StressFree: So you are not into one night stands?....jk
I agree with your statement....
its just a form or exercise then!
I need a little more along with it or like what we were saying on the relationship thing, I'd prefer to go without the settle for a 'bad' unfulfilling one night stand
emc_eile: thanks again hun for your point of view! Also seeing where I am I coming from! Its not easy as guys often don't appreciate me for just being me and many seem to define themselves or their relationship by how much someone 'NEEDS' or 'RELIES' on them and simply ar not happy just to be there and enjoy whats in front of them!
I'm often asked why am I single and made feel like a failure but reading your post and thinking about it ..... I'm just not prepared to settle for 2nd best!!! Must remember that the nest time I'm asked and not try to rustle up excuses! Thanks hun
You are always welcome, I am always full of it..........advice that is but it is true and how stressfree explained also shows that he has found himself, and living without someone to me and being happy, is more important than living in a situation trying to make it work, been there done that and don't want to do it again.You said people look on you as a failure? hmmm don't get that I thought that kind of thinking was left in the dark ages but guess different strokes and all but the fact that I am going to wait on mr.right and that is a specific description of him I am comfortable with, beats the hell out of fighting and arguing any day, so let them blah blah blah all they want if you are happy then that is what matters, in this situation that is, imo only.
nomindgames: You could be living alone and not be lonely or lving with someone and be lonley.Don't beleive in 1 soulmate,timing.
you and stressfree have given me food for thought never looked at it like that, I have always believed that there was one for one, confused now, everytime I have been in love I was in love, it was real therefore I was but always summed up the loss as well that was not the one for me so now I have to wonder, well something for me to ponder, maybe ya'll can stress that a little, no pun stressfree but maybe a little more input on what exactly ya'll two mean by that?
Well the majority of guys do ask me! thats fact/reality. It makes me panic a little about why I am still searching when I all seems so clear in my own head. Like Irish lass said I will always be learning but think I have a good take on it all ...... yet I'm still single
IMO because you have not met the one that is comfortable with himself yet, the one who knows who he is and what he is and what he is about, time lady E, time.
Correct. Only in a rare case, can a soulmate come for a certain individual....like I said before, that is a really rare and paranormal case. It requires it's own thread because of the complexities surrounding it. It has to do with finishing up a journey, and a certain soulmate can help another soul fulfill whatever that soul is trying to accomplish here with our earthly ways of evolving and experiencing, and karma.....
StressFree: Correct. Only in a rare case, can a soulmate come for a certain individual....like I said before, that is a really rare and paranormal case. It requires it's own thread because of the complexities surrounding it. It has to do with finishing up a journey, and a certain soulmate can help another soul fulfill whatever that soul is trying to accomplish here with our earthly ways of evolving and experiencing, and karma.....
I have to go to dream land now but think about putting that thread up on that would you? I WAS comfortable thinking I knew there was only one for one and now that you and another have made me think it throws a wrench in my thoughts, please explain in a thread you might be surprised how many responses you would get, thanks again for explaining goodnight
Here is another theory that I have read about relationships in a cosmic sense.
You know the term like "love at first site" and how you meet somebody and you could have sworn that you knew that person from somewhere. And how that person felt like he or she was a part of you within seconds of making eye contact. That could have been a soulmate from a past lifetime. You two may have accomplished everything there was as far as fulfilling your destiny and karmic evolution from a lifetime or over the course of many lifetimes.
So in essence, one of your old soulmates is no longer right for you in this lifetime because our souls need to experience something new and learn as well as evolve. So in that sense, it is coincidental timing and chance that you met your old soulmate, but there was nothing left to do. It was just maybe the need to reconnect and get back in touch. But old soulmates from past lifetimes never work out in this lifetime.
I've always believed we can love, REALLY love more than one person in our lifetime, in THIS lifetime. People who say you only love once, or you can only really love ONE person in your lifetime I think are wrong. What I tell my friends is saying that its like setting limits to our heart and life in general.
StressFree: Here is another theory that I have read about relationships in a cosmic sense.
You know the term like "love at first site" and how you meet somebody and you could have sworn that you knew that person from somewhere. And how that person felt like he or she was a part of you within seconds of making eye contact. That could have been a soulmate from a past lifetime. You two may have accomplished everything there was as far as fulfilling your destiny and karmic evolution from a lifetime or over the course of many lifetimes.
So in essence, one of your old soulmates is no longer right for you in this lifetime because our souls need to experience something new and learn as well as evolve. So in that sense, it is coincidental timing and chance that you met your old soulmate, but there was nothing left to do. It was just maybe the need to reconnect and get back in touch. But old soulmates from past lifetimes never work out in this lifetime.
Good lord, and I thought romantic relationships were complicated on this earthly plane!!
wold you be my strength when I was weak? my voice when I couldn't speak? my eyes when I couldn't see? would you see the best there was in me? lift me up when I couldn't reach? give me faith cause you believe?
.... give me my personal space when I need it ... ( just wanted to add)
Morning StressFree hope your brain full of questions and doubts and answers and ... free!
as for little brainless creatures aren't us, human beings have been inventing the greatest modern technologies by observing Them: what they are and what they are actually can to do survive in a harsh World of Nature.
StressFree: Very nice indeed Zarah.....wold you be my strength when I was weak? my voice when I couldn't speak? my eyes when I couldn't see? would you see the best there was in me? lift me up when I couldn't reach? give me faith cause you believe?....jk...please don't answer....Okay, I will use my next post to offer some insight as to my beliefs pertaining to the content in this thread....it got a bit interesting....
irishlass45: IMO because you have not met the one that is comfortable with himself yet, the one who knows who he is and what he is and what he is about, time lady E, time.
yes you are right there and I need to be more comfortable yet in my own thoughts and confidence not to be phased when questioned!
btw being able to chat about in this thread has help solidify the thoughts I have posted, make me realise I have something figure out and have got something right! (for once!) So often I fear getting it wrong I loose sight of things in lots of aspects including love!
within the soul is where we see the true essence of a person. To tap into that...to see it means you are closer with that person than you will ever be with there mine or heart...it is the closes we shall get to a soul mate imo
Krystlepixie: within the soul is where we see the true essence of a person. To tap into that...to see it means you are closer with that person than you will ever be with there mine or heart...it is the closes we shall get to a soul mate imo
I agree. We are not human beings on a spiritual journey, but spiritual beings on a human journey.....The soul is what connects our force to the source. The world and it's deceitful ways gives us the illusions to look away from our souls as tp what is real, and chase materialism and feed our selfish ego's and desires.
I am not a Christian, but I do like how Jesus stated to not love the world and it's evil desires.....
Aries01: Can't really add anything to that.. spot on.. u have to know when something is not working also though.. no point in flogging a dead horse .. if the fundamentals are there.. then the effort is worth it in the long run.. and you can only become stronger as a couple for it
Oh, I totally agree and it only compliments the belief concept. If one of the partners does not believe in the relationship, then there is no need to invest time into a relationship that is never going to be. Can't force a partner to believe in something that they don't want to believe in based on perception or just a matter of feel...Why beat a dead horse or flogg a dead horse...
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So you are not into one night stands?....jk
I agree with your statement....