inclined to date?
as to which one I'd be more inclined to date - would depend on the individual and what my 'gut' was telling me
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prairiewoman: as to which one I'd be more inclined to date - would depend on the individual and what my 'gut' was telling me
Yes I agree...
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prairiewoman: as to which one I'd be more inclined to date - would depend on the individual and what my 'gut' was telling me
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Nick_24: Are you serious, you have to stay married, but separated for 5 years before you can get divorced? wow i had no idea.
does that actually help with the divorce rate in Ireland?
does that actually help with the divorce rate in Ireland?
Divorce has only been available here since 1996, so any figure are relatively new.
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vonney: ok30 plus and divorced twice or more,,,,,,
You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
You have to be seperated 5 years to get a divorce here so 30plus and divorved twice or more,,,
Maybe that would work!!
Get married and just live in seperate houses
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I thin both have their disadvantages....BUT I would have to honestly say that 30+ and divorced twice or more would give me more cause for concern...it tells me they either rush into serious things too quickly and want someone just so they won't be alone...or they cheat or do something to cause their partners to end their marriages because they don't take marriage serious enough.....
I really can't decide myself.. Is why I asked for input.
HellifIknow.
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Tater: WOW... I don't know.... probably A but I guess it would come down to the person, and the vibes I got from them...
Thats basically how I do it, but dating and older age is so different.
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Divorced twice???
could it be him? and not is ex-wives?
But then again, at least they're ALIVE!!
I'd be more afraid of a twice widower...
could it be him? and not is ex-wives?
But then again, at least they're ALIVE!!
I'd be more afraid of a twice widower...
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prairiewoman: 30+ and never married - perhaps afraid to commit, other priorities up to this point besides relationships, etc., indecisive as to what they are looking for in a person, purposely choosing non-committing partners (safer), the list goes on
30+ and divorced twice or more - depending on your perspective they had things to be learned (from each partner) or possibly made some less than perfect choices
either one could be risky - I went with the second one as a higher risk based on some assumptions - perhaps they married right out of school, divorced and married again - the point being they may not know what it takes to make them happy and may well look to another person to do so
I know I'm opening myself up for criticism by making assumptions - but there you have it
30+ and divorced twice or more - depending on your perspective they had things to be learned (from each partner) or possibly made some less than perfect choices
either one could be risky - I went with the second one as a higher risk based on some assumptions - perhaps they married right out of school, divorced and married again - the point being they may not know what it takes to make them happy and may well look to another person to do so
I know I'm opening myself up for criticism by making assumptions - but there you have it
Good and bad with either..
How the heck to make the right choices??
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vonney: Divorce has only been available here since 1996, so any figure are relatively new.
I would venture to say the murder rate went down drastically in 1996
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Mercedes1: And a bloke that likes to scratch his downstairs at dinner adding a farting contest for desert!
Some fathers will do most anything to entertain the kids at dinner ........
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rasgumby: Hard call for me.
30+ and never married.. Possibly afraid to commit ?
30+ and divorced.. Possibly can't cope with long term and maybe not willing to get along and compromise?
What do you think and why?
30+ and never married.. Possibly afraid to commit ?
30+ and divorced.. Possibly can't cope with long term and maybe not willing to get along and compromise?
What do you think and why?
For me, it's 30+ and never been married. No experience with marriage, divorce, issues...unless they've been in a few very long term relationships that were the same as marriages.
The 30+ and divorced twice or more wouldn't make me hesitate as much because maybe they've learned something along the way, as I have done. Also, it would depend on why the marriages broke up. It doesn't always take two to end a marriage.
JMO.
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princess49503: Divorced twice???
could it be him? and not is ex-wives?But then again, at least they're ALIVE!!
I'd be more afraid of a twice widower...
could it be him? and not is ex-wives?But then again, at least they're ALIVE!!
I'd be more afraid of a twice widower...
The black widow...
At the least I would hide my guns and rat poison!!
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rasgumby: Good and bad with either..
How the heck to make the right choices??
How the heck to make the right choices??
Either way is a roll of the dice - still best to trust your 'gut'.
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prairiewoman: Either way is a roll of the dice - still best to trust your 'gut'.
Thats just it, that usually gets me into trouble...what if our gut is usually wrong? I think my picker is broken.
I said PICKER
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rasgumby: Thats just it, that usually gets me into trouble...what if our gut is usually wrong? I think my picker is broken.
I said PICKER
I said PICKER
Good thing you clarified that!
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rasgumby: Thats just it, that usually gets me into trouble...what if our gut is usually wrong? I think my picker is broken.
I said PICKER
I said PICKER
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druidess6308: For me, it's 30+ and never been married. No experience with marriage, divorce, issues...unless they've been in a few very long term relationships that were the same as marriages.
The 30+ and divorced twice or more wouldn't make me hesitate as much because maybe they've learned something along the way, as I have done. Also, it would depend on why the marriages broke up. It doesn't always take two to end a marriage.
JMO.
The 30+ and divorced twice or more wouldn't make me hesitate as much because maybe they've learned something along the way, as I have done. Also, it would depend on why the marriages broke up. It doesn't always take two to end a marriage.
JMO.
Would it be wrong to ask to see a copy of their divorce papers so we know why it ended
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Stop that,, this is a serious thread!
Damnit.. ! can't even be serious in my own thread
Can't help it, I see the comedy side of everything. (almost)
Damnit.. ! can't even be serious in my own thread
Can't help it, I see the comedy side of everything. (almost)
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rasgumby: Would it be wrong to ask to see a copy of their divorce papers so we know why it ended
I don't know about other places, but here in PA, most get divorced simply for "irreconcilable" differences, so that won't help.
I think it's getting to know the person. However, I got burned this way in my third marriage, though...thought I knew him until after we were married.
Sometimes, Ras, you've just got to make mistakes along the way.
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30 plus, never married, better stay away.
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i feel newly educated 
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Who would you fear most?(Vote Below)
30+ and never married.. Possibly afraid to commit ?
30+ and divorced.. Possibly can't cope with long term and maybe not willing to get along and compromise?
What do you think and why?