ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
vonney: Well I did join in the hope of perhaps meeting a guy (no point saying otherwise lol) I have however really enjoyed chatting to guys and gals from different parts of the world and am very pleased to have made some good friends along the way, still waiting for the guy but having fun while I do
This is just my opinion but I believe the forums should be for everyone but the other area should be for singles only. If I am searching for someone and he comes up in my area I hate it when his profile says not looking, I feel than why are you here, how do I find the ones who are interested?
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
kitty01: This is just my opinion but I believe the forums should be for everyone but the other area should be for singles only. If I am searching for someone and he comes up in my area I hate it when his profile says not looking, I feel than why are you here, how do I find the ones who are interested?
That is a fair point, Kitty, and yes one that, I would have thought, needs looking at..... Perhaps a different section for those "looking" and those just "inter-acting"...??
roseofsharon: That is a fair point, Kitty, and yes one that, I would have thought, needs looking at..... Perhaps a different section for those "looking" and those just "inter-acting"...??
Good point!!
My idea would be when you join there is two buttons, one forums and one for singles looking. If you want both you check off both, or just the forums to only show up in the forums. If you want both than get involved than you just need to uncheck the single button so you no longer show up in the search results of people looking for people, but is still able to show up in the forums. Just a thought.
When I first came on under another name two years ago and came back recently, I found and still find that if you go to "look" for other singles with the intention of a possible relationship, that most of the ones on-line are right here in the forums. The ones that are not on-line are picking up the kids or at work and will be in the forums later.
When I was out to dinner with friends last night, this very thing popped through my head. I looked around and realized, what I already knew, that there are plenty of single women right here in my area. Unless one lived in the boonies, the same is true in every town/city.
riyablossom: Hi Angelana .. good to see you around ..
I think it is cool as it is !!
Its nice to have you here As someone said here, this site is evovled by the people , and good to see people from all parts of the world talking, sharing , joking, laughing, ranting, polling, voting, , chatting, blogging...........
kitty01: My idea would be when you join there is two buttons, one forums and one for singles looking. If you want both you check off both, or just the forums to only show up in the forums. If you want both than get involved than you just need to uncheck the single button so you no longer show up in the search results of people looking for people, but is still able to show up in the forums. Just a thought.
Interesting idea, I would like it like that also, its nice if there are options so that "singles" would not be offended by the presence of someone who is already "taken".....
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