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Jul 9, 2010 4:54 PM CSTwhy if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
shep00
shep00shep00Roscommon, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts

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my reason for creating this is i am fed up im very honest and will answer any question i just like a laugh and very very opened minded devil angel
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Jul 9, 2010 4:56 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
shep00: my reason for creating this is i am fed up im very honest and will answer any question i just like a laugh and very very opened minded


simple...many ladies have the choice to speak to who they want, when they want and if they want....wine
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Jul 9, 2010 4:57 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
shep00: my reason for creating this is i am fed up im very honest and will answer any question i just like a laugh and very very opened minded



Perhaps because most women dont want to get involved with a guy who is already in a relationship.

Isnt exactly a tough question is it.
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Jul 9, 2010 4:58 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
vonney: Perhaps because most women dont want to get involved with a guy who is already in a relationship.

Isnt exactly a tough question is it.

Agreed..your profile states you are in a relationship! dunno
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Jul 9, 2010 5:00 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Amity: Agreed..your profile states you are in a relationship!


Also states he is 100% honest and doesnt mess women around, does this include the lady already in his life I wonder?
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Jul 9, 2010 5:11 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
shep00
shep00shep00Roscommon, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
you are so right i am 100%honest but because your in a relatationship dont mean your happy .we all deserve a listen too
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Jul 9, 2010 5:12 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
shep00: you are so right i am 100%honest but because your in a relatationship dont mean your happy .we all deserve a listen too


so why are you looking for women to be honest about wanting a relationship?

confused sorry im lost.
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Jul 9, 2010 5:15 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
shep00: you are so right i am 100%honest but because your in a relatationship dont mean your happy .we all deserve a listen too




If your not happy in a relationship there is an answer.

Have you been 100% honest with the person you are in the relationship with? Because if you havent then you cant actually make that claim.
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Jul 9, 2010 5:16 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
shep00: you are so right i am 100%honest but because your in a relatationship dont mean your happy .we all deserve a listen too


I can give you a few helpline numbers where you can get "professional" help I dont think you should depend on CS for marriage counselling...comfort
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Jul 9, 2010 5:19 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
shep00
shep00shep00Roscommon, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
i have and so have they and we will support one another we all deserve to be happy life is too short
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Jul 9, 2010 5:21 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
shep00
shep00shep00Roscommon, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
and thanks for your help and goodnight too xdoh
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Jul 9, 2010 5:23 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
shep00: and thanks for your help and goodnight too x


Good night shep....wave
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Jul 9, 2010 5:23 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
maybe like me, many beautiful women would be broken hearted if that was their man on line wanting another women.
Why don't you take your honesty and move on.
and that allows her to as well.
Bad man
doh
devil
angel
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Jul 9, 2010 5:26 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
talk to hand I believe in the wedding vows,don't believe in cheating,never have never will.WHY be married if you are going to sleep around....If a man/woman spent as much time working on there marriage as they did cheating they would not have a problem at home.In no way shape or forum would i ever get mixed up with a married man,thats my honest answer...good day to you sir.tip hat
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Jul 9, 2010 5:47 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Dagosto: On a related note...my profile says the same, "In a relationship" and looking for "Talk/Email/Penpal." BUT it also still says I am seeking women, and I can't figure out how to change or delete that part. I've looked under Account Settings, Edit Profile, all that stuff. Anybody have any ideas?


Well, Dag, are you in a relationship...or not? dunno
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Jul 9, 2010 6:23 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
p1259
p1259p1259smiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda12 Threads 3 Polls 191 Posts
shep00: you are so right i am 100%honest but because your in a relatationship dont mean your happy .we all deserve a listen too
maybe you should be honest enough to tell who ever your involved with that your not happy, mr 100% honest.your full of shepoo..dunno rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Jul 9, 2010 6:31 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
venusenvy: Well, Dag, are you in a relationship...or not?


He said he is but just wants to change the fact it still says on his profile, he is seeking a woman.wine
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Jul 9, 2010 6:36 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
shep00: my reason for creating this is i am fed up im very honest and will answer any question i just like a laugh and very very opened minded


Often honest people will avoid to interfere in a profile in relationship.
If yes, they are often scammers or not sober.
As when we are on here, we really dont want to compete with anyelse , in the real life is too enough, then in website, will be relaxed.
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Jul 9, 2010 6:36 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
oh geez, threads like this are still around huh...doh
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Jul 9, 2010 6:41 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Boban1: okay.. I may missed something .... but why would he makes any one look bad ???


Because in his profile it says he is in a relationship and this is what people will object to.

Does not make him a bad person at all. thumbs up
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Jul 9, 2010 6:42 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
plainlyjune: oh geez, threads like this are still around huh...


What is so wrong with this thread? Man only asked a question, there are far worse here on CS.
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Jul 9, 2010 6:46 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Veritaas: Because in his profile it says he is in a relationship and this is what people will object to.

Does not make him a bad person at all.


I have no idea if he s a good ore bad guy ....he has some views on life , different to my own....

but my point is .... he doesn`t necessarily give the rest of the Men , a bad name
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Jul 9, 2010 6:48 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
shep00: my reason for creating this is i am fed up im very honest and will answer any question i just like a laugh and very very opened minded


Cause it kinda smells of unfinished business.wine
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Jul 9, 2010 6:52 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Boban1: I have no idea if he s a good ore bad guy ....he has some views on life , different to my own....

but my point is .... he doesn`t necessarily give the rest of the Men , a bad name


Of course it does not, people are just judgemental of others because of their life style and choices they make.

And as always CS gives us options as to what we are here for.
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Jul 9, 2010 6:54 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
venusenvy: Well, Dag, are you in a relationship...or not?


Yes.

wine
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Jul 9, 2010 8:23 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Dagosto: On a related note...my profile says the same, "In a relationship" and looking for "Talk/Email/Penpal." BUT it also still says I am seeking women, and I can't figure out how to change or delete that part. I've looked under Account Settings, Edit Profile, all that stuff. Anybody have any ideas?


I don't think people take as much notice of that as they do the "about me" bit. I don't think you can change the "seeking women" bit, so what you write on you profile overrides that by assumption.

No need to worry about that bit.

Jac xxx
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Jul 9, 2010 8:25 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Well, I just have a policy, I dont get involved with men that are involved...works for me wine
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Jul 9, 2010 8:27 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
Dagosto: On a related note...my profile says the same, "In a relationship" and looking for "Talk/Email/Penpal." BUT it also still says I am seeking women, and I can't figure out how to change or delete that part. I've looked under Account Settings, Edit Profile, all that stuff. Anybody have any ideas?


You cant change the "Looking for Women/Men" bit. You HAVE to put something in that box.

As long as you clearly put in your text that you are in a relationship and only looking for friends, and you also have "Talk/Penpal" only in your "What you Seek" box, thats enough, I would say.

wine
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Jul 9, 2010 8:34 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
DodgeBabe: You cant change the "Looking for Women/Men" bit. You HAVE to put something in that box.

As long as you clearly put in your text that you are in a relationship and only looking for friends, and you also have "Talk/Penpal" only in your "What you Seek" box, thats enough, I would say.


And yet, we have some conflict of interest, don't we?

He's in a relationship that he admits he doesn't care for, says he's honest and just likes a laugh, and yet, here we are on a singles site, not the weekly joke-list.

dunno


"I'll be completely faithful and honest to my partner whom I'm disinterested, while I shop around for something better'?!"

uh oh
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Jul 9, 2010 9:05 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
gardenhackle
gardenhacklegardenhackleStratford, Connecticut USA55 Threads 9 Polls 2,067 Posts
How about the direct approach. Say that you're married or otherwise "attached". Say right up front that you are seeking to have an affair and that it must be discrete. You might not get a lot of hits that way, but at least you'll only be lying to your wife/partner instead of both her AND whoever you can get to go for you.

Or you can date a bottle of hand lotion very cheaply. When you're done, you can toss it in the rubbish can and no one's hurt and everyone's happy. Get tired of that and maybe you should talk to your partner about your unmet needs and whatever comes out of that will come out of it. The best outcome would be that your needs get met or that you will both decide that you should be able to honestly broadcast your single status again.

Cheaters never win applies to love as well as sports. But in love, it's more than just you and your feelings that are at stake when you cheat.
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Jul 9, 2010 9:45 PM CST why if you put in a relationship on your profile and your been honest .do so many women avoid it
Imperial
ImperialImperialNorth Vernon, Indiana USA2 Threads 77 Posts
shep00: my reason for creating this is i am fed up im very honest and will answer any question i just like a laugh and very very opened minded


Why? If a guy doesn't have the balls to break up with someone he doesn't like, then what use would I have for such a wuss?

Why should we women be expected to be interested in your girlfriend/wife's leftovers?
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