Every day there is a breakup, not yours, maybe someone elses. What is your initial reaction when you are told you are being dumped. Also if you are in the habit of dumping others, I would like to hear your side of the story too. Now flip a coin and toss. You first..
You know I´ve never been dumped. I don´t mean that too sound anything more than what it actually is because I was married most of my adult life, and the few relationships before and after the marriage I ended.
I really don´t know how I would feel, but I´d probably be very upset.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
mychelle: Every day there is a breakup, not yours, maybe someone elses. What is your initial reaction when you are told you are being dumped. Also if you are in the habit of dumping others, I would like to hear your side of the story too. Now flip a coin and toss. You first..
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
JAN_is: You know I´ve never been dumped. I don´t mean that too sound anything more than what it actually is because I was married most of my adult life, and the few relationships before and after the marriage I ended.
I really don´t know how I would feel, but I´d probably be very upset.
Yes me too. Met my ex husband at 18, got married at 21, did 23 years. But men or women who dump their patner i say, next!
cherrybrandy: didnt mean you.... i will say that to the man,who will dump me.........
Yes I know....
I just had to stand up in the name of all the Men who were the victims of angry Women .... where there is unjustness .. whan ever some poor Man was beaten up by his Wife .... I will be there ... standing Tall ...
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
demonfairy: f... him ,his lost not mine
hi Fairy on a serous note........ if it was a proper relationship...... its not easy to bring the news ...... or get the news.........it will be some grief on both sides
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
cherrybrandy: hi Fairy on a serous note........ if it was a proper relationship...... its not easy to bring the news ...... or get the news.........it will be some grief on both sides
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
Boban1: Yes I know....
I just had to stand up in the name of all the Men who were the victims of angry Women .... where there is unjustness .. whan ever some poor Man was beaten up by his Wife .... I will be there ... standing Tall ...
It has been over forty years since I was dumped, so I don't remember too much about it. However, I do believe everything happens for a reason. If she told me to hit the road and to not come back I guess I would examine myself to understand what I did to cause the situation. I usually don't try to understand the other person because I can't and won't change them. I would just put on my big boy pants and move on.
Well, it depends what kind of relationships you had for the person who dumped you. If your married for couple of yrs. and have kids, of course you /i would be upset and say something that he would take it to his grave. But if you are just dating for couple of times and dumped you for another person, and he/she is not worthy of you/me. it sad that people couldn't be honest when it comes to telling the thruth. Some people say they don't lie when you just meet them, but their the one's that really good in lying. liza
Reactions are as follows 1 Shocked- You told me we were soul mates 2 Hurt- With all we've been through. you do this to me? 3 Revenge. I'm going to open a facebook annount and spread all the crap I know about her. 4 Self doubt- Maybe I deserved it. 5 Reasoning I did this, I did that, Maybe I should have done this. 6 Revenge,again What would happen if I put super glue on her thong? 7 Logic I'm better off without her. 8 Acceptance she's gone, I've got tto live with it. 9 Believing number 10 REVENGE!!!! To heck with the thong, super glue in the mascara!
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
if in love try to reason.....not working cry allot feel sorry for myself for a while, then start working at moving on, if someone dosent want you they dont want you so why grovel...work at mending a broken heart and move forward, looking ahead to brighter days to come... thats life as hard as it may be at times......as someone said everything happens for a reason, and once your over the hurt, you normally can see that THEY didnt deserve your love in the fist place......start willing someone that does into your NEW life..... and its all good again.....
sweetlyscented1: if in love try to reason.....not working cry allot feel sorry for myself for a while, then start working at moving on, if someone dosent want you they dont want you so why grovel...work at mending a broken heart and move forward, looking ahead to brighter days to come... thats life as hard as it may be at times......as someone said everything happens for a reason, and once your over the hurt, you normally can see that THEY didnt deserve your love in the fist place......start willing someone that does into your NEW life..... and its all good again.....
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