yep only a new interest will send the old one to the grave that he has so carefully dug for himself
meet new people, even if just as friends.. and do not rush into anything as you might ruin a potential partnership if you treat it as a rebound
this guy will dump you the minute he has found what he is looking for, trust me.. so prepare yourself mentally for that moment and visualize what he will say and you will say and how you will walk out of his life forever
He supposedly has found what he is looking for thats why he has gone again and that's why it hurts so damn much. I am not handling this too well at the moment.
It does get better, I promise you. It might take a long time, but the quicker you pick yourself up and figure out what you want for yourself, the quicker you will recover from your heartbreak.
I know, that sounds like grey theory right now, but it's true. I wish you strength, you will get through this!
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
My heart was broken for a long time....and I mean a LONG time ! Then I grew up and realized that I was sure wasting a lot of energy on something that wasn't meant to be.
My heart is a surviver like me, we beat together and share a life of happiness and sorrow, but how we mend together gets better all the time, wiser and still hopeful in spite of all the b.s. that runs down stream past us, and sometimes we just watch it flow by...time for reflection...and other times we revel in the joy of life, it's all good...
jeepers: My heart was broken for a long time....and I mean a LONG time ! Then I grew up and realized that I was sure wasting a lot of energy on something that wasn't meant to be.
Now I'm all happy !
I did the same thing to myself - the only one I was robbing was me. He was happy and moved on with his life. I was still stuck in the heartache for many years. I'm good now because it was an "aha" moment that set me free.
My self-worth and happiness isn't dependent on another - yes, I may grieve them leaving my life, but its not the end of my world. My heart goes on and so does life.
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