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Aug 3, 2009 8:50 AM CSTIs the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario, Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts

Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it(Vote Below)

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Respected
14
22%
Misunderstood
10
16%
Or simply becoming obsolete in daily life
32
51%
Other
7
11%
Total Votes
63
Looking forward to your thoughts an ideas. cheers:)
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Aug 3, 2009 8:51 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
Sometimes respect is a big hill to climb. frustrated
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Aug 3, 2009 8:55 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
avecaim: Sometimes respect is a big hill to climb.
Definately earned eh :)
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Aug 3, 2009 8:57 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
steve6611
steve6611steve6611Victor Harbor, South Australia Australia1 Threads 1,767 Posts
Bentlee: Looking forward to your thoughts an ideas. cheers:)


I still think that respect is relevant now & still used, but I believe that in some instances it can be misunderstood .
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Aug 3, 2009 8:57 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
I haven't yet but still ...wave
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Aug 3, 2009 8:58 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
Respect has to be earned its hard to love with out it...and it is rare to come by these days....
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Aug 3, 2009 9:01 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
This is funny; its an idea for a thread that came into my mind a few days ago..

Nothing puts the shivers up my spine quicker, than when I see a post on here, or I hear a spoken sentence start off with "With the greatest of respect...". Its like saying, in the terms of a legal matter "Without Prejudice"..

9 times out of 10, the following statement is exactly the opposite of being respectful. Some folk seem to think that by putting that at the beginning of a sentence, it gives them free rein to say what the heck they like, because of course they mean it with "respect"...doh

I think the idea of respect is now sadly lacking in the world. In all its forms. Im not sure how this has come about really, but it is very sad to observe.

bouquet
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Aug 3, 2009 9:01 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
saseez: Respect has to be earned its hard to love with out it...and it is rare to come by these days....
thumbs up

I do my best to respect others, and only ask to be respected in return. I will say it's one of the main cornerstones to any relationship, along with trust and communication. wine
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Aug 3, 2009 9:02 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
wine popcorn smoking idea
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Aug 3, 2009 9:03 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
petalbabe: This is funny; its an idea for a thread that came into my mind a few days ago..

Nothing puts the shivers up my spine quicker, than when I see a post on here, or I hear a spoken sentence start off with "With the greatest of respect...". Its like saying, in the terms of a legal matter "Without Prejudice"..

9 times out of 10, the following statement is exactly the opposite of being respectful. Some folk seem to think that by putting that at the beginning of a sentence, it gives them free rein to say what the heck they like, because of course they mean it with "respect"...

I think the idea of respect is now sadly lacking in the world. In all its forms. Im not sure how this has come about really, but it is very sad to observe.
LOL...Petal, you made me think of my days in the Army when we could say anything we wanted to someone of higher rank, so long as we preceded it with "With all due respect..." rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 3, 2009 9:03 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
steve6611: I still think that respect is relevant now & still used, but I believe that in some instances it can be misunderstood .
I agree steve, i see it daily, not as much as it once was, it's good to see it still practiced :) cheers
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Aug 3, 2009 9:03 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
I'd say at times resepect is lacking.Especially when it comes to people respecting other people.We've become such a ME ME generation.
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Aug 3, 2009 9:06 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
I think one has to respect oneself first before they are able to really respect others well. dunno
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Aug 3, 2009 9:07 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Very good thread Bentlee, I see so much disrespect in the world now that it just makes me wonder if we really do know what the word means. dunno

I was brought up to respect others and through the years and some trials have also learned how to respect myself. hug
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Aug 3, 2009 9:09 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
saseez: Respect has to be earned its hard to love with out it...and it is rare to come by these days....
I've talked about this with some, an i was surprised a few thought it to be a birthright lol oh boy!
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Aug 3, 2009 9:17 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
Petal . . . . . well said. I have to agree with you on all you've mentioned. It's certainly easy to see through the smoke an mirrors simply in the arrangement of the words. ty for your ideas:) cheers
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Aug 3, 2009 9:19 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
I think if I were to really respect myself as I should I would endure the hell of quitting smoking today. I must not like myself very much cause I am smoking like a chimney. sad sick
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Aug 3, 2009 9:22 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
druidess6308: I do my best to respect others, and only ask to be respected in return. I will say it's one of the main cornerstones to any relationship, along with trust and communication.
Hi Dru good thoughts, do you give immediate respect or earned with someone as time goes by. Myself i give immediate an allow it to take it's own course in the friendship. :)
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Aug 3, 2009 9:26 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
druidess6308: LOL...Petal, you made me think of my days in the Army when we could say anything we wanted to someone of higher rank, so long as we preceded it with "With all due respect..."
Lol wonder if it's still like that:)
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Aug 3, 2009 9:26 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
Bentlee: Hi Dru good thoughts, do you give immediate respect or earned with someone as time goes by. Myself i give immediate an allow it to take it's own course in the friendship. :)


Immediately, I will make some changes after I finish my coffee doh help laugh Respect isn't as easy as it sounds. Thanks for the ideas wave
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Aug 3, 2009 9:28 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
somechick: I'd say at times resepect is lacking.Especially when it comes to people respecting other people.We've become such a ME ME generation.
Good point, i'm sure for the most part it's worldwide.
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Aug 3, 2009 9:32 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
sassy49senior: Very good thread Bentlee, I see so much disrespect in the world now that it just makes me wonder if we really do know what the word means.

I was brought up to respect others and through the years and some trials have also learned how to respect myself.
Exactly, Ave touched on that as well. :)
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Aug 3, 2009 9:36 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
respect ...hmmmm many have read me pots on this before ...but i will again as this thread allows me to do so. Respect is something you can never recieve untill you understand you have to give it away first...then and only then will you get respect.... thats right folks you have to give respect in order to GET respect.......thank you ....I will be here all week...applause
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Aug 3, 2009 9:36 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
jessejess47: respect ...hmmmm many have read me pots on this before ...but i will again as this thread allows me to do so. Respect is something you can never recieve untill you understand you have to give it away first...then and only then will you get respect.... thats right folks you have to give respect in order to GET respect.......thank you ....I will be here all week...
pots= posts typo
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Aug 3, 2009 9:37 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
avecaim: Immediately, I will make some changes after I finish my coffee Respect isn't as easy as it sounds. Thanks for the ideas
It's tough quittin them eh, switch to tooth picks, don't light em tho lol :)
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Aug 3, 2009 9:38 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
I'm sure everyone is still respectful. conversing It's just harder to give it if they don't get it.
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Aug 3, 2009 9:38 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
I gave away something that I think will help me respect myself and other (actually I taped it to my moniter with a big NO on it). I don't know what I am going to do in an hour but I am determined not to disrespect anyone today. NO smoking!!!!!!! help
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Aug 3, 2009 9:40 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
jessejess47: respect ...hmmmm many have read me pots on this before ...but i will again as this thread allows me to do so. Respect is something you can never recieve untill you understand you have to give it away first...then and only then will you get respect.... thats right folks you have to give respect in order to GET respect
Exactly Dave as i mentioned, Immediate respect given:)
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Aug 3, 2009 9:41 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Bentlee: Hi Dru good thoughts, do you give immediate respect or earned with someone as time goes by. Myself i give immediate an allow it to take it's own course in the friendship. :)
Even my parents had to earn mine, it wasn't a given. wine
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Aug 3, 2009 9:43 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
cameraman: I'm sure everyone is still respectful. It's just harder to give it if they don't get it.
It's also with a variety of interpretation and boundaries lol
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Aug 3, 2009 9:45 AM CST Is the word respect . . . . and practice of it
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
avecaim: I gave away something that I think will help me respect myself and other (actually I taped it to my moniter with a big NO on it). I don't know what I am going to do in an hour but I am determined not to disrespect anyone today. NO smoking!!!!!!!


If you have Cream of Tarter, put a 1/2 tsp in a glass of orange juice every morning for a week to a week and a half. It flushes the old nicotine out of your system, which gets you over the cravings faster. Warning, though, you'll pee brown for a while as it flushes out...but after a week, week and a half of this, no more cravings.

I just had a friend tell me of this remedy the other day, and according to him it's worked well for him and a couple of others.

Oh, Cream of Tartar is a spice...if you don't have it, go get it today and use it as soon as you get home, then every morning for the remainder of the week or so.

Good luck, Ave. hug bouquet
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