I have read the posts above me and i have to say, Snap..... I do not think of my x husband unless i have to..... but there is an x boyfriend i think of every day I think in a lot of womens/ mens lives there is that special someone we will never forget...
Crazylegs: as said to me before it could be the right person but the wrong time in your life!
Yeah an ex that i was dating for 4 years said to me that maybe we met too soon in life!! My initial thoughts on this were.."hey what do you want me in your life when we are old for "To look after him in his old age?? But realised since it was because(although he was in late 40s!!)he felt the grass was greener on the other side + he had more oats to sow Whats meant for you wont pass you by
I dont regret breaking up with any of the guys that I broke up with there were reasons for it ending but I do regret the amount of time I spent with some and that I didnt dump them sooner but I believe everything happens for a reason it may not be apparent at the time but one day it does click. JMO
ladylumps: I dont regret breaking up with any of the guys that I broke up with there were reasons for it ending but I do regret the amount of time I spent with some and that I didnt dump them sooner but I believe everything happens for a reason it may not be apparent at the time but one day it does click. JMO
I don't have any regrets. The odd ole time of drunken nostalgia I might think to myself what if. But what if, never made anything certain in this life.
Big_John_Deere: wel i was gonna but i figured if was never ye women would let us know lolthink nostalgia has a lot to do with it, subconciously iroing out the bad parts, remembering the good ones,
and sometimes we forget the bad ones ... and its always best to try and remember why u split in the first place...
time heals and you forget hurt if there was any.... what i do if its a bad break up i keep his number but put - hurt or a**hole beside his name and if he txts or rings again it immediately comes back....so ur not inclined to go back... just me .. look forward not back it wasnt meant to be
i m best friends with 3 of my "important" exes,including my ex husband,they r 3 people i could ask anything and they ll drop whatever they are doing to come and help me,other exes i'm friendly with too i had a boyfriend when i was 13 and he was 14,we broke up and he moved away with his family in 95,i never heard from him and had no idea of where he was in all this time,i ve been thinking of him lots in the past 15 years,not in a "i love him" kind of way,more like "i wonder what is he up to"way... anyway to cut a long story short,after 15 years i found him on facebook in november,met up with him in march and he s supposed to move to dublin in july....
Of any of the ex s I've had over the years, for all of them, the simple answer would be never...
There was one a few years ago - a quick fling shortly after the wife left - and in all honesty I often felt that I should talk to her - the ex in question, not the ex-wife - about the way things went, as I knew she really liked me.
Unfortunately, I can't do that now, as she dropped dead last week. That said, at some stage in the next few weeks, I'll probably put some flowers on her grave, as she was there for me at a time when I needed someone.
mcneillm: Of any of the ex s I've had over the years, for all of them, the simple answer would be never...
There was one a few years ago - a quick fling shortly after the wife left - and in all honesty I often felt that I should talk to her - the ex in question, not the ex-wife - about the way things went, as I knew she really liked me.
Unfortunately, I can't do that now, as she dropped dead last week. That said, at some stage in the next few weeks, I'll probably put some flowers on her grave, as she was there for me at a time when I needed someone.
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