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Jan 30, 2010 6:52 AM CSTIs it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida, USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts

Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you(Vote Below)

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No I like keeping my own place.
14
19%
Yes I want them there all the time.
19
26%
Will they help pay the bills?
6
8%
I think it would be nice idea.
24
33%
Who really cares I just want someone.
9
12%
Total Votes
72
I really would like a long term relationship with someone. I am just not sure about actually living with them. I want someone to enjoy time with and still keep my own home. This has been a big problem in previous relationships. I live a really quiet life. And kind of like it that way. dunno
PS- I am self supporting. Not rich but can take care of me.
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Jan 30, 2010 6:53 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Not important...
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Jan 30, 2010 6:54 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
rubyfruit
rubyfruitrubyfruitMICHIGAN, Michigan USA2 Threads 456 Posts
i think it just depends on how you both feel about it
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Jan 30, 2010 6:58 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
thewall2: Not important...


Thank you. I was starting to think it was just me.
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Jan 30, 2010 6:59 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
rubyfruit: i think it just depends on how you both feel about it


You are right. I am a slow mover and everyone seems to be in such a rush. I think I could do it. Move in with someone. But for some reason the thought makes me hypervenilate. moping
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Jan 30, 2010 7:02 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
tennesseejudy
tennesseejudytennesseejudyJohnson City, Tennessee USA54 Threads 2 Polls 1,540 Posts
Happygolucky4u: You are right. I am a slow mover and everyone seems to be in such a rush. I think I could do it. Move in with someone. But for some reason the thought makes me hypervenilate.


Nothing wrong with being a slow mover...do what feels right for youhug
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Jan 30, 2010 7:05 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
rubyfruit
rubyfruitrubyfruitMICHIGAN, Michigan USA2 Threads 456 Posts
Happygolucky4u: You are right. I am a slow mover and everyone seems to be in such a rush. I think I could do it. Move in with someone. But for some reason the thought makes me hypervenilate.
yes just take your time cause that is a big step just think about it good luck
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Jan 30, 2010 7:06 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Happygolucky4u: You are right. I am a slow mover and everyone seems to be in such a rush. I think I could do it. Move in with someone. But for some reason the thought makes me hypervenilate.


lol doll-same here believe me!all that extra washing ect..
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Jan 30, 2010 7:06 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
tennesseejudy: Nothing wrong with being a slow mover...do what feels right for you


Thank you. Just would like to know someone first. Was married before for twenty years and we dated a few years before that. I never regretted letting him in. But it took a year for me to let him unpacklaugh
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Jan 30, 2010 7:09 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
tomboygirl: lol doll-same here believe me!all that extra washing ect..


Hmmm. Now that is something I had not thought about. Extra work. Now I will most likely be even slower. But seriously Thank you that is something to take in mind. doh
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Jan 30, 2010 7:10 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
tennesseejudy
tennesseejudytennesseejudyJohnson City, Tennessee USA54 Threads 2 Polls 1,540 Posts
Happygolucky4u: Thank you. Just would like to know someone first. Was married before for twenty years and we dated a few years before that. I never regretted letting him in. But it took a year for me to let him unpack


I think Ooby made a very good point here.
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Jan 30, 2010 7:12 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
wink Now that is a thought!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 30, 2010 8:15 AM CST Is it important in a long term relationship to have the person live under the same roof as you
jdc5558
jdc5558jdc5558Williamsburg, Indiana USA5 Threads 152 Posts
tomboygirl: lol doll-same here believe me!all that extra washing ect..


Washing?? You mean finding a lover means I don't have to do laundry any more? wow

I do my own laundry and keep the house reasonably clean too.
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