maybe like me, many beautiful women would be broken hearted if that was their man on line wanting another women. Why don't you take your honesty and move on. and that allows her to as well. Bad man
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
I believe in the wedding vows,don't believe in cheating,never have never will.WHY be married if you are going to sleep around....If a man/woman spent as much time working on there marriage as they did cheating they would not have a problem at home.In no way shape or forum would i ever get mixed up with a married man,thats my honest answer...good day to you sir.
Dagosto: On a related note...my profile says the same, "In a relationship" and looking for "Talk/Email/Penpal." BUT it also still says I am seeking women, and I can't figure out how to change or delete that part. I've looked under Account Settings, Edit Profile, all that stuff. Anybody have any ideas?
kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
shep00: my reason for creating this is i am fed up im very honest and will answer any question i just like a laugh and very very opened minded
Often honest people will avoid to interfere in a profile in relationship. If yes, they are often scammers or not sober. As when we are on here, we really dont want to compete with anyelse , in the real life is too enough, then in website, will be relaxed.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Dagosto: On a related note...my profile says the same, "In a relationship" and looking for "Talk/Email/Penpal." BUT it also still says I am seeking women, and I can't figure out how to change or delete that part. I've looked under Account Settings, Edit Profile, all that stuff. Anybody have any ideas?
I don't think people take as much notice of that as they do the "about me" bit. I don't think you can change the "seeking women" bit, so what you write on you profile overrides that by assumption.
Dagosto: On a related note...my profile says the same, "In a relationship" and looking for "Talk/Email/Penpal." BUT it also still says I am seeking women, and I can't figure out how to change or delete that part. I've looked under Account Settings, Edit Profile, all that stuff. Anybody have any ideas?
You cant change the "Looking for Women/Men" bit. You HAVE to put something in that box.
As long as you clearly put in your text that you are in a relationship and only looking for friends, and you also have "Talk/Penpal" only in your "What you Seek" box, thats enough, I would say.
DodgeBabe: You cant change the "Looking for Women/Men" bit. You HAVE to put something in that box.
As long as you clearly put in your text that you are in a relationship and only looking for friends, and you also have "Talk/Penpal" only in your "What you Seek" box, thats enough, I would say.
And yet, we have some conflict of interest, don't we?
He's in a relationship that he admits he doesn't care for, says he's honest and just likes a laugh, and yet, here we are on a singles site, not the weekly joke-list.
"I'll be completely faithful and honest to my partner whom I'm disinterested, while I shop around for something better'?!"
How about the direct approach. Say that you're married or otherwise "attached". Say right up front that you are seeking to have an affair and that it must be discrete. You might not get a lot of hits that way, but at least you'll only be lying to your wife/partner instead of both her AND whoever you can get to go for you.
Or you can date a bottle of hand lotion very cheaply. When you're done, you can toss it in the rubbish can and no one's hurt and everyone's happy. Get tired of that and maybe you should talk to your partner about your unmet needs and whatever comes out of that will come out of it. The best outcome would be that your needs get met or that you will both decide that you should be able to honestly broadcast your single status again.
Cheaters never win applies to love as well as sports. But in love, it's more than just you and your feelings that are at stake when you cheat.
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why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it(Vote Below)