what did you do when your partner said to you they need some space (65)
I am still single.
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jeepers: I am still single.
yip yip me too
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coors01: yip yip me too
You still need your space ? 
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open the door for them there is plenty of space on the outside for them. 
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Nobody has ever said that to me, but I have!
It wasn´t because I wanted to move on either, I just needed to spend time with friends which my jealous partner at the time didn´t understand, or couldn´t accept.
I did end the relationship eventually because he wasn´t prepared to let me go a little, so asking for space isn´t always a signal that someone wants to split up with their partner and should be listened to.
It wasn´t because I wanted to move on either, I just needed to spend time with friends which my jealous partner at the time didn´t understand, or couldn´t accept.
I did end the relationship eventually because he wasn´t prepared to let me go a little, so asking for space isn´t always a signal that someone wants to split up with their partner and should be listened to.
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told him it was fine,
and also stated i wasnt waitin around for him
turned out we spoke more when he was havin his space than we ever did
and also stated i wasnt waitin around for him
turned out we spoke more when he was havin his space than we ever did
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p1259: happy days and long live love,just curious to see if anyone did what i did and how they handled it when they realiased it was really over.i find that ninety nine percent of the time they really want to break up with you but would rather the other person called it off as time goes by.soon as i heard those words i prepared myself for a new start three weeks later with someone else.
lock her up in a very small box.. for a month
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p1259: happy days and long live love,just curious to see if anyone did what i did and how they handled it when they realiased it was really over.i find that ninety nine percent of the time they really want to break up with you but would rather the other person called it off as time goes by.soon as i heard those words i prepared myself for a new start three weeks later with someone else.
I agree that I believe this is dating language for go away and don't come back.
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GIVE ME SOME SPACE- was the IQ of seventh graders, that was the code for kids to END a relationship, adults have adopted it to mean the same thing... 
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JAN_is: No it´s not! See my previous post.
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BlainX: GIVE ME SOME SPACE- was the IQ of seventh graders, that was the code for kids to END a relationship, adults have adopted it to mean the same thing...
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BlainX: GIVE ME SOME SPACE- was the IQ of seventh graders, that was the code for kids to END a relationship, adults have adopted it to mean the same thing...
Ditto....I agree. Loving partners in a relationship don't need space. If so, they need to stay together and work out the issues. If not, move on and get out.
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JAN_is: No it´s not! See my previous post.
Many times I get a great deal of wisdom from your thoughts and ideas, but have been concerned a little about something. It seems that you challenge almost everything I say, and I'd like to know if there is another way for me to share my thoughts and opinions that would be more acceptable to you? I am willing to say it may be a method of communicating on my part. However, I feel I have much to say and also like to be validated. 
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Big_John: Ditto....I agree. Loving partners in a relationship don't need space. If so, they need to stay together and work out the issues. If not, move on and get out.
Right on, John. When two people are in a loving relationship, and in fine tune with one another (this should come naturally) then allowing each other some solitude shouldn't even be a topic. (They'll know when, where, why, etc.. without it being a major production).
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When they want it, they want it, give it to them..
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rohaan: Many times I get a great deal of wisdom from your thoughts and ideas, but have been concerned a little about something. It seems that you challenge almost everything I say, and I'd like to know if there is another way for me to share my thoughts and opinions that would be more acceptable to you? I am willing to say it may be a method of communicating on my part. However, I feel I have much to say and also like to be validated.
I think that´s simply your imagination. I don´t go out of my way to disagree with you at all. I generally like reading your posts.
I challenge many people here, that´s my way, partly because I disagree, but often because people here don´t always see the bigger picture in my opinion.
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I have not had that said to me but if I did I am OUT the door or planning to that is just a nice way of saying I want someone else thats how I see it 
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It's very similiar, to I want to be friends. You run, don't walk away from them.
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doberman3: It's very similiar, to I want to be friends. You run, don't walk away from them.
I agree when a lady tells me they simply want to be my friend. Ouch!!!! Urgh.....
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JAN_is: Nobody has ever said that to me, but I have!
It wasn´t because I wanted to move on either, I just needed to spend time with friends which my jealous partner at the time didn´t understand, or couldn´t accept.
I did end the relationship eventually because he wasn´t prepared to let me go a little, so asking for space isn´t always a signal that someone wants to split up with their partner and should be listened to.
It wasn´t because I wanted to move on either, I just needed to spend time with friends which my jealous partner at the time didn´t understand, or couldn´t accept.
I did end the relationship eventually because he wasn´t prepared to let me go a little, so asking for space isn´t always a signal that someone wants to split up with their partner and should be listened to.
Exactly, everybody needs time and space to themselves. once the honeymoon phase is over you don't need to be together every second.
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Go home. cry a lot. Try to figure out how to take her picture off your nightstand. Wonder why there's just not enough music to fill the house. I guess I'm not as tough as most cs'ers
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JAN_is: I think that´s simply your imagination. I don´t go out of my way to disagree with you at all. I generally like reading your posts.
I challenge many people here, that´s my way, partly because I disagree, but often because people here don´t always see the bigger picture in my opinion.
Hey you! I thought you left this veil of tears. Are you still playing "hide the thermometer"?I challenge many people here, that´s my way, partly because I disagree, but often because people here don´t always see the bigger picture in my opinion.
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ooby_dooby: Hey you! I thought you left this veil of tears. Are you still playing "hide the thermometer"?
Yep, I lurk occasionally, and it´s a big mistake because I can´t help contributing my two cents sometimes!
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p1259: happy days and long live love,just curious to see if anyone did what i did and how they handled it when they realiased it was really over.i find that ninety nine percent of the time they really want to break up with you but would rather the other person called it off as time goes by.soon as i heard those words i prepared myself for a new start three weeks later with someone else.
just gave them their space all the time. I haver had anyone say that to me. The break ups I have had were for other reasons - more well defined, I guess is a way to put it.
But I would always recommend giving all the people in your life as much space - figuratively speaking - as they need - but that's just me
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give them their space, but I find they don't want you to be out and about...
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give them space beside you 
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Kattsrose: Exactly, everybody needs time and space to themselves. once the honeymoon phase is over you don't need to be together every second.
Yes, that´s true. Everybody needs space, we are all individuals with different needs, regardless of whether we are in a relationship or not.
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bob1959: Go home. cry a lot. Try to figure out how to take her picture off your nightstand. Wonder why there's just not enough music to fill the house. I guess I'm not as tough as most cs'ers
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tell them...i have lots of space beside me 
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