What would you prefer? Knowing someone first, then fall in love? Or a love at first sight? (25)
love at first sight for me .. if it doesn't happen straight away, it isnt going to I don't think ..
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fabsie: Would you prefer to start dating immediately? Or first become friends, then start relationship?
How can I possibly love somebody I don't even know?
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I couldn't fall in love with a total stranger! What if they turned out not to like dogs?!? Or aubergines?!
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fabsie: Would you prefer to start dating immediately? Or first become friends, then start relationship?
First has to be chemistry, then get to know each other some and then falling in love could happen.
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In the past, i've always fallen in "love" at first sight and than get to know them, has worked for me than..but now.. i want to find someone that i can get to know first and than maybe fall in love with?
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lifeisadream: First has to be chemistry, then get to know each other some and then falling in love could happen.
same here.
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wordsmith99: I couldn't fall in love with a total stranger! What if they turned out not to like dogs?!? Or aubergines?!
I love Aubergines !
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For me it has happened both ways and both were equally good and long lasting.
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Maybe I´m wrong, but I have experienced love at first sight when I was very very young, and we stayed together for over 25 years, yet I don´t think it really happens with older or middle-aged men and women.
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
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mustbeDreaming: same here.
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JAN_is: Maybe I´m wrong, but I have experienced love at first sight when I was very very young, and we stayed together for over 25 years, yet I don´t think it really happens with older or middle-aged men and women.
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
Well, we can try a 2nd. sight or even a 3r. sight!
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JAN_is: Maybe I´m wrong, but I have experienced love at first sight when I was very very young, and we stayed together for over 25 years, yet I don´t think it really happens with older or middle-aged men and women.
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
I think it can happen at any age.
I fell in love at first sight with my late husband ( and he with me I believe ) when I was 43 and we had a wonderful life until he died.
When I was young I fell in love with my first husband after becoming friends. So you never know what is out there.
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What I would prefer? Easy - 100% fairytale style first-sight-love!
At 40+1 half your life is already past; why loose more time being logic and grown-up about everything, enough with such anyway, right?
No, if it was my choice I'd go for the big BANG anytime.
At 40+1 half your life is already past; why loose more time being logic and grown-up about everything, enough with such anyway, right?
No, if it was my choice I'd go for the big BANG anytime.
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JAN_is: Maybe I´m wrong, but I have experienced love at first sight when I was very very young, and we stayed together for over 25 years, yet I don´t think it really happens with older or middle-aged men and women.
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
We don´t have that freedom and carefree attitude to life and relationships that we had when were teenagers, or in our early twenties, and we aren´t as pretty or good looking enough to provoke a heart stopping reaction, which may or may not turn out to be love at first sight!
yes, I think so too..... I would go for the friendship first. Love lasts longer that way, I know, I've experienced it.
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Love at first sight, nah, I don`t like that one .... Never worked for me.
Much prefer getting to be friends first.
This guy I met now ... absolutely perfect for me .. but... I`ve known him for 4 years, and never took any notice of him before, except for the fact that if he was at a function, I always had a dance partner!
I used to think he was ... actually ... quite .. well, ahem .... ugly? But, getting to know him, I now think he is the most handsomest man I have EVER seen! hahaaaaa ...... And a wonderful personality, a deep thinker, intelligent, kind, talented,trustworthy, etc etc etc .........
Much prefer getting to be friends first.
This guy I met now ... absolutely perfect for me .. but... I`ve known him for 4 years, and never took any notice of him before, except for the fact that if he was at a function, I always had a dance partner!
I used to think he was ... actually ... quite .. well, ahem .... ugly? But, getting to know him, I now think he is the most handsomest man I have EVER seen! hahaaaaa ...... And a wonderful personality, a deep thinker, intelligent, kind, talented,trustworthy, etc etc etc .........
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I go for love at first sight.
love has all to with feeling.. I don't want to think about it too much...
because I can talk myself into falling in love with somebody....and I'll never go that road again.
so I promised myself to trust my feelings about someone....and not to think about it.
love has all to with feeling.. I don't want to think about it too much...
because I can talk myself into falling in love with somebody....and I'll never go that road again.
so I promised myself to trust my feelings about someone....and not to think about it.
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I cannot fall in love with someone I know. 'Falling in love' happens to me because I idealize someone I DON'T know well and when I really know him - I either start to love him or I don't. 
But that doesn't mean that I have to be in love to start a relationship. Sometimes it's enough if I like him.
'Falling in love' happens to me because I idealize someone I DON'T know well and when I really know him - I either start to love him or I don't. But that doesn't mean that I have to be in love to start a relationship. Sometimes it's enough if I like him. ------ This poll is Archived ------
mike69spain: What I would prefer? Easy - 100% fairytale style first-sight-love!
At 40+1 half your life is already past; why loose more time being logic and grown-up about everything, enough with such anyway, right?
No, if it was my choice I'd go for the big BANG anytime.
At 40+1 half your life is already past; why loose more time being logic and grown-up about everything, enough with such anyway, right?
No, if it was my choice I'd go for the big BANG anytime.
I completely agree with you.
I've read so many books about psychology and there are so many 'proper' thinking and 'proper' living and 'proper' pieces of advice and one day I got tired of all of that and realized: I just want to be happy.
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Guys don't grow up, they grow down, check the stats' for this poll
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The 41+ men (boys?) votes as does the 18-40 girls (women?)
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The 41+ men (boys?) votes as does the 18-40 girls (women?)
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U are ryt love. The 1st cut is the deepest,so the 1st feeling is the best. You Use ur heart to love not your brains
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What would you prefer? Knowing someone first, then fall in love? Or a love at first sight?(Vote Below)