I say it depends on where the relationship is. I've had a guy ask me where my "pleasure spots" are (as he tried to politely phrase them) after he gave me a good night kiss at the door on our first date. These subjects are by no-means taboo ( and if they are I feel like that just makes things that much more ackward for everyone) just at an appropriate time is all us "silly" females ask
more like ..."dont we all wish we had a partner so we could find it uncomfortable when our partners ask us what our most intament likes and dislikes are"?
descretshyguy: I personally think that it is important to know. When you love someone you want to please them to the best of your ability.
I agree I would even go as far as to ask before being intimate so you will know where you both stand on your experience's`s and if his pride and ego may feel bruise because you are or not may be telling him something he thinks he knows already
I've had the experience of having a guy want me to fill out a checklist! Pfft! Way to kill the romance, dude.
Honestly, I don't want to be asked directly what my intimate likes and dislikes are. Be in tune with me and gauge my reactions.
How do I respond when you stick your big, thick tongue down my throat for a goodnight kiss? Am I pulling away from you? Duh! Get that tongue back in your own mouth. THEN try the kiss again. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmuch better. See? Wasn't so hard to figure out my "intimate likes and dislikes" now, was it?
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Do you find it uncomfortable when your partner ask what your most intament likes and dislikes are?(Vote Below)