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Apr 17, 2008 11:56 AM CSTIf you were my soulmate
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar, Sweden234 Threads 21 Polls 14,773 Posts

If you were my soulmate(Vote Below)

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at the end of your arm
35
38%
waiting for you in your next life time
4
4%
in your mailbox
7
8%
under your couch
5
5%
search on google is your friend
2
2%
in a land far....far away
15
16%
I don't believe in soulmates
10
11%
I believe in multiple soulmates...timing
15
16%
Total Votes
93
Where would you be?
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Apr 17, 2008 11:56 AM CST If you were my soulmate
Where would you be?
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Apr 17, 2008 12:03 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Hmmm... no 'other' option, I see. Still voted, though.

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Apr 17, 2008 12:04 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland45 Threads 17 Polls 18,473 Posts
RedHeadedTaurus: Hmmm... no 'other' option, I see. Still voted, though.


There is the mute option....which i chose! wave
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Apr 17, 2008 12:05 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Fallingman: There is the mute option....which i chose!




Gotcha... thumbs up



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Apr 17, 2008 12:09 PM CST If you were my soulmate
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain4 Threads 1 Polls 4,094 Posts
StressFree: Where would you be?


a soulmate should be close? so as close as possible
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Apr 17, 2008 12:10 PM CST If you were my soulmate
emc_eile
emc_eileemc_eilegalway, Galway Ireland30 Threads 2,330 Posts
StressFree: Where would you be?


picked the last choice! Need to believe that! tongue
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Apr 17, 2008 12:12 PM CST If you were my soulmate
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA42 Threads 5 Polls 713 Posts
I think TIMING is everything AND what you actually NEED instead of what you WANT from a person
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Apr 17, 2008 12:14 PM CST If you were my soulmate
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland32 Threads 9,360 Posts
lucky200761: I think TIMING is everything AND what you actually NEED instead of what you WANT from a person


Sorry I disagree, love should be a WANT not a NEED.



btw I dont believe in soulmates
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Apr 17, 2008 12:16 PM CST If you were my soulmate
emc_eile
emc_eileemc_eilegalway, Galway Ireland30 Threads 2,330 Posts
lucky200761: I think TIMING is everything AND what you actually NEED instead of what you WANT from a person


Will give you the timing bit but is needing a person a good or a bad thing??? Shouldn't it just BE? Both WANT and NEED are very much taking form the other person. Was talking to a friend about this this morning, I want someone who will compliment my life not compromise it! daydream

OK ... I'm in dream mode again! laugh
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Apr 17, 2008 12:39 PM CST If you were my soulmate
lucky200761
lucky200761lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA42 Threads 5 Polls 713 Posts
there's a difference between needing and wanting...
wanting is more of a physical thing
..but needing is what completes both partners...did i lose anyone??
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Apr 17, 2008 12:41 PM CST If you were my soulmate
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 528 Posts
next door...
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Apr 17, 2008 12:44 PM CST If you were my soulmate
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA61 Threads 5 Polls 6,345 Posts
emc_eile: Will give you the timing bit but is needing a person a good or a bad thing??? Shouldn't it just BE? Both WANT and NEED are very much taking form the other person. Was talking to a friend about this this morning, I want someone who will compliment my life not compromise it!

OK ... I'm in dream mode again!

I applaud you lady Eapplause applause correct in your choice of words after all it is not an idea we are after but IDEALlips
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Apr 17, 2008 12:54 PM CST If you were my soulmate
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK70 Threads 3 Polls 11,702 Posts
Well..... you didn't have the option I was looking for but "in a land far away" pretty much covers it!!
grin

rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 17, 2008 12:56 PM CST If you were my soulmate
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 6,330 Posts
IF is a big little word that is all about dreaming and suggesting a need or want. When is a word I like more. When someone comes into you life that cradles your heart it is wonderful on every level.
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Apr 17, 2008 1:06 PM CST If you were my soulmate
joanie04984
joanie04984joanie04984North Woods, Maine USA5 Threads 445 Posts
If I were your soulmate, I'd move further away rolling on the floor laughing laugh tongue
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Apr 17, 2008 2:02 PM CST If you were my soulmate
emc_eile
emc_eileemc_eilegalway, Galway Ireland30 Threads 2,330 Posts
irishlass45: I applaud you lady E correct in your choice of words after all it is not an idea we are after but IDEAL


Thanks Irishlass handshake for me when things are right you do them because you want to .... therefore not a compromise! In order to achieve our IDEAL we need to be flexible to allow it grow into the best possible scenario!

By feeling happy and complete in myself now I hoping soon I will have the happiness I've been looking for but there is no want or need for it like in the past as that takes from it all, just have it there and BE. Therefore I chose TIMING as being very important. Feel connections with lots of people, and have some great friends so thats why I think we have several possible soulmates. When we are right in ourselves, the time is right and we will find the one to compliment it all! Our ideal!

By trying to figure out my own insecurities and learning how to unravel them think I'm more ready now then I ever...... and maybe, just maybe met have someone I can share that with but will need to see in time...... cant force things grin Their time has to be right too! grin
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Apr 17, 2008 2:06 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA110 Threads 17 Polls 14,069 Posts
In a sanitorium?



wave blushing
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Apr 17, 2008 4:26 PM CST If you were my soulmate
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA61 Threads 5 Polls 6,345 Posts
emc_eile: Thanks Irishlass for me when things are right you do them because you want to .... therefore not a compromise! In order to achieve our IDEAL we need to be flexible to allow it grow into the best possible scenario!

By feeling happy and complete in myself now I hoping soon I will have the happiness I've been looking for but there is no want or need for it like in the past as that takes from it all, just have it there and BE. Therefore I chose TIMING as being very important. Feel connections with lots of people, and have some great friends so thats why I think we have several possible soulmates. When we are right in ourselves, the time is right and we will find the one to compliment it all! Our ideal!

By trying to figure out my own insecurities and learning how to unravel them think I'm more ready now then I ever...... and maybe, just maybe met have someone I can share that with but will need to see in time...... cant force things Their time has to be right too!

There are very and I emphasize this VERY few people that know what you are talking about, I happen to be blessed in the fact that I DO know what you mean, if you are not comfortable with yourself in all aspects you will never truely be able to offer the real you, there are people that are very impatient to find mr. or mrs. right and they have that right after all we only have 27000 days from birth to death not including incidents of life like cancer, wrecks, murder, that is the average world over so if you are aware of yourself then you are better off because you know that if it is meant to be it will be and you won't settle for less(the wow factor) and being by yourself is better than being in a bad relationship imo, so I think I will keep being me and wish that I could bottle this knowledge and give it away so that we could all have that understanding, thanks for sharing you really do know where you are, and/but remember we are still continuing to learn, always, Rhug bouquet
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Apr 17, 2008 4:29 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland34 Threads 2,178 Posts
In your head and heart constantly...
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Apr 17, 2008 4:52 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland34 Threads 2,178 Posts
Zarah: In your head and heart constantly...


I would be the words to your favourite song...
Looking into a childs eyes you would find my eyes fierce with fire...
The myriad visions of my face in every flower as you walk in the garden...
On your mouth water is the touch of my lips and thirst another reminder of your longing for me...
The one that draws you from sleep into the world of love...
Your muse...
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Apr 17, 2008 5:04 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Zarah: In your head and heart constantly...



Zarah: I would be the words to your favourite song...
Looking into a childs eyes you would find my eyes fierce with fire...
The myriad visions of my face in every flower as you walk in the garden...
On your mouth water is the touch of my lips and thirst another reminder of your longing for me...
The one that draws you from sleep into the world of love...
Your muse...


Very nice indeed Zarah.....wold you be my strength when I was weak?
my voice when I couldn't speak?
my eyes when I couldn't see?
would you see the best there was in me?
lift me up when I couldn't reach?
give me faith cause you believe?....jk...please don't answer....


Okay, I will use my next post to offer some insight as to my beliefs pertaining to the content in this thread....it got a bit interesting....
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Apr 17, 2008 5:10 PM CST If you were my soulmate
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA61 Threads 5 Polls 6,345 Posts
I thought you meant in general didn't know you meant YOUR soul mate sorry about that, yours?......................................
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Apr 17, 2008 5:36 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Okay....I believe in multiple soul mates....meaning that there is no "one" soulmate....only in a very rare circumstance depending on your soul's specific journey and your partners soul...but that is a complicated paranormal subject that should get it's own thread some other time.

I strongly feel that timing is everything....in the sense of where your level of happiness and love for yourself is. If you don't respect and love yourself, then how are you gonna respect and love your partner if you decide to grasp on to a picture of how your partner should be and how your partner should do the things in order to make you happy. Expectations is what really ruins a lot of relationships....I feel that if you are looking for a saviour to bring you happiness and save you.....then you are setting up the relationship for failure. Happiness should come from within....you should not depend all of your happiness on your partner....cause that would be unreasonable to put those kinds of expectations on your partner. This would help you not take certain things personal when your partner does something that does not make you happy...it's about understanding and sharing your happiness with your partner.

True, your partner should compliment you and help you see things differently so you can evolve....and the same can be said about you. Helping each other evolve together and with yourselves as a person.

If you have a strong need for somebody to make your life happy, then I would advise to stop watching too many hollywood crap movies and shows....


lucky200761:
..but needing is what completes both partners...did i lose anyone??


I would agree only to the physiological aspects of that....our bodies do have needs. Other than that, if you are squeezing needs from your partner, you are only squeezing your happiness. There is the need for security, but that is built upon fear. You should feel secure in yourself and with your love for life. If you don't, and go looking for that in somebody else to give it to you.....ultimately it will only lead to stormy weather after the morning and day has faded(in the beginning of a relationship when everything goes right and feels right)...
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Apr 17, 2008 5:49 PM CST If you were my soulmate
emc_eile
emc_eileemc_eilegalway, Galway Ireland30 Threads 2,330 Posts
irishlass45: There are very and I emphasize this VERY few people that know what you are talking about, I happen to be blessed in the fact that I DO know what you mean, if you are not comfortable with yourself in all aspects you will never truely be able to offer the real you, there are people that are very impatient to find mr. or mrs. right and they have that right after all we only have 27000 days from birth to death not including incidents of life like cancer, wrecks, murder, that is the average world over so if you are aware of yourself then you are better off because you know that if it is meant to be it will be and you won't settle for less(the wow factor) and being by yourself is better than being in a bad relationship imo, so I think I will keep being me and wish that I could bottle this knowledge and give it away so that we could all have that understanding, thanks for sharing you really do know where you are, and/but remember we are still continuing to learn, always, R


thanks again hun for your point of view! bouquet Also seeing where I am I coming from! Its not easy as guys often don't appreciate me for just being me and many seem to define themselves or their relationship by how much someone 'NEEDS' or 'RELIES' on them and simply ar not happy just to be there and enjoy whats in front of them!

I'm often asked why am I single and made feel like a failure but reading your post and thinking about it ..... I'm just not prepared to settle for 2nd best!!! Must remember that the nest time I'm asked and not try to rustle up excuses! Thanks hun hug
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Apr 17, 2008 5:52 PM CST If you were my soulmate
irishlass45: being by yourself is better than being in a bad relationship


Totally agree.....Nobody should put up with being controlled.
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Apr 17, 2008 5:52 PM CST If you were my soulmate
emc_eile
emc_eileemc_eilegalway, Galway Ireland30 Threads 2,330 Posts
irishlass45: I thought you meant in general didn't know you meant YOUR soul mate sorry about that, yours?......................................


yeah me too Stressfree .... sorry for going off track uh oh


StressFree: Okay....I believe in multiple soul mates....meaning that there is no "one" soulmate....only in a very rare circumstance depending on your soul's specific journey and your partners soul...but that is a complicated paranormal subject that should get it's own thread some other time.

I strongly feel that timing is everything....in the sense of where your level of happiness and love for yourself is. If you don't respect and love yourself, then how are you gonna respect and love your partner if you decide to grasp on to a picture of how your partner should be and how your partner should do the things in order to make you happy. Expectations is what really ruins a lot of relationships....I feel that if you are looking for a saviour to bring you happiness and save you.....then you are setting up the relationship for failure. Happiness should come from within....you should not depend all of your happiness on your partner....cause that would be unreasonable to put those kinds of expectations on your partner. This would help you not take certain things personal when your partner does something that does not make you happy...it's about understanding and sharing your happiness with your partner.

True, your partner should compliment you and help you see things differently so you can evolve....and the same can be said about you. Helping each other evolve together and with yourselves as a person.

If you have a strong need for somebody to make your life happy, then I would advise to stop watching too many hollywood crap movies and shows....

I would agree only to the physiological aspects of that....our bodies do have needs. Other than that, if you are squeezing needs from your partner, you are only squeezing your happiness. There is the need for security, but that is built upon fear. You should feel secure in yourself and with your love for life. If you don't, and go looking for that in somebody else to give it to you.....ultimately it will only lead to stormy weather after the morning and day has faded(in the beginning of a relationship when everything goes right and feels right)...


you pu tit much better then I did but glad to wee someone else on the same wavelength as myself and Irishlass! handshake
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Apr 17, 2008 5:54 PM CST If you were my soulmate
emc_eile:

I'm often asked why am I single and made feel like a failure



Don't be hard on yourself and I would suggest to not take anything personal as to what people say. Don't let them define your reality....
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Apr 17, 2008 5:57 PM CST If you were my soulmate
irishlass45: I thought you meant in general didn't know you meant YOUR soul mate sorry about that, yours?......................................


I meant in general...I was being sarcastic as to mine....not really worried about it. I'm actually really happy being single...though I would not mind having a woman in my life to experience things with.....and have sexing....wine But I am not like "OMG, my life sucks cause I am single".....But I do get lonely at times for some intimacy....that is all.
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Apr 17, 2008 5:58 PM CST If you were my soulmate
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland34 Threads 2,178 Posts
lucky200761: there's a difference between needing and wanting...
wanting is more of a physical thing
..but needing is what completes both partners...did i lose anyone??


Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you.
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Apr 17, 2008 6:01 PM CST If you were my soulmate
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 6,330 Posts
Zarah: Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you.


How'd you get to be so wise?

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