If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would (67)

Mar 10, 2008 10:38 AM CST If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
sweetasian
sweetasiansweetasianBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand7 Posts
depend on how bad? not a big deal just forgive once..peace
Mar 10, 2008 10:45 AM CST If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
Speaking from personal experience, once the trust is gone there is no getting it back. I tried once and wasted 5 years of my life.

If someone were to betray me, I would have to end it then and there, no wasting any more time..

JMHO..comfort
Mar 10, 2008 12:42 PM CST If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
rasgumby: If a person is going to cheat while you are off serving your Country, they care only about themself. and wont think twice about doing it again. But I will go further here, there are laws against adultry, it is a shame they are not enforced.
like the movie scarlet letter. would be great if cheaters were branded in a clearly visible place so everyone knows.
So many people have no shame at all.
myself.. wouldn't be any discussion, if she is going to cheat.. she better already have her stuff packed and out.

I loved it on the news a long while back when a woman caught her husband cheating.. she scattered his cloths all over the lawn and his fishing boat in the front of the house she painted "cheater" all over it!

This would be a great clause to put into a prenup!
if either one cheats... you get nothing!!!
Including the kids if there are any.


There was a woman in the UK a while back.. who found out her husband was cheating..

they were pretty rich.. he was a big wine buff.. and had a huge 'collection' of very expensive bottles..

She took it out.. and placed it on the doorsteps of all the neighbourhood houses.. rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 10, 2008 12:44 PM CST If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ltlmstrouble: Speaking from personal experience, once the trust is gone there is no getting it back. I tried once and wasted 5 years of my life.

If someone were to betray me, I would have to end it then and there, no wasting any more time..

JMHO..


me too!... I wasted so many years.. 'pretending' roll eyes roll eyes roll eyes

Idiot that I am .. very mad

I wouldn't waste a MOMENT again.. you wouldn't see me for dust.
Mar 10, 2008 2:14 PM CST If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
lusciousmile: A 'friend' slept with a guy i was seeing.

It got ugly.

you say that with a smileuh oh
Mar 10, 2008 2:18 PM CST If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
ltlmstrouble: Speaking from personal experience, once the trust is gone there is no getting it back. I tried once and wasted 5 years of my life.

If someone were to betray me, I would have to end it then and there, no wasting any more time..

JMHO..

my opinion too,once they do it they will do it again,but only in my opinion and that is all that matters in my opinionlaugh thumbs up
Mar 10, 2008 2:20 PM CST If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
vintagerock
vintagerockvintagerockkarachi, Sindh Pakistan5 Threads 289 Posts
i believe in the sanctity of marriage as an institution (how old fashioned am i!) so if i were married to the guy i'd forgive him the first time... if he were my bf ...not so much!
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