So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction? ( Archived) (40)

May 28, 2010 1:53 PM CSTSo he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
mychelle
mychellemychelleOttawa, Ontario, Canada114 Threads 9 Polls 1,685 Posts

So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?(Vote Below)

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You tell him/her you are upset
14
17%
You say nothing, keep your thoughts to yourself
12
14%
You sit in your room and drink til your drunk
5
6%
You get back at him/her and say I didn't like you
1
1%
You wait by the phone hoping he/she will call you
6
7%
You take it in stride, he/she never deserved you
10
12%
You waste no time, start to see other people
9
11%
You deserve better, so you think good riddance!
13
15%
You are not bothered the least bit
8
10%
You think he/she should have had more class
6
7%
Total Votes
84
Every day there is a breakup, not yours, maybe someone elses. What is your initial reaction when you are told you are being dumped. Also if you are in the habit of dumping others, I would like to hear your side of the story too. Now flip a coin and toss. You first..
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May 28, 2010 1:55 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
The best revenge is living well wine
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May 28, 2010 2:04 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Next please..grin
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May 28, 2010 2:07 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
scottyburd: Next please..


thumbs up cheers
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May 28, 2010 2:09 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
venusenvy: The best revenge is living well


I'm with you sister!! cheers
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May 28, 2010 2:16 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
No idea.wine
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May 28, 2010 2:35 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Classic!! wine
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May 28, 2010 2:37 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
venusenvy: Classic!!
laugh never had the chance to use itfrustrated
hope one daypeace
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May 28, 2010 2:39 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
Cowhand
CowhandCowhandAssens, South Denmark Denmark2 Threads 369 Posts
confused crying crying crying Yeah.....
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May 28, 2010 2:46 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
You know I´ve never been dumped. I don´t mean that too sound anything more than what it actually is because I was married most of my adult life, and the few relationships before and after the marriage I ended.

I really don´t know how I would feel, but I´d probably be very upset.
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May 28, 2010 2:47 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
Boban1: Every tim , Im on a beach ,people ask me ...Man... are you sure you are white ...
uh oh roll eyes






didnt mean you....wow wow
i will say that to the man,who will dump me.........wink
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May 28, 2010 2:48 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
mychelle: Every day there is a breakup, not yours, maybe someone elses. What is your initial reaction when you are told you are being dumped. Also if you are in the habit of dumping others, I would like to hear your side of the story too. Now flip a coin and toss. You first..


Great well rid.. . . . .Next!yay dancing banana
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May 28, 2010 2:48 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
f... him ,his lost not mine devil
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May 28, 2010 2:51 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
JAN_is: You know I´ve never been dumped. I don´t mean that too sound anything more than what it actually is because I was married most of my adult life, and the few relationships before and after the marriage I ended.

I really don´t know how I would feel, but I´d probably be very upset.


Yes me too. Met my ex husband at 18, got married at 21, did 23 years. But men or women who dump their patner i say, next!yay
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May 28, 2010 2:53 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
cherrybrandy: didnt mean you....
i will say that to the man,who will dump me.........

Yes I know....

I just had to stand up in the name of all the Men who were the victims of angry Women .... where there is unjustness .. whan ever some poor Man was beaten up by his Wife .... I will be there ... standing Tall ...hole
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May 28, 2010 2:53 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
demonfairy: f... him ,his lost not mine
hi Fairywave
on a serous note........moping
if it was a proper relationship......sigh
its not easy to bring the news ......
or get the news.........it will be some grief on both sidescomfort
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May 28, 2010 2:54 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Margarete: sorry, but...men are uncapable of doing it


Actually....we are ... but we don`t brag so much around as Women .... grin
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May 28, 2010 2:58 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
cherrybrandy: hi Fairy
on a serous note........
if it was a proper relationship......
its not easy to bring the news ......
or get the news.........it will be some grief on both sides
wave wave wave hi sista hug teddybear
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May 28, 2010 3:00 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
Boban1: Yes I know....

I just had to stand up in the name of all the Men who were the victims of angry Women .... where there is unjustness .. whan ever some poor Man was beaten up by his Wife .... I will be there ... standing Tall ...
and watchingblues
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May 28, 2010 3:02 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
demonfairy: hi sista
hug hope all cool around?heart wings
im getting ready to work this weekend.........moping
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May 28, 2010 3:05 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
cherrybrandy: hope all cool around?
im getting ready to work this weekend.........
yea fine ty,hope you are.working on the cat hes been out tom catting around,his head is all tore up again doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 28, 2010 3:07 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: yea fine ty,hope you are.working on the cat hes been out tom catting around,his head is all tore up again


Sure sign of spring hug
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May 28, 2010 3:28 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
demonfairy: yea fine ty,hope you are.working on the cat hes been out tom catting around,his head is all tore up again
thats men for you......even cats...........teddybear
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May 28, 2010 3:43 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
It has been over forty years since I was dumped, so I don't remember too much about it. However, I do believe everything happens for a reason. If she told me to hit the road and to not come back I guess I would examine myself to understand what I did to cause the situation. I usually don't try to understand the other person because I can't and won't change them. I would just put on my big boy pants and move on.
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May 31, 2010 9:12 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
lovelyliza
lovelylizalovelylizabethlehem, Pennsylvania USA12 Threads 2 Polls 488 Posts
Well, it depends what kind of relationships you had for the person who dumped you. If your married for couple of yrs. and have kids, of course you /i would be upset and say something that he would take it to his grave. But if you are just dating for couple of times and dumped you for another person, and he/she is not worthy of you/me. it sad that people couldn't be honest when it comes to telling the thruth. Some people say they don't lie when you just meet them, but their the one's that really good in lying.
liza
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May 31, 2010 9:18 PM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
masterofpuppets
masterofpuppetsmasterofpuppetsseattle, Washington USA95 Posts
well different approaches depending on whether im the dumper or the dumpee....

dumper:

delete number/contact info.... call plan B.... get it on with plan B

dumpee:

delete number/contact info.... call plan B.... get it on with plan B


what can i say... i forget things quicly ????


dunno
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Jun 11, 2010 1:10 AM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cambuff
cambuffcambuffOcala, Florida USA2 Threads 130 Posts
Reactions are as follows
1 Shocked- You told me we were soul mates
2 Hurt- With all we've been through. you do this to me?
3 Revenge. I'm going to open a facebook annount and spread all the crap I know about her.
4 Self doubt- Maybe I deserved it.
5 Reasoning I did this, I did that, Maybe I should have done this.
6 Revenge,again What would happen if I put super glue on her thong?
7 Logic I'm better off without her.
8 Acceptance she's gone, I've got tto live with it.
9 Believing number
10 REVENGE!!!! To heck with the thong, super glue in the mascara!
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Jun 11, 2010 1:14 AM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
cambuff
cambuffcambuffOcala, Florida USA2 Threads 130 Posts
9 Believing number 8
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Jun 11, 2010 1:16 AM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
sideshowbob
sideshowbobsideshowbob1st house on the left, Tasman New Zealand1 Threads 337 Posts
It's not you, it's me crying crying
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Jun 11, 2010 2:59 AM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
if in love try to reason.....not working cry allotcrying feel sorry for myself for a while, then start working at moving on, if someone dosent want you they dont want you so why grovel...work at mending a broken heart and move forward, looking ahead to brighter days to come...dunno thats life as hard as it may be at times......as someone said everything happens for a reason, and once your over the hurt, you normally can see that THEY didnt deserve your love in the fist place......start willing someone that does into your NEW life.....applause and its all good again.....smitten

blues gee seems so easy when you type it all out....doh

Hi Everyone wave hug
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Jun 11, 2010 3:27 AM CST So he/she dumped you, what is your initiation reaction?
telgordo
telgordotelgordoalicante/murcia, Murcia Spain19 Threads 1 Polls 476 Posts
sweetlyscented1: if in love try to reason.....not working cry allot feel sorry for myself for a while, then start working at moving on, if someone dosent want you they dont want you so why grovel...work at mending a broken heart and move forward, looking ahead to brighter days to come... thats life as hard as it may be at times......as someone said everything happens for a reason, and once your over the hurt, you normally can see that THEY didnt deserve your love in the fist place......start willing someone that does into your NEW life..... and its all good again.....

gee seems so easy when you type it all out....

Hi Everyone


Hi sweetly
My sentiments exactly
wine
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