Seems to me like the female here doesn't value the relationship with her husband very highly allowing him to have a girlfriend. Fully feel she is the one to blame .
dadvicOPNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
darren9030: Seems to me like the female here doesn't value the relationship with her husband very highly allowing him to have a girlfriend. Fully feel she is the one to blame .
i asked her about that ...and she admits she just said it to please him....and so he would not have to lie about it..
but she places the blame on him....i tried to explain its a problem they both created.....but ...she does blame him... cause he did not have to get them both pregnant...she is
darren9030: Seems to me like the female here doesn't value the relationship with her husband very highly allowing him to have a girlfriend. Fully feel she is the one to blame .
the only action i would want him to have is with pam and her 5 sisters. She basically told him to have an affair and now doesnt want to deal with the crap.
dadvicOPNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
L1977C: the only action i would want him to have is with pam and her 5 sisters. She basically told him to have an affair and now doesnt want to deal with the crap.
i think i understand...
now in this story he wants to be responsible for the babies..but the wife is offended the girlfriend is in the picture...and plans to divorce him...i think
dadvicOPNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
swedenbound: My first thought is this woman is very insecure with the marrige to begin with and she wanted to try and control what was going to take place.
Key word control......
well perhaps..... but i think control here is not the issue ...rather ..lack of control...hahahaha
this is not just a hot button ..its a real life example of what happens when your involved with ore than one woman !!!
WoW this guy's wife actually said it's ok if he gets a girlfriend that is just simply shocking,to make matters worse now his wife and girlfriend are pregnant??
If I had a wife and she said to me "it's ok to have a girlfriend while you away from me" I'd divorce here right there and then because it would mean that she could have a boyfriend.
Husband cheats on wife with permission wife then does the same end result a lot of complications and a marriage that has been shot to hell!
dadvicOPNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
Jacques1984: Good poll
WoW this guy's wife actually said it's ok if he gets a girlfriend that is just simply shocking,to make matters worse now his wife and girlfriend are pregnant??
If I had a wife and she said to me "it's ok to have a girlfriend while you away from me" I'd divorce here right there and then because it would mean that she could have a boyfriend.
Husband cheats on wife with permission wife then does the same end result a lot of complications and a marriage that has been shot to hell!
Thank you for the interesting blog
your welcome DUDE....i always try to give my best!
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WIFE ....OK WITH GIRLFRIEND??(Vote Below)
"i know you have your needs....so i understand if you have a girlfriend"
now she is joined again with him ..and both she and the girlfriend have baby girls.....and is she ever upset...
"yes" ...she says..."i told him he could have a girlfriend....but not that he could get her pregnant!"
this is definitely a real life live and learn situation....
in this poll wife and husband are interchangeable