What makes men want to date women 20/30 years their junior, but not 20/30 years their senior? Why would a woman even want a guy 20/30 years older when there are younger specimens around? Hmmm
Scubadiva: What makes men want to date women 20/30 years their junior, but not 20/30 years their senior? Why would a woman even want a guy 20/30 years older when there are younger specimens around? Hmmm
well,never mind he is 20 years older than me,the important things is he have those shining things i am dreaming
u know sweety,i am not one of those materialistic women,i am very simple but just shining things i want not money,or jewels,i have those even same as salt...just a complete man with shining things,,....
krisha: u know sweety,i am not one of those materialistic women,i am very simple but just shining things i want not money,or jewels,i have those even same as salt...just a complete man with shining things,,....
I have a shiny new car. Should I drive to Tokyo to see you?
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
krisha: u know sweety,i am not one of those materialistic women,i am very simple but just shining things i want not money,or jewels,i have those even same as salt...just a complete man with shining things,,....
I thik you want a handy Man who can make thingzzzzzzzzz shine
krisha: like u both bob and pardsx but not those thing u mention,only my mercd knows....sorry cant mention here...
I'm going to go buy some breakfast and give this some thought. What does a man have that is shiny but isn't a diamond or water...Hmmm. This is a thread all in it self.
BTW: Good morning mercedes, boban, krisha, and everyone else who is nice to me. Pi$$ on the rest of you.
krisha: u know sweety,i am not one of those materialistic women,i am very simple but just shining things i want not money,or jewels,i have those even same as salt...just a complete man with shining things,,....
You want a guy who does body-art, K, so that he can make certain parts of himself shiny??!!
My main question, Diva, is what triggered this question...
I'm with someone 10.5 years younger, and my main reason is that I need someone to take care of me in my old age...
Seriously, I never looked for someone younger - and she wasn't looking for someone older. But someone who actually is insistent on finding someone 20 - 30 years younger is likely attempting to hold onto an illusion. If a lady wants a man 20 -30 years older, I'm guessing she wants to hold onto an inheritance.
.....I have enjoyed the company of younger women on various occasions, and in effect, most of my closest friends are such.....
and from their own experience....most seem to feel that older men provide them with much more attention and allow them more space to develop their own individualism then men their own age seem to do....
......in short....they feel respected more by older men.....and even though the gymnastics might differ.....but at the end of the game they feel more women then they do with people their own age....
.....and I am only repeating things told me by them directly.....not in any way meaning I am any expert on the subject...
Ambrose2007: You want a guy who does body-art, K, so that he can make certain parts of himself shiny??!!
shining means,a good heart,clean,understanding,honest,faithful,caring,and full of love that make more shining to him...that is my own thoughts...but in a joke side i have too but will not tell to offend the guys here...
Ambrose2007: My main question, Diva, is what triggered this question...
I'm with someone 10.5 years younger, and my main reason is that I need someone to take care of me in my old age...
Seriously, I never looked for someone younger - and she wasn't looking for someone older. But someone who actually is insistent on finding someone 20 - 30 years younger is likely attempting to hold onto an illusion. If a lady wants a man 20 -30 years older, I'm guessing she wants to hold onto an inheritance.
Ah Ambrose... such a smart lad
Several reasons. One, when I was in my 20s, I'd have never considered dating someone 10 years older, let alone 20 or 30 yrs older. I don't think young women today are much different. Yes, there are exceptions, but few. How many lasting relationships are there that involve a significantly younger partner? I cannot think of one.... wait.. Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore and she had 400K worth of cosmetic surgery.
As a woman, I wouldn't be caught dead dating a guy when I can expect to become his nursemaid in a few years. (Sorry, but I'm being honest).
The other day, I was out and since it's easter, there are all these outdoor concerts here, etc., so I went to have a look and I noticed that there was a disproportionate amount of old women (widows) out there, but very few old men. That got me to think about how much sense it makes for a female to marry a guy significantly older.
Sure, if you or I are the older person, then it makes all the sense in the world, but if you're the younger being pursued by an older person, then you would have to be nutz to go with someone older.
Paradox67: I'm going to go buy some breakfast and give this some thought. What does a man have that is shiny but isn't a diamond or water...Hmmm. This is a thread all in it self. BTW: Good morning mercedes, boban, krisha, and everyone else who is nice to me. Pi$$ on the rest of you.
why someone would want someone that much younger really baffles me ,what is it you would talk about, maybe "Would you and my youngest like to have an ice-cream,then we can go to the park and swing"......
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