How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
One email
9
12%
Four to Five emails
18
23%
A email and chat for a while
29
38%
To many to count
21
27%
Total Votes
77
I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?...
what would most girls love the most out of dese????
sexy lingerie
5
7%
Bunch of roses
8
11%
teddy bear
4
5%
romantic candle light dinner
20
27%
hand in hand walk along the beach
29
40%
long drive
7
10%
Total Votes
73
any other suggestions most welcome...................
Ladies,what is the main thing, in a man's profile that turns you away ?
Picture(or lack thereof)
35
38%
Job/Income
4
4%
Education
2
2%
Marriage History
5
5%
Children
3
3%
Distance/Location
9
10%
Age
1
1%
Drinking/Smoking Habits
13
14%
An indescribable Repulsion
14
15%
Other (please specify)
7
8%
Total Votes
93
...click and type away,people...............
Have you ever faked an emergency to end a date?
Yes
22
39%
No
25
45%
I'd consider it if she/he was an absolute nutjob
9
16%
Total Votes
56
For the first time ever a recent date had me searching for the exit..whilst I didnt go through with it and stuck it out albeit for an hour, it got me thinking as to how many people out there would actually go through with it! [color=indigo...Read more
What's the most exciting date that you have been on? Did it involve....
Fireworks
5
14%
Water
5
14%
Travel
10
29%
Gambling
2
6%
Shopping
2
6%
Cultural Event
7
20%
Tweezers and Electrodes...lol
4
11%
Total Votes
35
I've been on some exciting dates in my life. I've been very fortunate to have met some true gentlemen as well. One date was with a friend who expected nothing more than companionship who flew me to Washington DC very early in the morning. We walked t...Read more
Why are there so many guys that post pictures that are 25 years old!
They really think that they still look that way
29
34%
They need glasses...
3
4%
They are afraid of rejection
32
38%
They are consuming HGH
2
2%
They are using amazing face creams
9
11%
They have no intentions of meeting anyone
10
12%
Total Votes
85
It's very disinheartening to find that a man that you are attracted to has mis-represented himself with ancient pictures. My oldest pic on here is 5 years old and I sincerely just put it on my profile to see how well it would do in rating. Most of my...Read more
If he/she was unavailable ten years ago, but is available now, would you go out with him/her?
No, didn't care about me then, why should I now?
13
15%
Maybe, afterall we are more mature now.
51
59%
Can stay unavailable for all I care.
7
8%
What is he/she up to?
8
9%
Why, did he/she get caught cheating?
4
5%
No, his/her family didn't care about me back then
3
3%
Total Votes
86
Sometimes we meet people we are attracted, but they are not available for various reasons. Years later there is a chance meeting or meeting of fate, and you discover you are both still attracted to each other. Wpuld you go out with this person or not...Read more
Strangest Encounters with Online Dating
They wore a costume
1
1%
You're a woman and they made you pay for dinner
5
7%
They brought someone with them
1
1%
They talked about thier sexual fetish
8
12%
They cried about something
6
9%
They were just all over you
2
3%
Thier child asked, "are you my new parent?"
1
1%
You were frightened
5
7%
They didn't look at all like thier picture
32
48%
No show but you were sure they were watching you
6
9%
Total Votes
67
I've had some strange experiences with online dating and I've heard some amazing stories from others...What's your weirdest experience with online dating?...
what is it that is more important for you???
LOVE
52
51%
SELF ESTEEM
22
22%
POWER
2
2%
WEALTH
9
9%
SOCIAL CIRCLE
1
1%
PROFESSION
3
3%
OTHERS
13
13%
Total Votes
102
I THINK THERE IS NOTHING MORE TO EXPLAIN HERE ////...
Be honest - would you see this women again?
No. I would see that as a red flag
22
27%
Perhaps once more. Then review it
29
35%
Yes. Anyone could have done that.
6
7%
Sounds fragile. I'd go easy here
17
21%
Something else(what)
8
10%
Total Votes
82
Okay, so went out on a bit of a date, last night. Met her from a site, not this one. She was attractive and pleasant enough, down to earth. I wouldn't say I was 100% blown away, but at the same time, for a relatively short meeting, yes, I wo...Read more
Why do most women want to date men older than them?
feel more safe
45
26%
to leave the man to take decisions
9
5%
to have him pay in restaurants
18
10%
find him more attractive
35
20%
other reason
67
39%
Total Votes
174
I want to discover what people think about this age difference between men and women...
A lady that laughs all the time for no reason is
Sexy and flirting
12
12%
Has humor
21
21%
Just Normal
10
10%
Not serious
21
21%
Unatractive
38
37%
Total Votes
102
what do u think?...
First date and all he /she does is talk about their ex and how bad they were.
Start talking about how bad your ex was.
6
7%
Excuse yourself to the restroom and slip out.
24
28%
Act like you're intrested when your not.
19
22%
Be truely intrested and continue the date.
12
14%
Other.
25
29%
Total Votes
86
Hi all. New to the site but had to ask this question as it happened to me. About 1 1/2 years ago, I tried an online dating site. We talked for a while on the site, then went to private email and Im's. Then the time came to meet in person. The...
A woman wearing high heels, a trench coat, slim gold watch, curly hair, lots of makeup is
Who cares?
76
69%
A stripper
34
31%
Total Votes
110
How do you find a good girl?
Find a good personality
19
26%
Find one is easily get angry with you
2
3%
Find one has a honest character
23
31%
Find one want to cheat your money
1
1%
Find one has decent heart
26
35%
Find one that cheat you and slept to others
1
1%
Find a good looking
0
0%
Find one dare to do every bad things
2
3%
Total Votes
74
There are so many nice girls are willing to give, as they have generous hearts and decent characters. On the other hand,how do you know that you are in the right process? How do you know that you are not cheated by horrible woman?...
We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
Attractions are energy with pos/negative outcome
7
23%
Forced attractions bring undesired results
2
7%
Misconceptions bring negative results
1
3%
Preconceived notions brings undesired results
1
3%
Projecting your wants brings unpleasant outcome
2
7%
Destiny play a part in whatever outcome
8
27%
We need to be prepared for any outcome
5
17%
We need to be honest about our desires
1
3%
We need to be accepting of our part in outcome
1
3%
Unpleasant outcome make us more resilient people
2
7%
Total Votes
30
Do you find that you are just as likely to have a negative outcome even if you think positive about an individual you are attracted to?...
Online matchmaking
I've had success with it
18
20%
I've got burnt
14
16%
Seems impossible
22
25%
I've not had any luck, but I know someone who has
35
39%
Total Votes
89
I live in a small community and I don't have the chance to get out enough to meet a man. Even if I had a chance though, where do I go. Bar hopping is not for me. I'm curious what people think about online dating! Tell me your e...Read more
Have you ever been to a speed dating night?
No. However, I would definitely think about it.
28
38%
No. The idea sounds horrible
31
42%
Yes. I have been, and had great fun
6
8%
Yes. I went. Not a good way to meet people tho
7
10%
Other(what?)
1
1%
Total Votes
73
As it says...have you?...
how many women did u have in your life?
1
6
10%
2
7
11%
3
2
3%
4
3
5%
5
8
13%
10
7
11%
20
12
19%
50
6
10%
100
0
0%
100 and plus
11
18%
Total Votes
62
so.......
A woman in jeans tucked in flat boots, a light blue shirt, a big watch, and smoking a thin cigar is
Sexy
6
12%
Confident
6
12%
Making a Statement
10
19%
Normal
5
10%
Unatractive
12
23%
Behaving like a man
13
25%
Total Votes
52
what do u think?...
when u watch football..what are u thinking off?
The game
17
42%
Not interested in the game
8
20%
How will the next day be
0
0%
My girlfriend
6
15%
The football players wife/girlfriend
0
0%
Never thought of it
9
22%
Total Votes
40
so what do u think of this......
When you run into one of your ex's how do you feel?
Start to miss them again.
9
7%
Start crying and beg them to take you back.
1
1%
Smile and say Hi!
40
31%
Act casual and start talking to catch up.
15
12%
Run the other way!
9
7%
Wonder what in the world you were thinking.
18
14%
Feel the need to throw up.
10
8%
Give them the evil eye.
3
2%
Beat the HELL out of them!
2
2%
Don't speak and keep walking.
21
16%
Total Votes
128
Personally, whenever I have to see my ex, or even hear his voice, I feel the need to throw up....seriously. He turns my stomach....
The best way for a guy you don't know to engage your attention is to...
Make solid eye contact and smile
27
32%
Interject a compliment about your wardrobe
1
1%
Interject a compliment about your body/eyes/hair
8
10%
Sing/hum/whistle randomly and hope you notice
2
2%
Simply approach you and introduce himself
41
49%
If I'm interested, I'll make the first move
5
6%
Total Votes
84
I find that a lot of women won't make eye contact, for some reason or another. I find afterward, sometimes they actually were attracted to me, but essentially shut down all signals/opportunities. So, where do you go when this happens?...
Mens Chests........ Good to See on a Profile or Not
I like to see
16
19%
I don't like to see
55
65%
Other
13
15%
Total Votes
84
After a thread the other evening where the ladies wanted to see some of the guys chests just for a bit of fun, I posted some of my own to my profile. I have had various comments in the past where some ladies find it offensive and a turn off, and o...Read more
Do check out a profile more then once?
photos
15
10%
imformation
15
10%
because you like them
42
29%
curious
27
19%
you forgot what it said?
44
31%
Total Votes
143
Why do people check out a profile over and over?...
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