Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone ( Archived) (228)

Aug 16, 2009 12:31 PM CSTCan You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone

Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone(Vote Below)

- (To Vote: select an option above, then press this button)
Yes
69
45%
No
38
25%
Unsure
15
10%
Yes it has happend to me
18
12%
we had to meet first
8
5%
No, but I love God
4
3%
Total Votes
152
If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?

Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect!dunno doh grin And maybe we can all learn something








confused uh oh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:34 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
Sure you can......grin
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:35 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
lonelyheart5150
lonelyheart5150lonelyheart5150somewhere, Pennsylvania USA20 Threads 198 Posts
yes, fall for the heart
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:38 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
You can fall in love before meeting. The question is who are you falling in love with?

The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:38 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
I believe we can. A certain kind of love can be achieved before actually meeting. I believe once you meet, the love will either deepen, grow and flourish or could actually fizzle.

There's many different kinds of love. Love for your siblings, your parents, your friends, your pet, and your partner. All in different intensities and to different degrees.

May we all find the love we are looking for.

purple heart
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:41 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
sleepin_bird
sleepin_birdsleepin_birdVilvoorde, Flemish Brabant Belgium167 Posts
dazzling_dave: You can fall in love before meeting. The question is who are you falling in love with?

The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.

Nicely put thumbs up
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:42 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
This was something that i had discussed with another member, but wanted to see if it was TRUE, or Infatuation, as i did feel it was so possible, but really wanted more input, and Thanks for all your answers and Opinions, Greatfully Appricatedhandshake wow teddybear
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:43 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?

Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something


All things are most likely possible, so there would be things about everyone to love. There are aspects of their character to love, such as their humour, or stoicism, honesty, earnestness, tenacity etc.

Meeting someone can happen in many way too. When people talk, or use webcams, theya re communicating just as they would in RL, just at a distance of miles/kilometers.

When people type, it is no idfferent to when people wrote letters years ago and grew to love things about each other.

I am going to leave God out of this because most people relationship with their God is one of subservience and pleading rather than the two way street of love. To explain it better I will ask the question, "what do you do for God?" (that is not motivated by self interest).wine
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:44 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
No,but lust alongside strong feelings impeaded by our limited senses can be a very strong emotion.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:45 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Think it's dangerously easy to fall in love with the idea of falling in love.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:54 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
I am not New to Love, as I Am 48 yrs old, was married for 17 yrs, and togather for 22 yrs, I also spent alot of time studying Love and the didderent Types of Love, I even did a thread on the different types of Love consist Of Eros, Phileo, Agape , and on other that doesnt come to mind, so I am No Teenage kid asking this Question, I am a Mature Adult wit 2 grown Childrenbouquet
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:54 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
lonelyheart5150
lonelyheart5150lonelyheart5150somewhere, Pennsylvania USA20 Threads 198 Posts
chat dating is good, get to know then amke plan to see, buit hey alls fair in love and war
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:55 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
Sure, I can fall in love with someone without meeting them, even God. conversing All they need to be is truthful and honest in their profile and in the Bible.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:57 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
prussiafox
prussiafoxprussiafoxRuidoso, New Mexico USA52 Posts
Erroneous and conflicting.

The title is can you fall in love with someone before meeting them, then you say

"If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?"

They have nothing to do with each other.

You met God when he created you, before you were born, so one does not apply to the other.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:58 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
lonelyheart5150: chat dating is good, get to know then amke plan to see, buit hey alls fair in love and war



True...........bouquet
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 12:58 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
LIVEVIL
LIVEVILLIVEVILFt.Pierce, Florida USA1 Threads 77 Posts
Yes you can buuut,the person you meet could be entirely different than they were when you met them online or letters. It's very risky imho.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:10 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
cameraman: Sure, I can fall in love with someone without meeting them, even God. All they need to be is truthful and honest in their profile and in the Bible.



I like you answer, Thanksthumbs up cool
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:12 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
For sure thumbs up I am loved up by so many great guys on here the only prob is getting them on the same continent as me doh
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:23 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
prussiafox: Erroneous and conflicting.

The title is can you fall in love with someone before meeting them, then you say

"If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?"

They have nothing to do with each other.

You met God when he created you, before you were born, so one does not apply to the other.





No one has ever SEEN God, but God the One and Only, John 1:18
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:23 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?

Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something


I think you can become deeply INFATUATED by a person's better qualities when there is distance but real life is a different matter, when you really get to Meet the REAL PERSON, sometimes they are the same as online, sometimes totally different. I think the TRUE LOVE part comes when you actually get to spend some time together without a computer screen between you. JMO.wine
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:25 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Brian67
Brian67Brian67Aurora, Ontario Canada7 Threads 295 Posts
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?

Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something



How are you kidding many love me on CSdevil and never meet me.doh rolling on the floor laughing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:25 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Brian67
Brian67Brian67Aurora, Ontario Canada7 Threads 295 Posts
Brian67: How are you kidding many love me on CS and never meet me.


UPS Who
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:29 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
wildprotector
wildprotectorwildprotectorHobart, Tasmania Australia24 Threads 7 Polls 352 Posts
trust your heart..if it says it is love ..then you are in love..
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:31 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
wildprotector
wildprotectorwildprotectorHobart, Tasmania Australia24 Threads 7 Polls 352 Posts
tainogirl: I think you can become deeply INFATUATED by a person's better qualities when there is distance but real life is a different matter, when you really get to Meet the REAL PERSON, sometimes they are the same as online, sometimes totally different. I think the TRUE LOVE part comes when you actually get to spend some time together without a computer screen between you. JMO.


yes but can you say what is real?professor
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:32 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
wildprotector
wildprotectorwildprotectorHobart, Tasmania Australia24 Threads 7 Polls 352 Posts
Brian67: How are you kidding many love me on CS and never meet me.


sweet dreamstongue
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:32 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
wildprotector: yes but can you say what is real?

Say what is real about what ?
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:33 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
tainogirl: I think you can become deeply INFATUATED by a person's better qualities when there is distance but real life is a different matter, when you really get to Meet the REAL PERSON, sometimes they are the same as online, sometimes totally different. I think the TRUE LOVE part comes when you actually get to spend some time together without a computer screen between you. JMO.



Well no need for the PC once you meet.....Indeed need to spend some quality time together...yay teddybear
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:39 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
lonelyheart5150
lonelyheart5150lonelyheart5150somewhere, Pennsylvania USA20 Threads 198 Posts
quality intimate time
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:41 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
prussiafox
prussiafoxprussiafoxRuidoso, New Mexico USA52 Posts
HotrodLarrys: No one has ever SEEN God, but God the One and Only, John 1:18


Job 31:15 -- Did not He who made me in the womb make them? Did not the same One fashion us in the womb?

Job 33:4 -- The Spirit of God has made me, And the breath of the Almighty gives me life.

Psalms 139:13 -- For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother's womb.

Psalms 139:16 -- Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them.


And that's just a few.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:41 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
This is "NOT" just about ME, it is For many! To learn From, so all opinions, just help ALL OF US TO SEE SOMETHING, as we are all in this Online Dating togather, this thread may give insite to many, so all opinions welcome, thanks tanio 4 yours too!drinking typing popcorn popcorn
------ This poll is Archived ------
Aug 16, 2009 1:44 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
HotrodLarrys: This is "NOT" just about ME, it is For many! To learn From, so all opinions, just help ALL OF US TO SEE SOMETHING, as we are all in this Online Dating togather, this thread may give insite to many, so all opinions welcome, thanks tanio 4 yours too!
I think you can fall in love before meeting someone. But the deep, lasting , forever love comes with time together.
------ This poll is Archived ------

This Poll is Archived

This Poll is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Poll get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
Message #318

Stats for this Poll

152 Votes
4,387 Views
228 Comments
Created: Aug 2009
Last Viewed: 2 hrs ago
Last Commented: Aug 2009
Last Voted: Jul 2017

Share this Poll

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here