I am going to go out on a limb here and tell something,I said looks and most times that is what draws most people to other people and if you say it dosen't then I would have to disagree with you,it is not shallow it is human attraction,I once fell for a guy from ireland,and it was not his looks it was his words,we talked every once in a while of everyday things,no nasty no cyber just everyday things and the more we talked,,,well you know how that goes but the point is is this,I did not fall for his looks I fell for him and when I finally saw him? he was not what I would have been drawn to at first sight,seriously.I do however believe that looks are normally what we are first drawn to and really hope like the dickens that the rest is there.
RillyNiceGuy: Fibbers! If Abe Lincoln was alive today.......who would pinch him on the butt first............hmmmmmm!
Ahhhhhh, but the guy who's butt you want to pinch isn't necessarily the guy you want to wind up with!
I voted honest... I can work through most other faults, and I do reply to what you may term the less attractive guys, if I like the way they approached me.
j_goose: And if you ddn't pick #1, why don't you reply to the less attractive people?
It's all about priority, in this case. Very often peole want everything...... I think you forgot affluence, btw. If you did, good for you......
I voted honesty. I find if someone lets you know where you stand, even when it's hurtful, that person has on some level respected your life and given you the freedom to operate free of 'the tangled webs'.
Zeloniy: I guess there are a lot of hurt women here
not at all, I meant that in a very realistic and good way; I also saw the humor in it and the truth; honesty most of the time is in vain anyway, but believe me I am amused; maybe I'm just getting old and senile.
this is acctually quite interesting! "Honesty" is in the lead,,,and I agree it is indeed essential!,,,kind of makes me laugh that "inteligence" is zero!! lol ;-}
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