Here's a very simple poll for ya... do you ever wonder what it's like to actually sit across a table from someone you find attractive and just talk with them, face to face? I do.
It's been a long long time since I've had a good dinner and movie date I guess.
And in this day and age it seems that all anybody does anymore is chat online or txt message on their phones... the art of enjoying a conversation and getting to know someone face to face just seems to have died out.
What do you think though?
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
I don't wonder what it's like, Michael, because I do have opportunities to go out and have conversation and dinner and such. But, I agree with you....too many text messages, too much chatting, not enough face-to-face relating. Have you asked a woman out on a date recently? I hope you get that dinner and a movie very soon!
I don't wonder about it. I know! for a fact that face-to-face is always better than online hokus pokus. That isn't to say online is bad, but hey... if you got someone face to face, you know in a matter of 10 minutes what they're about whereas a good con artist can string you along for months online.
.... and I got the next 4 weekends stuffed with face to face dates
shoot, I should have left the States sooner... flaming date- wasteland in the north-east...
Scubadiva: I don't wonder about it. I know! for a fact that face-to-face is always better than online hokus pokus. That isn't to say online is bad, but hey... if you got someone face to face, you know in a matter of 10 minutes what they're about whereas a good con artist can string you along for months online.
.... and I got the next 4 weekends stuffed with face to face dates
shoot, I should have left the States sooner... flaming date- wasteland in the north-east...
You missed the north-north. It could've been the one stop shop.
Michael211_2000: Here's a very simple poll for ya... do you ever wonder what it's like to actually sit across a table from someone you find attractive and just talk with them, face to face? I do.
It's been a long long time since I've had a good dinner and movie date I guess.
And in this day and age it seems that all anybody does anymore is chat online or txt message on their phones... the art of enjoying a conversation and getting to know someone face to face just seems to have died out.
What do you think though?
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
I think it would be nice....Even though there is another person on the other end of e-mails and im messages...it gets old after awhile and you start to crave face to face interaction...I know I would prefer it myself.....
I enjoy the face-to-face discussions. I can talk to someone for hours on end. I had a first last fall that lasted 10 hours because we couldn't stop talking.
Hugz_n_Kissez: I think it would be nice....Even though there is another person on the other end of e-mails and im messages...it gets old after awhile and you start to crave face to face interaction...I know I would prefer it myself.....
I wrote a thread on web cam, which is pseudo face to face, but at least better than just emails and the wait game.
I am utterly sick and tired of a computer screen and would drop all in a heart beat to spend even just one day with Mercedes1 in person, to heck with the airfare and all it would be worth it to me regardless. but that's just the way I feel right now so "BLURT" there are the words that fell out when I opened my mouth on this subject...
uhm.... hmm I voted yes btw.. in case the above was to vague...
Sorry Merc but since I am letting that "other thread" go I had to blurt out something here... You can punish me later.
jlb684: Have you asked a woman out on a date recently? I hope you get that dinner and a movie very soon!
No, there's nobody to ask out around here that I can find. A married friend of mine who I fly model aircraft with has suggested I try going out to bars and stuff with his son who is a little younger than me... he thinks I might have better chances with a wingman, of sorts.
But, I've visited the bar scenes around this side of Houston and frankly they were all full of couples and other single men... I never saw a single gal in those places that I really had any desire (or chance for that matter) to talk with. And I went out on average 2 times a week for several years before it just got too damned depressing and I had to stop.
It'sa bad bad singles scene around here because there are just far too many single men compared to single women in the Houston Metro area (and that's according to the CBS evening news no less, I'm not making it up!). I'm a genuine guy, not a pick-up artist... I don't stand much of a chance especially in the bar and club environments.
I used to love taking my boat to the lake and cruising the lake, kneeboarding and stuff, but I haven't in years now... even though I really enjoy that activity (and own my own boat), the same problem as the bars and nightclubs exists there too. Far too many couples and other single guys at the lake. It get's depressing after enough years, so my boat has been parked under the carport and covered for awhile now.
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
Big_John: I enjoy the face-to-face discussions. I can talk to someone for hours on end. I had a first last fall that lasted 10 hours because we couldn't stop talking.
Good God man! After the first 8 hours, don't you think it's time to get a room???
LOL!
Sorry couldn't resist... there must have been at least a little chemistry going on there though.
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
Michael211_2000: Good God man! After the first 8 hours, don't you think it's time to get a room???
LOL!
Sorry couldn't resist... there must have been at least a little chemistry going on there though.
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
Don't know why or how, but I can feel comfortable and talk forever with people. Probably because I listen more than I talk. When you show interest and understanding in other's opinions the conversation is easy.
It'sa bad bad singles scene around here because there are just far too many single men compared to single women in the Houston Metro area (and that's according to the CBS evening news no less, I'm not making it up!)
Note to self: Visit Houston during next trip back home.
rodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3,401 posts
Shedman01: I am utterly sick and tired of a computer screen and would drop all in a heart beat to spend even just one day with Mercedes1 in person, to heck with the airfare and all it would be worth it to me regardless. but that's just the way I feel right now so "BLURT" there are the words that fell out when I opened my mouth on this subject...
uhm.... hmm I voted yes btw.. in case the above was to vague...
Sorry Merc but since I am letting that "other thread" go I had to blurt out something here... You can punish me later.
he speedy gonzales good things come to those who wait
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 posts
id much rather speak to someone face to face than over the internet or txt . you can truly tell there responses to what you are talking about and the conversation is more spontaneous .and of course it is much more fun to be on an actual date than just chatting over a computer
Tumpa: You missed the north-north. It could've been the one stop shop.
Sadly, you're right. I never made it up north-north. By the time I found out about those gorgeous Canadian men, I was already in the process of switching pond sides. Next time I fly back, I'll make sure I go up there and check you guys out
retroprincess: id much rather speak to someone face to face than over the internet or txt . you can truly tell there responses to what you are talking about and the conversation is more spontaneous .and of course it is much more fun to be on an actual date than just chatting over a computer
n yep face 2 face juz gotta luv it...like 2 see a persons expressions and can tell a lot about a person wen u look in2 their eyes...u juz cannot beat the 1 on 1 inter-reaction
I much prefer face to face myself, then like PP said you can see if the chemistry is really there or not. But I do think as much as all this brings people in contact with other it does take away some from people just getting out there socializing IRL, JMHO.
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Relating face-to-face?(Vote Below)
It's been a long long time since I've had a good dinner and movie date I guess.
And in this day and age it seems that all anybody does anymore is chat online or txt message on their phones... the art of enjoying a conversation and getting to know someone face to face just seems to have died out.
What do you think though?
- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")