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May 16, 2010 3:23 PM CSTIf your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
dsmidiman
dsmidimandsmidimanIndianapolis, Indiana, USA2 Threads 1 Polls 10 Posts

If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you(Vote Below)

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Physically harm them back
11
9%
Call the cops on them
17
13%
Forgive them and give them a second chance
22
17%
Boot them out for ever
77
61%
Total Votes
127
Question is for both guys and gals, it's about if this happened just one time with no previous physical abuse.
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May 16, 2010 3:36 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
dsmidiman
dsmidimandsmidimanIndianapolis, Indiana USA2 Threads 1 Polls 10 Posts
Actually it was her that attacked me. But I understand what your saying about if it happens once it most likely will happen again?
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May 16, 2010 3:46 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Proudamerican100
Proudamerican100Proudamerican100Somewhere, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 570 Posts
dunno All I can say is he will never sleep good again(PA puts down prized trophy from winning last months turkey shoot)dancing
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May 16, 2010 4:41 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ya...thats the beggining of the end for sure...after that its just details. Planning.
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May 16, 2010 4:48 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
If he got out alive, I could forgive him. boxing
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May 16, 2010 5:12 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
Well I personally have been attacked physically...and violence is never right ever...would I forgive them? Yes I did and even stayed together for sometime....a few of you have voiced things about how they would in turn be violet( I hope it was only in jest) as violence breeds violence and lashing back is never the correct path....now maybe forgiveness is not eather...but certainly a violet act does not warrrant another violet act...conversing
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May 16, 2010 5:15 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Life is to short to live like that...it would be overwine
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May 16, 2010 5:16 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
dsmidiman: Actually it was her that attacked me. But I understand what your saying about if it happens once it most likely will happen again?


Yawell, monsters can lurk quietly for a long...but once out of the closet?? scold
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May 16, 2010 5:17 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
davpk10: Well I personally have been attacked physically...and violence is never right ever...would I forgive them? Yes I did and even stayed together for sometime....a few of you have voiced things about how they would in turn be violet( I hope it was only in jest) as violence breeds violence and lashing back is never the correct path....now maybe forgiveness is not eather...but certainly a violet act does not warrrant another violet act...
violet=violentdoh
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May 16, 2010 5:18 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Although I think we can all relate to the Tigers wife, golf club thingy grin
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May 16, 2010 5:18 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
itsallme112
itsallme112itsallme112Surrey, British Columbia Canada78 Threads 11 Polls 441 Posts
To continue seeing someone who showed physical violence toward you only gives them permission to be violent again. professor
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May 16, 2010 5:58 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
wordking
wordkingwordkingnew york, New York USA14 Threads 2 Polls 190 Posts
dsmidiman: Actually it was her that attacked me. But I understand what your saying about if it happens once it most likely will happen again?
DUDE RUN , that's how it started with my ex a pinch , then a poke then a punch in the chest then a kick in my bad knee and i laughed it off until she tried to hit me with a pipe run , i do not play with the hands touch me and 1 i call the cops 2. tell her its over 3. get a op if she wAnt leave me alone ans 4. mail her stuff to her and change my number .wow
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May 16, 2010 5:59 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
wordking
wordkingwordkingnew york, New York USA14 Threads 2 Polls 190 Posts
Analie: It would depend on the extent of the assault as to whether the cops get involved.

One thing is for sure -- I would take steps to ensure that it would never happen again.
only steps i would take is out the door !
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May 16, 2010 7:22 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I see everyone states they would never accept this physical violence toward themself; however, we all know there are people who continue to return and stay in a physical and verbally abusive relationship. Love and dependency does weird crap to people.

So if you are out there reading this thread--get out now and get help. Don't go back ever!!!
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May 16, 2010 7:35 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Big_John: I see everyone states they would never accept this physical violence toward themself; however, we all know there are people who continue to return and stay in a physical and verbally abusive relationship. Love and dependency does weird crap to people.

So if you are out there reading this thread--get out now and get help. Don't go back ever!!!


Been there, done that...got out, never to repeat the mistake again!
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May 16, 2010 7:40 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
My ex boyfriend didn't like that I was dumping him. So he decided to throw me on the bed, sit on my chest and shake me by the head. dunno He spent 4 days and jail and isn't allowed 100 ft near me or my children for two years. grin NO ONE..has the right to lay their hands on you..no matter how angry you get. Words spoken out of anger can SOMETIMES be excused..physical violence...INTOLERABLE very mad
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May 16, 2010 7:47 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Faithfulness
FaithfulnessFaithfulnessWaukesha, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 1,056 Posts
Big_John: I see everyone states they would never accept this physical violence toward themself; however, we all know there are people who continue to return and stay in a physical and verbally abusive relationship. Love and dependency does weird crap to people.

So if you are out there reading this thread--get out now and get help. Don't go back ever!!!


Easier said than done....
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May 16, 2010 7:53 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
scottyburd: All it takes is one t
ime and the pattern begins,personally i would get rid of him pronto..


You should put that on a billboard and let as many women see that as possible. (sorry guys..not trying to exclude youblushing )..
Anyway...I never thought what you said was a true statement, but after life and years of experience, I am wiser. That was perfectly said, and I hope it will send a mesage to women and men alikehandshake Thank you!applause
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May 16, 2010 7:54 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
Faithfulness: Easier said than done....
I can imagine it is hard and scary..especially if you are financially dependent also but there are always help. Call the cops..get him kicked out..garner his wages..there are so many services available now a days.
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May 16, 2010 7:57 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Faithfulness
FaithfulnessFaithfulnessWaukesha, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 1,056 Posts
nanners2863: I can imagine it is hard and scary..especially if you are financially dependent also but there are always help. Call the cops..get him kicked out..garner his wages..there are so many services available now a days.


Thanks, you are right and I really appreciate the reminder. Will be contacting the local women's center tomorrow and take it from there....
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May 16, 2010 8:02 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Analie
AnalieAnalieQueanbeyan, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 151 Posts
Faithfulness: Thanks, you are right and I really appreciate the reminder. Will be contacting the local women's center tomorrow and take it from there....


Do it now.

You will change your mind tomorrow.
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May 16, 2010 8:02 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
tulip07
tulip07tulip07Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey1 Threads 410 Posts
i have never done anything like that in my life,

i mean , i didnt even argue with a woman,

womans are most precious things in the world..

one friend of mine tried to harm his Gf when i am in the next room and

he endep up in emergency room because i harmed him ,

i always help womans if there is situtiation like that...thumbs up
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May 16, 2010 8:02 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
Faithfulness: Thanks, you are right and I really appreciate the reminder. Will be contacting the local women's center tomorrow and take it from there....
Tried to message you but you have me blocked from your mailing list. Would like to speak privately with you. hug
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May 16, 2010 8:04 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
tulip07: i have never done anything like that in my life,

i mean , i didnt even argue with a woman,

womans are most precious things in the world..

one friend of mine tried to harm his Gf when i am in the next room and

he endep up in emergency room because i harmed him ,

i always help womans if there is situtiation like that...
WOW...NOW I find you attractive! blushing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 16, 2010 8:05 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
tulip07
tulip07tulip07Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey1 Threads 410 Posts
nanners2863: WOW...NOW I find you attractive!


Thank you...
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May 16, 2010 8:07 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
I would not allow myself to ever physically harm anyone, nor would I allow a significant other, or wife, to physically harm me. I've been with significant others, before, and have seen, heard what they have been through with guys who have physically abused them. What I still have a difficult time understanding is; hearing of the times they would return to the abuser while thinking it was their fault, they could straighten them out.
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May 16, 2010 8:10 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Outofafrica
OutofafricaOutofafricaPerth, Western Australia Australia5 Threads 1,296 Posts
Run,run,run as fast as u can.very mad
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May 16, 2010 10:43 PM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Today this thread has made me the happiest I have ever been in a long time. Thanks to the lady who accomplished that. Good luck. Please write more.... wave
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May 17, 2010 12:11 AM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
Laura25: Her guilt, Ocee? What guilt?


The guilt she'd feel for hurting me.

No one could hurt me without feeling guilt,


I'm too adorable.
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May 17, 2010 1:00 AM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
snowpatty
snowpattysnowpattyPhoenix, Arizona USA1 Threads 22 Posts
No one should ever EVER put up with that! One time is the last time!!
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May 17, 2010 1:09 AM CST If your significant other lost their temper one time and physically harmed you would you
whitec
whitecwhitecNowra, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 265 Posts
I have had this happen to me , out the door they go, they never change scold very mad
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