what will you do when you see your bf/gf found sleeping with another boy/gal in the bedroom? ( Archived) (56)

I think he was saying his ex was the one that did it to him. Then turned around and blindsided him w/ a divorce...maybe, maybe not, but that's how I interpreted it.

I can understand that totally

but can you expect that of another to accept that?
I think thoughtfulness to the other should still stand at the first point in a relationahip

JMO

making an enquiry sounds just right..

Ohhh I though, she did leave HIM without discussion...

as I said, I would kick him out immediately

and he said, his wife did it too

awwww you naughty chick you

Yeah, I´m all for shock and awe...

Yes Ma'am, it was my decision. Before we married, which was just 2 years earlier, and thinking ahead because she was such a beautiful woman, that we would fully trust one another without question, and that we would be exclusive to one another. By her actions, she broke both agreements at the same time. Thereby, losing my respect of her, my trust of her, and she disrespected me and our word of honor to one another. No mercy!

Then, I found on the computer, she and this other guy had been setting all this up and planned it when I was to be at work. Unfortunately to her, I got off work early :) And it was in MY BED! Then come to find out, he too was married and cheated on HIS wife! So, I figured I would help her out and sent her copies of all their communications, and she divorced HIM! Needless to say, there's 2 sides to a coin :)

okay

yeh me to

Unexpected "shock and awe", especially in circumstances as this, will never turn out favorable. It will always have it's consequences.

Unexpected "shock and awe", especially in circumstances as this, will never turn out favorable. It will always have it's consequences.

Yeah, the other girl will freak out, grab her clothes and run! And then it´s time for punishment...

Oh my oh my

so I did get you wrong? I really apologize to you
to me, it did sound, that you did cheat on her

I really don't understand all of that
why do people do that?
if they are no longer happy in a relationship, why can't they talk about?
and leave maybe if there is no way together anymore
but to cheat is the last you can do I think
I think nothing hurts more

Well, we were both on the right track. I didn't grab her cloths and run, since she was my wife then, I told her to grab her cloths and leave. Unfortunately, I was a gentleman then, as I still am now, and allowed her to do it herself. God I'm tired of being a gentleman and constantly being taken advantage of.

I suspected something like that with my x, that's why I left but if I would have walked in on it I would be in jail because after I would have killed the guy, then I would have walked out.

Useless to kill only the guy. Both or not.

Just kidding.

Yes Ma'am, you understood things incorrectly. It was her that did it to me, and I was the one that very quickly ended it.

Something to keep in mind ..... More often then not,,,,, if a woman becomes a cheater, more than likely, that activity will at least remain in the back of their minds. Same applies to a man who cheats on his women. An "activity" difficult to make adjustments to, or change. So if it takes place, and you want an exclusive relationship, "remove" any possible or future potential. Needless to say, I did.

You're correct. If that activity or lifestyle in is the back of ones mind, don't get into, or remain in an exclusive relationship. Otherwise, there WILL BE someone getting emotionally hurt.

Hey! stupid guy, never give up to be a gentleman

or could you still look in the mirror by being a jerk?
be smart enough for to find the way for to nemain to be a gentleman but not to let take advantage of you anymore

then you will be a smart gentleman how sounds thaaat?

remain of course
and sorry for all the other spelling or grammer mistakes I did and still will do