If it was appearance, the person in question wouldn't have caught my eye in the first place.
Regarding behaviour, that might come out after some time. If behaviour is the problem, well it would be difficult, not to say impossible, to change a person. So I either accept or reject the person in question.
Yes, I can accept them the way they are, however if there is something in their lives that they feel needs to be changed then I will help motivate them to do so.
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just a lil bit of compromise .... doesn't hurt.