Buffy327: I believe in Lust at first sight, attraction at first sight, but love NO.....I do believe it will take me a tad longer to reach that concussion...
Buffy327: I believe in Lust at first sight, attraction at first sight, but love NO.....I do believe it will take me a tad longer to reach that concussion...
I agree Love you need to build on and create trust but you can lust at first sight
Aswina: sharp term "Lust at first sight" - thanks Buffy no, I do not believe. Lust is often interchanged with Love :-(
Well thank u dear, but I am sure I stole the term from another and became familiar with in my walks of life, specifically when I was learning the difference between lust and love....
It does happen, be that as it may, commitment to that is a dedication that requires a "we are in the trenches together" type attitude. Generally speaking, many times a person can tell by looking at someone if they are a mean SOB or not, some can fool you though so back to the "don't judge a book by the cover". I have been fooled many times by someone who looked nice and acted nice at first. With my past experiences it seems I don't really know someone for at least 2 years, thats just me though not everyone. The hitch to this, is that as life progresses events can and will change a person to some extent. It can really be very interesting to know people and see how things change, there are always constants, morality, honesty , compassion ect. Love at first sight happens and is normally ignited by physical attraction of course, why be silly and deny it?
even tho I sm too old and jaded to believe in love at first sight, I do anyway
it doesn't always last forever but neither does love that has been carefully planned. My best relationships in my life were the ones where we knew instantly as soon as our eyes met...
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