How honest should you be in the begining (26)
I don't necessarily think it's important to spill your guts in the very beginning.. at least not the first few conversations.. however, I think in a "good beginning" the conversations will flow and lend themselves to the proverbial spilling of the guts!!
It also depends on what you have to spill! Some things are more important than others I would think..
Health issues
Kid issues
Those things seem pretty important to me.
Don't ignore that small voice in your head or your gut telling you that it's time to be honest about things. And don't outright lie about anything!
In my opinion it's probably going to take a little while to know how you feel about them, so don't go overboard until you know right? That's my take on it!
It also depends on what you have to spill! Some things are more important than others I would think..
Health issues
Kid issues
Those things seem pretty important to me.
Don't ignore that small voice in your head or your gut telling you that it's time to be honest about things. And don't outright lie about anything!
In my opinion it's probably going to take a little while to know how you feel about them, so don't go overboard until you know right? That's my take on it!
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honest, yes...but discretion rules
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Upforit01: Need to make sure I dont hurt girls and come across as a player
Try to scam............
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Think it's important to be honest about the present and what may be relevant but not bore them to death with your past love life.
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I believe in total honesty from the beginning...but that doesn't mean sharing my whole life history on the first date.
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druidess6308: I believe in total honesty from the beginning...but that doesn't mean sharing my whole life history on the first date.
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being your self is alway best.if your honest and cant stop running your mouth then do it. if your quiet and reserved then be it. i know its an old saying but its true. let it flow all natural. if you click, lock it in. you dont have to act anyway just be you
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mdconcreter: being your self is alway best.if your honest and cant stop running your mouth then do it. if your quiet and reserved then be it. i know its an old saying but its true. let it flow all natural. if you click, lock it in. you dont have to act anyway just be you
I agree...anyway I think you know what to tell and when...depending on the interaction....Just don't intentionally hide anything...
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I believe to just be me and honesty is allways the best policy, If they dont like you for being you , and being honest, then they arent your type anyway
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HotrodLarrys: I believe to just be me and honesty is allways the best policy, If they dont like you for being you , and being honest, then they arent your type anyway
This is true...ya either love me or hate me...your choice...but this is me...deal with it...
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Sheet we are scammed 24-hrs a day by somebody,we could at least of all be truthful when interconnecting in matters of hope for/of love and that forgotten word respect...wherever did that word go to ? unless of course of course your a player,in which case you don't a sheet.
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My dad always said to me you don't have to remember the truth. Don't lie, because if you do and the person knows you did anything you say after that is questionable if it is true or not.
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i agree gud call, no use lying if u end up liking umthen how wud u get past the lies. just b ya self from the start if ppl like u they like if they dont hey there loss
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if your not honest in the begining it may be the end.don't hand out more than is asked
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if they ask you a question give them a honest answer,if they do not ask than don't tell them..some things should stay in the past 
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zdeathangelz: if they ask you a question give them a honest answer,if they do not ask than don't tell them..some things should stay in the past
I think we are digging up some bones in the threads tonight.
You have to be honest, even when you don't want to. I had to say something today that broke my heart, but I'm very glad I did.
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there is a fine line between being honest and saying too much sometimes. ( heard that from someone else ).. I agree.
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love ends where dishonesty starts, regardless of whether you are caught or not. liars acrue debts against life. it sees and it knows and you will be challenged.
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Hugz_n_Kissez: This is true...ya either love me or hate me...your choice...but this is me...deal with it...
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I tell women everything in the begiing. 
To avoid any unpleasent suprises later.
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cameraman: I tell women everything in the begiing. To avoid any unpleasent suprises later.
any questions asked i answer honestly but i do not offer information
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Upforit01: Need to make sure I dont hurt girls and come across as a player
I`m as honest as many women are!
So I lie Ok Ladies I immensely stretch the truth and manipulate as much as i can getaway with.
Just like many women do!
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Brian67: I`m as honest as many women are!
So I lie Ok Ladies I immensely stretch the truth and manipulate as much as i can getaway with.
Just like many women do!
So I lie Ok Ladies I immensely stretch the truth and manipulate as much as i can getaway with.
Just like many women do!
have u a problem with women brian
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scorpiosiren: any questions asked i answer honestly but i do not offer information
That's true.
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cameraman: That's true. Thank you.
Things are on a need to know basis, however, I'll answer any question honestly...probably too honestly.
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ladyfingers: Things are on a need to know basis, however, I'll answer any question honestly...probably too honestly.
That's true.
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