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Dec 16, 2007 8:18 PM CSTHow many women make the first step/introduction?
ThatSingleGuy007
ThatSingleGuy007ThatSingleGuy007red deer, Alberta, Canada1 Threads 1 Polls 4 Posts

How many women make the first step/introduction?(Vote Below)

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I do all the time
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21%
No I like the men to come to me
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32%
Sometimes
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46%
Total Votes
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Just wanted to know how many of you ladies like to take the initiative and first step in making contact with us men? confused

I remember along time ago women/girls would definately make the first move but knowa days anyways I've noticed women don't do the chasing but then again walking up to some stranger is not the brightest idea..
Happy Holidayschristmas happy
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Dec 16, 2007 8:18 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
ThatSingleGuy007
ThatSingleGuy007ThatSingleGuy007red deer, Alberta Canada1 Threads 1 Polls 4 Posts
Just wanted to know how many of you ladies like to take the initiative and first step in making contact with us men? confused

I remember along time ago women/girls would definately make the first move but knowa days anyways I've noticed women don't do the chasing but then again walking up to some stranger is not the brightest idea..
Happy Holidayschristmas happy
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Dec 16, 2007 8:57 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
bbloup
bbloupbbloupMont-Tremblant, Quebec Canada9 Threads 69 Posts
Well. not that many my friend, most of em just wanna chat
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Dec 16, 2007 11:41 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada559 Threads 8,787 Posts
Ah but chatting can lead to more grin wave
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Dec 17, 2007 2:31 AM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada75 Threads 1 Polls 10,318 Posts
Can only speak for myself, but I'm extremely shy about approaching someone - although I do admit to liking to flirt! But to outright ask someone out - YIKES! lol

On the internet - I've tried it a few times - without success; but in my defense - I do generally respond to letters unless they are totally lame or vulgar.
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Dec 17, 2007 4:12 AM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,896 Posts
Hellowave

BC bound tomorrow!dancing
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Dec 17, 2007 1:15 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada75 Threads 1 Polls 10,318 Posts
Well that's great to hear - hope that you have a wonderful trip and that the weather cooperates (been raining off and on these last few days). Have a safe trip.
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Dec 17, 2007 9:33 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada288 Threads 1 Polls 7,330 Posts
I will go through and read the profiles and if I like what I read I will send a flower or an e-mail.

santa waving
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Dec 18, 2007 9:46 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
rubber_soul_73
rubber_soul_73rubber_soul_73Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada14 Posts
Yikes...I don't know if I would have the guts to approach a guy with the first email...the thought of rejection is a daunting one!
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Dec 19, 2007 10:34 AM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
ThatSingleGuy007
ThatSingleGuy007ThatSingleGuy007red deer, Alberta Canada1 Threads 1 Polls 4 Posts
Rubber Soul we men would welcome you ladies to make the first move, anyways I know I would.. I understand about that first message rejection thing god knows I've gotten enough from the women out there..

I think if someone made the effort but your not interested at least be kind and say sorry not interested..

Politeness goes so far yet costs nothingprofessor
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Dec 19, 2007 8:01 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
rubber_soul_73
rubber_soul_73rubber_soul_73Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada14 Posts
True, very true ThatSingleGuy...but how many people would actually be polite? Most of us just delete the email and ignore..
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Dec 20, 2007 2:27 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
donnacala
donnacaladonnacalaNorth York, Ontario Canada41 Threads 1,183 Posts
SURE!!!!

I would definately make the first move.....if I was interested.....

and if he wasn't, oh well...... c'est la vie..........

At least he had te common courtesy of saying so.........
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Dec 23, 2007 4:55 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
Tigger59
Tigger59Tigger59Wetaskiwin, Alberta Canada300 Posts
How come it's always up to us men to face up to rejection??
Ladies, try it, then maybe you can better understand why we sometimes hesitate.
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Jan 2, 2008 10:08 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
emeraldgemz
emeraldgemzemeraldgemzWhitby, Ontario Canada1 Threads 2 Polls 2 Posts
Sometimes we just have to get out of our comfort zone and take a chance.wink
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Jan 7, 2008 12:33 AM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
pburke5
pburke5pburke5Lacombe, Alberta Canada1 Posts
well rubber soul 73... not everyone is like that... i personally will email them back and explain why i am not interested instead of leaving them wonder is i will respond... i find it is the honest and polite thing to do. Do un to others as u would have done un to u! the proverb works!handshake
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Jan 7, 2008 3:08 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
If i find someone interesting i will send a flower or an email..hug
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Jan 7, 2008 5:15 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada288 Threads 1 Polls 7,330 Posts
I have made the first move by sending e-mails or flowers and never hear back from anyone so now the guy has to make the first move.
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Jan 7, 2008 8:09 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
Your too good for them hunhug
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Jan 14, 2008 11:23 AM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada26 Threads 1 Polls 259 Posts
I sometimes make the first move. Most so lately, as it seems no guys ever make the move on me. Though, I usually get no reply.... so I don't know why I bother to try. I wish guys would come to me though.moping
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Feb 18, 2008 5:08 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
swee_tangella
swee_tangellaswee_tangellawillemstad, Curaçao5 Threads 15 Posts
i do send flower and e mail the ones that dont answer it is there lost and i have made some good friends
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Feb 18, 2008 6:19 PM CST How many women make the first step/introduction?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada288 Threads 1 Polls 7,330 Posts
still waiting for a man to take the first steps and then I will take the second step.
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