Be honest - would you see this women again? (109)
At the moment, I am leaning toward the second option, perhaps see her once more, assess it..?
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If it was only this that happened then yes, but I suspect that there will be other things that will set alarm bells ringing.
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MrInteresting: At the moment, I am leaning toward the second option, perhaps see her once more, assess it..?
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To me it sounds like she is dating before she is ready. I think she needs more time to heal. If you are into drama--see her; if not, move on!
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MrInteresting: At the moment, I am leaning toward the second option, perhaps see her once more, assess it..?
Does she know you are on CS?
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Thats no exactly something you just blurt out...alarm bells are going off really loud on that one...
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Veritaas: Does she know you are on CS?
As if you wouldnt see someone and still not come on here...
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well... first of... ALL chicks are psycho... so you aint gonna meet one that aint... in other words... we are screwed its either see em or go celibate....
secondly... i would say dont see her again... if she didnt put out after all that nice act you put up she aint gonna put out later !!!!!
secondly... i would say dont see her again... if she didnt put out after all that nice act you put up she aint gonna put out later !!!!!
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cincity: Thats no exactly something you just blurt out...alarm bells are going off really loud on that one...
Yes alarm bells are ringing but I believe in giving people a chance.
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being honest it is sometimes easier to talk and open up to a stranger but at the same time it was a little too full-on for a first date!!! id say meet her again and see how it goes
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Seems like the lady has some deep emotional issues to deal with. Be kind, but as a friend
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Costapacket: As if you wouldnt see someone and still not come on here...
The post was not directed at you.
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Veritaas: The post was not directed at you.
But I have the right to comment on what I like.
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englishelegance: Seems like the lady has some deep emotional issues to deal with. Be kind, but as a friend
I would go along with this if it was someone I knew and were already friends with.... but, after a first date I think this lady needs to back off the dating and heal with her existing friends and family helping her.
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Costapacket: But I have the right to comment on what I like.
So what.
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Veritaas: So what.
You preach one thing and do the opposite dont you think your a hypocrite!
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davpk10: or third ...she is a drama Queen and is looking for attention, as she has gotten a fair bit by blurting out this story in the past....
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Maybe she felt comfortable with you. See her again, and then decide. Seems u like her.
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Costapacket: If it was only this that happened then yes, but I suspect that there will be other things that will set alarm bells ringing.
Thing is fella, I am often too empathetic for my own good.
Not cutting loose early, it has not rewarded me before, it has always cost me, when the girl fully unravels, and you are in it deep.
If you see what I mean.
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Big_John: To me it sounds like she is dating before she is ready. I think she needs more time to heal. If you are into drama--see her; if not, move on!
Drama is the last thing I need, tbh.
Good company and a laugh, yes. Drama? No!
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MrInteresting: Thing is fella, I am often too empathetic for my own good.
Not cutting loose early, it has not rewarded me before, it has always cost me, when the girl fully unravels, and you are in it deep.
If you see what I mean.
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Not cutting loose early, it has not rewarded me before, it has always cost me, when the girl fully unravels, and you are in it deep.
If you see what I mean.
S
I know what your saying, the second or third date could go very wrong. Its up to you if you want to chance it....
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I think you're getting ahead of yourself here. You're acting as if you're deciding on living with her for life. But for the moment, you're just casually dating someone.
According to you she was nice, a little screwy but nice.
So if you think you might enjoy seeing her a second time, got for it. (Always assuming she agrees, of course!)
And then you can decide about a third time.
She might turn into a good friend, or a lover, or a wife... or she might just be someone you see a film with once every so often.
According to you she was nice, a little screwy but nice.
So if you think you might enjoy seeing her a second time, got for it. (Always assuming she agrees, of course!)
And then you can decide about a third time.
She might turn into a good friend, or a lover, or a wife... or she might just be someone you see a film with once every so often.
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I say RUN as fast as you can no matter what i would never tell anyone somethin like that on a first date if thats what youve to deal with on a first date it can only get worse.First date is meant to be fun!!!
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Costapacket: as you always do.....once again a hypocrite....
Take your gripes elsewhere.
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L1977C: I say RUN as fast as you can no matter what i would never tell anyone somethin like that on a first date if thats what youve to deal with on a first date it can only get worse.First date is meant to be fun!!!
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How come there is always interesting topics when I have to go.....great post OPI would love to come back and put my two cents worth in..
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Costapacket: As if you wouldnt see someone and still not come on here...
That is not her point. The fact they met on another site obviously shows that she may already be aware of CS and again MrI may have mentioned it to her
Also, if she is aware of this site, the fact he has raised it on here may have already compromised it.. 
MrI, maybe meet her once more and see how it goes
Depending on how things go I may ask you for her number!! 
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Veritaas: Take your gripes elsewhere.
Bloody hell are you still here...
Ive no gripes, just pointing the obvious hypocrisies out!
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see her again... everybody deserves a second shot
If it turns out bad again, you can't kick yourself later on wondering if it was a fluke or not.
From what you describe, you seem to like her, otherwise your decision would have been made by now.
If it turns out bad again, you can't kick yourself later on wondering if it was a fluke or not.
From what you describe, you seem to like her, otherwise your decision would have been made by now.
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Be honest - would you see this women again?(Vote Below)
Met her from a site, not this one.
She was attractive and pleasant enough, down to earth.
I wouldn't say I was 100% blown away, but at the same time, for a relatively short meeting, yes, I would usually definitely see her again.
However, one thing did happen, and not sure what to make of it.
Keep in mind that my last relationship was taxing, because she had Borderline PD. Therefore, I am super aware now, when I meet anyone, and that is fair enough, I feel.
Anyway, we were talking about something or other, and, out of the blue, this women's eyes well up.
I ask her what the matter is, and take her outside for some 'air, and she apologises, and says that for some reason or another, she had once had an abortion, and a thought of that had come to her mind, and upset her.
Pretty heavy, but I handled it really well, and was empathetic and understanding (she had had this a few years ago).
She went on to say that she was v sorry, but that she had never actually told anyone before!
Why me???
She then composed herself, and was okay after that.
She seems to like me, but I am not sure if I should see that action as some sort of red flag, or not..