IS MARRIAGE DEAD.....??? (74)
lucky you,
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No more people are getting married today then ever before.
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jhonalynporte: lucky you,
yes i know...but i did a lot of shopping first
she is the most wonderful person i have ever met
and no one ever spoiled her like i did ...so she really likes me..hahahaha
she says she loves me so much ....and i believe her....she is a pinoy ....so yes i am very lucky and blessed
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demonfairy: No more people are getting married today then ever before.
yes....but why...since marriages in western culture average 3 to 5 years..
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Yep.....
Sorry K for being so outspoken, but yes, marriage is not only outdated, but also worn out.
If you really love someone you do not need to get married to prove that love.
Just my humble opinion !!
Sorry K for being so outspoken, but yes, marriage is not only outdated, but also worn out.
If you really love someone you do not need to get married to prove that love.
Just my humble opinion !!
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I don't believe marriage is dead but I do believe that commitment is dead tho.
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dadvic: yes....but why...since marriages in western culture average 3 to 5 years..
People dont try to put the effert into working threw problems when they arise,it seems its easyer to get a divorce.But in any marriage there will be some ups and downs,you both have to give 110% and talk to each other.I have learned alot about men by reading there profiles,i was suprised at some of the things that they enjoy doing with a woman.
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dadvic: yes....but why...since marriages in western culture average 3 to 5 years..
I don't see this as anything to laugh about. When marriages fail it is very sad. Many of our fellow CS'ers are in this situation.
Marriage is alive and well. Many of us still believe in it and can make them work.
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Englishman55: Yep.....
Sorry K for being so outspoken, but yes, marriage is not only outdated, but also worn out.
If you really love someone you do not need to get married to prove that love.
Just my humble opinion !!
Sorry K for being so outspoken, but yes, marriage is not only outdated, but also worn out.
If you really love someone you do not need to get married to prove that love.
Just my humble opinion !!
no apology is necessary P.......thanks for your thoughts...
it seems there is something wrong with the institution???
and relationships ....seem to be just for a term...not for life..
which raises the question.....should it be for life????
again ..thanks P for your post
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demonfairy: People dont try to put the effert into working threw problems when they arise,it seems its easyer to get a divorce.But in any marriage there will be some ups and downs,you both have to give 110% and talk to each other.I have learned alot about men by reading there profiles,i was suprised at some of the things that they enjoy doing with a woman.
ok ...thanks
and i am surprised too that some girls like to have their hair pulled....while making love..hahaha
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Big_John: I don't see this as anything to laugh about. When marriages fail it is very sad. Many of our fellow CS'ers are in this situation.
Marriage is alive and well. Many of us still believe in it and can make them work.
Marriage is alive and well. Many of us still believe in it and can make them work.
its quite a dilemma....
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dadvic: no apology is necessary P.......thanks for your thoughts...
it seems there is something wrong with the institution??? and relationships ....seem to be just for a term...not for life..
which raises the question.....should it be for life???? again ..thanks P for your post i always respect your thoughts
it seems there is something wrong with the institution??? and relationships ....seem to be just for a term...not for life..
which raises the question.....should it be for life???? again ..thanks P for your post i always respect your thoughts
Yes, for life...... for the life and duration of the relationship.
Anything else is just imagination.
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Speaking for myself..marriage is out of the question..my last partner and I talked about going away somewhere..finding a romantic spot and exchanging vows of our committment to each other.We would also exchange simple bands..sigh..then he got on my nerves!
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nanners2863: Speaking for myself..marriage is out of the question..my last partner and I talked about going away somewhere..finding a romantic spot and exchanging vows of our committment to each other.We would also exchange simple bands..sigh..then he got on my nerves!
Whatever works for two people is the right answer. Sometimes it is marriage because it makes it easier for family and friends; plus it makes legal issues easier.
But I believe a lot of people could live forever as your mentioned.
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nanners2863: Speaking for myself..marriage is out of the question..my last partner and I talked about going away somewhere..finding a romantic spot and exchanging vows of our committment to each other.We would also exchange simple bands..sigh..then he got on my nerves!
LMFAO
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Big_John: Whatever works for two people is the right answer. Sometimes it is marriage because it makes it easier for family and friends; plus it makes legal issues easier.
But I believe a lot of people could live forever as your mentioned.
Thanks John But I believe a lot of people could live forever as your mentioned.
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Englishman55: Yep.....
Sorry K for being so outspoken, but yes, marriage is not only outdated, but also worn out.
If you really love someone you do not need to get married to prove that love.
Just my humble opinion !!
Sorry K for being so outspoken, but yes, marriage is not only outdated, but also worn out.
If you really love someone you do not need to get married to prove that love.
Just my humble opinion !!
Amen! Thank you. I have never been married and never will.
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dadvic: I WAS JUST WONDERING ....WHEN SHE FIRST LEFT AFTER 27 YEARS...I PLANNED TO GET MARRIED THE DAY AFTER THE DIVORCE.....
NOW I HAVE A WONDERFUL GIRLFRIEND....(MAVIC AT C S)...AND I ASKED HER ..WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF MARRIAGE.....????
I GUESS IF SHE WOULD GET SURVIVOR BENEFITS FROM MY PENSION AFTER I GO ...THEN I SEE A VALUE IN IT...OTHERWISE...??
ITS SO LOVEY DOVEY ....BEFORE THE WEDDING....WHY SHOULD I RUIN IT?
I KNOW EVERY GIRL WANTS THE CHURCH WEDDING...WITH HER PRINCE
ITS JUST SUCH A DIFFICULT TOPIC ... WITH SUCH REAL RAMIFICATIONS
NOW I HAVE A WONDERFUL GIRLFRIEND....(MAVIC AT C S)...AND I ASKED HER ..WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF MARRIAGE.....????
I GUESS IF SHE WOULD GET SURVIVOR BENEFITS FROM MY PENSION AFTER I GO ...THEN I SEE A VALUE IN IT...OTHERWISE...??
ITS SO LOVEY DOVEY ....BEFORE THE WEDDING....WHY SHOULD I RUIN IT?
I KNOW EVERY GIRL WANTS THE CHURCH WEDDING...WITH HER PRINCE
ITS JUST SUCH A DIFFICULT TOPIC ... WITH SUCH REAL RAMIFICATIONS
No, I don't. I have never been married and never will.
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demonfairy: No more people are getting married today then ever before.
In north America maybe but not in western Europe. I have lived in 3 countries in western Europe recently and I found the exact opposite. A lot of couples over there these days just live together.
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nanners2863: Speaking for myself..marriage is out of the question..my last partner and I talked about going away somewhere..finding a romantic spot and exchanging vows of our committment to each other.We would also exchange simple bands..sigh..then he got on my nerves!
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It is not dead and can be a wonderful thing you do it not because you have to prove your love but a celebration of the commitment you are making to her and its going to be in writing and before man and God this is why it seems to be dying not many want to make that commitment anymore
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equiya: In north America maybe but not in western Europe. I have lived in 3 countries in western Europe recently and I found the exact opposite. A lot of couples over there these days just live together.
yes its around the world....and where does it last....in countries where divorce is very hard to get.....abandonment is the way ...
it really makes me rethink the whole thing...
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I don't believe marriage is dead but I do believe certain circumstances and even certain laws make it more difficult for some of us to choose to marry.
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dadvic: I WAS JUST WONDERING ....WHEN SHE FIRST LEFT AFTER 27 YEARS...I PLANNED TO GET MARRIED THE DAY AFTER THE DIVORCE.....
NOW I HAVE A WONDERFUL GIRLFRIEND....(MAVIC AT C S)...AND I ASKED HER ..WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF MARRIAGE.....????
I GUESS IF SHE WOULD GET SURVIVOR BENEFITS FROM MY PENSION AFTER I GO ...THEN I SEE A VALUE IN IT...OTHERWISE...??
ITS SO LOVEY DOVEY ....BEFORE THE WEDDING....WHY SHOULD I RUIN IT?
I KNOW EVERY GIRL WANTS THE CHURCH WEDDING...WITH HER PRINCE
ITS JUST SUCH A DIFFICULT TOPIC ... WITH SUCH REAL RAMIFICATIONS
NOW I HAVE A WONDERFUL GIRLFRIEND....(MAVIC AT C S)...AND I ASKED HER ..WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF MARRIAGE.....????
I GUESS IF SHE WOULD GET SURVIVOR BENEFITS FROM MY PENSION AFTER I GO ...THEN I SEE A VALUE IN IT...OTHERWISE...??
ITS SO LOVEY DOVEY ....BEFORE THE WEDDING....WHY SHOULD I RUIN IT?
I KNOW EVERY GIRL WANTS THE CHURCH WEDDING...WITH HER PRINCE
ITS JUST SUCH A DIFFICULT TOPIC ... WITH SUCH REAL RAMIFICATIONS
I don't know if marriage is dead or not but it's certainly not for me.
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Happygolucky4u: I don't believe marriage is dead but I do believe certain circumstances and even certain laws make it more difficult for some of us to choose to marry.
i think you have something there
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dadvic: I WAS JUST WONDERING ....WHEN SHE FIRST LEFT AFTER 27 YEARS...I PLANNED TO GET MARRIED THE DAY AFTER THE DIVORCE.....
NOW I HAVE A WONDERFUL GIRLFRIEND....(MAVIC AT C S)...AND I ASKED HER ..WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF MARRIAGE.....????
I GUESS IF SHE WOULD GET SURVIVOR BENEFITS FROM MY PENSION AFTER I GO ...THEN I SEE A VALUE IN IT...OTHERWISE...??
ITS SO LOVEY DOVEY ....BEFORE THE WEDDING....WHY SHOULD I RUIN IT?
I KNOW EVERY GIRL WANTS THE CHURCH WEDDING...WITH HER PRINCE
ITS JUST SUCH A DIFFICULT TOPIC ... WITH SUCH REAL RAMIFICATIONS
You nailed it buddy! Everything you just said is exactly what I have been asking myself. I am going through the end of a relationship that I think more than anything else will not die out of convenience and neither of us want to be alone. The problem is that she is not interested in making a long term commitment and I am not interested in a part time love. I feel for you brother, unfortunately I don't think there is a simple one size fits all answer for this. I do wish you the best though and I saw in a post you made that she is Filipina? So is the girl I am referring to.. what an interesting and wonderful culture, I can't wait to visit the country.. OH as a ps. Have you eaten at Jollibee? lol... I love their spaghetti, there is one in Queens, NY.. Best of luck to you!!! NOW I HAVE A WONDERFUL GIRLFRIEND....(MAVIC AT C S)...AND I ASKED HER ..WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF MARRIAGE.....????
I GUESS IF SHE WOULD GET SURVIVOR BENEFITS FROM MY PENSION AFTER I GO ...THEN I SEE A VALUE IN IT...OTHERWISE...??
ITS SO LOVEY DOVEY ....BEFORE THE WEDDING....WHY SHOULD I RUIN IT?
I KNOW EVERY GIRL WANTS THE CHURCH WEDDING...WITH HER PRINCE
ITS JUST SUCH A DIFFICULT TOPIC ... WITH SUCH REAL RAMIFICATIONS
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I think people don't take thier vows serious enough these days and they don't take enough time to really get to know thier mates. If you see red flags about a potienal mate you shouldn't ignore them you should address them. I honestly think once you are married it is for a life time and the thought is be sure he or she is the one when you propose or except the proposal. I wish you much luck sir I hope this is your last relationship and may godbless you both.
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romanticman4u: I think people don't take thier vows serious enough these days and they don't take enough time to really get to know thier mates. If you see red flags about a potienal mate you shouldn't ignore them you should address them. I honestly think once you are married it is for a life time and the thought is be sure he or she is the one when you propose or except the proposal. I wish you much luck sir I hope this is your last relationship and may godbless you both.
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IS MARRIAGE DEAD.....???(Vote Below)
NOW I HAVE A WONDERFUL GIRLFRIEND....(MAVIC AT C S)...AND I ASKED HER ..WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF MARRIAGE.....????
I GUESS IF SHE WOULD GET SURVIVOR BENEFITS FROM MY PENSION AFTER I GO ...THEN I SEE A VALUE IN IT...OTHERWISE...??
ITS SO LOVEY DOVEY ....BEFORE THE WEDDING....WHY SHOULD I RUIN IT?
I KNOW EVERY GIRL WANTS THE CHURCH WEDDING...WITH HER PRINCE
ITS JUST SUCH A DIFFICULT TOPIC ... WITH SUCH REAL RAMIFICATIONS