Well I personally have been attacked physically...and violence is never right ever...would I forgive them? Yes I did and even stayed together for sometime....a few of you have voiced things about how they would in turn be violet( I hope it was only in jest) as violence breeds violence and lashing back is never the correct path....now maybe forgiveness is not eather...but certainly a violet act does not warrrant another violet act...
davpk10: Well I personally have been attacked physically...and violence is never right ever...would I forgive them? Yes I did and even stayed together for sometime....a few of you have voiced things about how they would in turn be violet( I hope it was only in jest) as violence breeds violence and lashing back is never the correct path....now maybe forgiveness is not eather...but certainly a violet act does not warrrant another violet act...
dsmidiman: Actually it was her that attacked me. But I understand what your saying about if it happens once it most likely will happen again?
DUDE RUN , that's how it started with my ex a pinch , then a poke then a punch in the chest then a kick in my bad knee and i laughed it off until she tried to hit me with a pipe run , i do not play with the hands touch me and 1 i call the cops 2. tell her its over 3. get a op if she wAnt leave me alone ans 4. mail her stuff to her and change my number .
I see everyone states they would never accept this physical violence toward themself; however, we all know there are people who continue to return and stay in a physical and verbally abusive relationship. Love and dependency does weird crap to people.
So if you are out there reading this thread--get out now and get help. Don't go back ever!!!
Big_John: I see everyone states they would never accept this physical violence toward themself; however, we all know there are people who continue to return and stay in a physical and verbally abusive relationship. Love and dependency does weird crap to people.
So if you are out there reading this thread--get out now and get help. Don't go back ever!!!
Been there, done that...got out, never to repeat the mistake again!
My ex boyfriend didn't like that I was dumping him. So he decided to throw me on the bed, sit on my chest and shake me by the head. He spent 4 days and jail and isn't allowed 100 ft near me or my children for two years. NO ONE..has the right to lay their hands on you..no matter how angry you get. Words spoken out of anger can SOMETIMES be excused..physical violence...INTOLERABLE
Big_John: I see everyone states they would never accept this physical violence toward themself; however, we all know there are people who continue to return and stay in a physical and verbally abusive relationship. Love and dependency does weird crap to people.
So if you are out there reading this thread--get out now and get help. Don't go back ever!!!
scottyburd: All it takes is one t ime and the pattern begins,personally i would get rid of him pronto..
You should put that on a billboard and let as many women see that as possible. (sorry guys..not trying to exclude you ).. Anyway...I never thought what you said was a true statement, but after life and years of experience, I am wiser. That was perfectly said, and I hope it will send a mesage to women and men alike Thank you!
I can imagine it is hard and scary..especially if you are financially dependent also but there are always help. Call the cops..get him kicked out..garner his wages..there are so many services available now a days.
nanners2863: I can imagine it is hard and scary..especially if you are financially dependent also but there are always help. Call the cops..get him kicked out..garner his wages..there are so many services available now a days.
Thanks, you are right and I really appreciate the reminder. Will be contacting the local women's center tomorrow and take it from there....
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Faithfulness: Thanks, you are right and I really appreciate the reminder. Will be contacting the local women's center tomorrow and take it from there....
Faithfulness: Thanks, you are right and I really appreciate the reminder. Will be contacting the local women's center tomorrow and take it from there....
Tried to message you but you have me blocked from your mailing list. Would like to speak privately with you.
I would not allow myself to ever physically harm anyone, nor would I allow a significant other, or wife, to physically harm me. I've been with significant others, before, and have seen, heard what they have been through with guys who have physically abused them. What I still have a difficult time understanding is; hearing of the times they would return to the abuser while thinking it was their fault, they could straighten them out.
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