Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you? ( Archived) (31)

Jan 25, 2010 10:21 AM CSTLadies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts

Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?(Vote Below)

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Married the one I don't love
6
13%
Wait for the one I love, hope he change his mind
39
87%
Total Votes
45
Sometimes it's hard for some woman to wait for someone they really love but don't want to marry them
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Jan 25, 2010 10:22 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
llufir
llufirllufirtaipei, Taipei Taiwan6 Posts
neithersigh
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Jan 25, 2010 10:29 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Kalimera
KalimeraKalimeraDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1,708 Posts
MeryChen: Sometimes it's hard for some woman to wait for someone they really love but don't want to marry them



Why is there none of the above option?
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Jan 25, 2010 10:40 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
fizzy
fizzyfizzyPerth, Western Australia Australia39 Posts
I don't think it's important to get married.

If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.

Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.
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Jan 25, 2010 10:44 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.

If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.

Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.


thumbs up yup... you said it
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Jan 25, 2010 10:44 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
How about move on from both situations and find a man who loves you and wants to marry you (if marriage is important to you)
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Jan 25, 2010 10:47 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
fishitfun
fishitfunfishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait31 Threads 646 Posts
Let me ask any indians or pakistanis they are expert in this kind of commitments. hehe
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Jan 25, 2010 10:48 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
jbibiza: How about move on from both situations and find a man who loves you and wants to marry you (if marriage is important to you)
Call me a cynic if you like. But why make lawyers richer.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 25, 2010 10:52 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Neither of the above.I'd rather have someone who loved me instead.
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Jan 26, 2010 1:31 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
llufir: neither


Yeah, forget to put neither at the poll choice handshake
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Jan 26, 2010 1:40 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
Kalimera: Why is there none of the above option?


Maybe sometimes in life, we have no other choice.. crying
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Jan 26, 2010 1:47 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.

If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.

Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.



Yeah, actually marriage also not important to me.. but it's important for my family.. our culture always asking us to get married.. my parents will fear that no body want to married their daughter.. that's why there is so much unhappy married woman in my country.. just wish I could break the rule.. doh
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Jan 26, 2010 1:48 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
RobertC2: How come you're looking so damn miserable in your main profile pic then?

How're you doing, buddy?

I'm just about to book a flight for this coming weekend to Cyprus so I can check out the lovely tomboygirl and her mates; should be a laugh a minute I reckon!

I like the flight from Malta to Cyprus; it's with Emirates airline and the service is good and all the drinks are free! Yay!


book it allready!!!frustrated

laugh grin
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Jan 26, 2010 1:50 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
jbibiza: How about move on from both situations and find a man who loves you and wants to marry you (if marriage is important to you)


Yup, marriage is important for my parent (not too important for me)
I think yeah, I should move on from both situations.. thanks
hug
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Jan 26, 2010 2:07 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
patmac: Call me a cynic if you like. But why make lawyers richer.


Hahaha.. but it's important in my country to make lawyers rich.. yay
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Jan 26, 2010 2:35 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
RobertC2:
I guess it's a bit of 'like father like son' but he's just so 'desperate' if you see what I mean!¬ Still, you should find a decent young man - not a dirty old man like me or my dastardly son seekndestroy.

Good luck!


Robert

I don't think you are that old and dirty? you looked clean hahaha.. laugh
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Jan 26, 2010 2:38 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
MeryChen
MeryChenMeryChenJakarta, Indonesia5 Threads 1 Polls 192 Posts
somechick: Neither of the above.I'd rather have someone who loved me instead.


thumbs up hug
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Feb 1, 2010 1:59 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Surelite
SureliteSureliteLondon, Greater London, England UK1 Posts
There was a third option left out of this poll; personally both reason's would be a signal to move on a find a someone who truly loves me as much as I do them. I found a quote yesterday that said, "You should marry someone who loves you rather than you being in loving with them!" Must have been written by someone who married for companionship rather than 'love' believing that true love had forsaken them.

I believe to attract 'soul love- a soul mate' we need to be emotionally warm and loving while displaying even more positive traits hypes up our magnetism, because it is a fact that like attracts alike, in tune with our true natures. So if anything we need to work on our positive traits and overhaul parts of our personalities that pushes people away. Understanding why your previous relationship failed helps as well as recognising the role that you played in the break up, also gives major clues what we failed to deal with, because none of us are entirely innocent. Knowing our part, helps us clarify what we need to change within ourselves, in order to attract a very different and more loving relationship experience next time round.

MeryChen: Sometimes it's hard for some woman to wait for someone they really love but don't want to marry them
teddybear
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Feb 1, 2010 2:32 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Out of these two options (although I can't for the life of me imagine why I'd need to make such a choice) - I'd choose the first one. Some years ago I'd have said definitely #2, but I've learned a few things since. conversing
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Feb 1, 2010 4:59 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.

If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.

Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.


AMEN ! I agree with you 110%
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Feb 1, 2010 5:10 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
I'm not waiting for anyone....moving quickly on...super
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Feb 1, 2010 5:52 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.

If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.

Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.


Smart Girl!!!cheering
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Feb 1, 2010 6:20 AM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.

If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.

Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.
well said and agree thumbs up cool
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Feb 1, 2010 8:46 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
stefonline: I'm not waiting for anyone....moving quickly on...


And if you don't mind tellin me las, wher did ye find the wee lasses by your side? kiss
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Feb 5, 2010 4:36 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
angelface123
angelface123angelface123somewhere, Arkansas USA3 Threads 350 Posts
sigh angel neither
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Feb 5, 2010 4:45 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Weimarlady: Out of these two options (although I can't for the life of me imagine why I'd need to make such a choice) - I'd choose the first one. Some years ago I'd have said definitely #2, but I've learned a few things since.



~woof~
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Feb 5, 2010 5:02 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Rafi789
Rafi789Rafi789Toronto, Ontario Canada4 Posts
fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.

If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.

Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.


hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured. heart wings
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Feb 5, 2010 5:17 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
Rafi789: hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured.


Rafi.... be afraid..... be very afraid very mad very mad
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Feb 5, 2010 5:23 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Rafi789: hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured.

I really hope so....devil

(I need just the green card...grin
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Feb 5, 2010 5:39 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
Kalimera: Why is there none of the above option?


In many countries Marriage is the only option for a girl to have any kind of life. Unfortunately women are still treated as property in many backward countries, so even that does not guarantee anything but servitude. very mad
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Feb 5, 2010 5:48 PM CST Ladies, married the man you don't love or wait for a man you love but won't marry you?
Angelo9
Angelo9Angelo9Dublin, Ireland8 Threads 688 Posts
Rafi789: hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured.

Well, lookee here, it's the self-appointed world expert on women, wittering on yet again...yawn
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