pgagandeep: yes: i wnt to knw about CS member is agree with this statement of CS internet dating
I try and keep an open mind about first and last impressions...
It's easy for some of those to put on a really great first impression at the start and end up being a total mismatch/liar or a turd in the end (especially f#$%^&$ scammers)
And other times, you might get a real genuine person who doesn't necessarily make the best first impression, but ends up being really good to you in the end.
Differs from one to another, but I have to say if you can get somebody who makes both impressions well, then you've struck gold.
pgagandeep: yes: i wnt to knw about CS member is agree with this statement of CS internet dating
First impressions are rarely correct. It takes getting to know a person over time, in order to make a true decision about their character. Sometimes that even takes years.
People make judgements about you within 30 seconds, you have maybe 2 minutes to change their minds. I may look at someone without speaking to them, I may dismiss them. It is wrong, but happens all the time. And depends upon circumstances. May be forced to get to know someone..might even like them after a while.
pgagandeep: First impression is last impression" do you agree with this statement? I want to know about CS member is agree with this statement of CS internet dating
No, don't agree. I met guy a few months go. Didn't feel any excitement, attraction, at all. Totally neutral. Now I've gotten to know him and I am very attracted. Think he is too..... Next step.....
I agree with your general principle of my first impression determines how I will feel about somebody. I believe that the chemistry and spark has to be there from the beginning. Maybe it can grow over time, but why get involved with someone for a period of time and it doesn't grow?
I've heard that if you're talking in terms of a job interview yes First impressions can sometimes make a difference or mean that you either get the job or not getting the job.
Big_John: I agree with your general principle of my first impression determines how I will feel about somebody. I believe that the chemistry and spark has to be there from the beginning. Maybe it can grow over time, but why get involved with someone for a period of time and it doesn't grow?
If you are not looking for an attraction, but just meeting people in everyday life, and you meet someone, through friends, or work, or an organization you belong to, or a neighbor, you may not feel that spark or chemistry. But, when you get to know the person, you can become attracted. I think about people who depend so much on the 'spark' and most of them either have short lived relationships or are divorced, so I don't get why they think it is so important, more important than getting to know someone first. If the only way you meet women is by the internet and a first date or meet thing, and you think getting to know someone can be a waste of time, that's too bad. Really too bad.
If you are not looking for an attraction, but just meeting people in everyday life, and you meet someone, through friends, or work, or an organization you belong to, or a neighbor, you may not feel that spark or chemistry. But, when you get to know the person, you can become attracted. I think about people who depend so much on the 'spark' and most of them either have short lived relationships or are divorced, so I don't get why they think it is so important, more important than getting to know someone first. If the only way you meet women is by the internet and a first date or meet thing, and you think getting to know someone can be a waste of time, that's too bad. Really too bad.[/quote
I agree . People judge to quickly. Sometimes people are not as they seem.
Some end up being kind and loving
while others seem ok, but over time you find out they are ugly ,bitter,down deep rotten to the core
angelface1234: If you are not looking for an attraction, but just meeting people in everyday life, and you meet someone, through friends, or work, or an organization you belong to, or a neighbor, you may not feel that spark or chemistry. But, when you get to know the person, you can become attracted. I think about people who depend so much on the 'spark' and most of them either have short lived relationships or are divorced, so I don't get why they think it is so important, more important than getting to know someone first. If the only way you meet women is by the internet and a first date or meet thing, and you think getting to know someone can be a waste of time, that's too bad. Really too bad.[/quote I agree . People judge to quickly. Sometimes people are not as they seem.
Some end up being kind and loving
while others seem ok, but over time you find out they are ugly ,bitter,down deep rotten to the core
Zuleika: Are you complementing her on what she said or me on what I said, which was in her post but she didn't put quotes around it?
This was me, not angleface:
In response to: If you are not looking for an attraction, but just meeting people in everyday life, and you meet someone, through friends, or work, or an organization you belong to, or a neighbor, you may not feel that spark or chemistry. But, when you get to know the person, you can become attracted. I think about people who depend so much on the 'spark' and most of them either have short lived relationships or are divorced, so I don't get why they think it is so important, more important than getting to know someone first. If the only way you meet women is by the internet and a first date or meet thing, and you think getting to know someone can be a waste of time, that's too bad. Really too bad
Zuleika: If you are not looking for an attraction, but just meeting people in everyday life, and you meet someone, through friends, or work, or an organization you belong to, or a neighbor, you may not feel that spark or chemistry. But, when you get to know the person, you can become attracted. I think about people who depend so much on the 'spark' and most of them either have short lived relationships or are divorced, so I don't get why they think it is so important, more important than getting to know someone first. If the only way you meet women is by the internet and a first date or meet thing, and you think getting to know someone can be a waste of time, that's too bad. Really too bad.
I agree with your statement concerning meeting someone other than on a date. If you are not together for a date the chemistry and spark doesn't have to be there. Attraction can grow in these situations.
Big_John: I agree with your statement concerning meeting someone other than on a date. If you are not together for a date the chemistry and spark doesn't have to be there. Attraction can grow in these situations.
Which I know from other times, and now it has happened to me again....
mickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK2,075 posts
i disagree!! i met a women at a party an could not leave her alone...she was stunning i brought her back to mine..fun was had by all... until the following morning..when i awoke to see her without her makeup... which she kindly left all over my bedding!!
mickybwoy: i disagree!! i met a women at a party an could not leave her alone...she was stunning i brought her back to mine..fun was had by all... until the following morning..when i awoke to see her without her makeup... which she kindly left all over my bedding!!
mickybwoy: i disagree!! i met a women at a party an could not leave her alone...she was stunning i brought her back to mine..fun was had by all... until the following morning..when i awoke to see her without her makeup... which she kindly left all over my bedding!!
Best place to meet women and know what they look like UNDER the makeup?? The gym, the jogging park, the hairdresser's...
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