fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.
If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.
Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.
Yeah, actually marriage also not important to me.. but it's important for my family.. our culture always asking us to get married.. my parents will fear that no body want to married their daughter.. that's why there is so much unhappy married woman in my country.. just wish I could break the rule..
RobertC2: How come you're looking so damn miserable in your main profile pic then?
How're you doing, buddy?
I'm just about to book a flight for this coming weekend to Cyprus so I can check out the lovely tomboygirl and her mates; should be a laugh a minute I reckon!
I like the flight from Malta to Cyprus; it's with Emirates airline and the service is good and all the drinks are free! Yay!
RobertC2: I guess it's a bit of 'like father like son' but he's just so 'desperate' if you see what I mean!¬ Still, you should find a decent young man - not a dirty old man like me or my dastardly son seekndestroy.
Good luck!
Robert
I don't think you are that old and dirty? you looked clean hahaha..
There was a third option left out of this poll; personally both reason's would be a signal to move on a find a someone who truly loves me as much as I do them. I found a quote yesterday that said, "You should marry someone who loves you rather than you being in loving with them!" Must have been written by someone who married for companionship rather than 'love' believing that true love had forsaken them.
I believe to attract 'soul love- a soul mate' we need to be emotionally warm and loving while displaying even more positive traits hypes up our magnetism, because it is a fact that like attracts alike, in tune with our true natures. So if anything we need to work on our positive traits and overhaul parts of our personalities that pushes people away. Understanding why your previous relationship failed helps as well as recognising the role that you played in the break up, also gives major clues what we failed to deal with, because none of us are entirely innocent. Knowing our part, helps us clarify what we need to change within ourselves, in order to attract a very different and more loving relationship experience next time round.
MeryChen: Sometimes it's hard for some woman to wait for someone they really love but don't want to marry them
Out of these two options (although I can't for the life of me imagine why I'd need to make such a choice) - I'd choose the first one. Some years ago I'd have said definitely #2, but I've learned a few things since.
Weimarlady: Out of these two options (although I can't for the life of me imagine why I'd need to make such a choice) - I'd choose the first one. Some years ago I'd have said definitely #2, but I've learned a few things since.
fizzy: I don't think it's important to get married.
If I loved someone, and they didn't want to get married, I'd respect that and just be happy being with them.
Marriage isn't important to me. I'd rather be alone than be with someone I didn't love and who didn't love me.
hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured.
Rafi789: hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured.
Rafi789: hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured.
In many countries Marriage is the only option for a girl to have any kind of life. Unfortunately women are still treated as property in many backward countries, so even that does not guarantee anything but servitude.
Rafi789: hehe. You don't see too many older women speaking like that. Unless they are really ugly, once a woman reaches 35 she will marry anybody that's not severely disfigured.
Well, lookee here, it's the self-appointed world expert on women, wittering on yet again...
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