People who Hurt, Play and Let you down .. what should you do ?
Try to get even !!
19
5%
Let Karma take care of them
178
50%
Never forgive !!
26
7%
Forgive and Forget !!
33
9%
Forgive but cant forget !!
75
21%
Other ( pls make a post if you like )
15
4%
Haven't been through such a situation.
7
2%
Total Votes
353
There have been a lot of sad stories, untoward events and bitter memories off late. Heres a space for each one of us .. to share , support and comfort . Vent and even speak out loud if we please. A space for all the hurt we feel the emotion we wan...Read more
WHEN WOULD YOU LIE TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE? (HONESTY PLEASE)
WHEN THE TRUTH WOULD HURT TOO MUCH
33
16%
TO PROTECT HIM OE HER
25
12%
ANYTIME IS THE RIGHT TIME TO COVER UP
3
1%
IF IT REALLY DID NOT MATTER
3
1%
IF IT MAKES HIM OR HER FEEL GOOD
7
3%
ONLY WHEN I HAVE TO
9
4%
SELDOM....
7
3%
IT REALLY DOES DEPEND ON THE SITUATION
43
21%
ONLY IN FUN
5
2%
NEVER AT ANY COST
73
35%
Total Votes
208
JUST WONDERING HOW HONEST WE CAN BE HERE...
Have you ever seen a man cry?
romantic
16
8%
pethatic
11
6%
men are human too
161
mama's baby
2
1%
Total Votes
190
...and how do you feel about it?...
Would you give up a relationship for your Dog ? if one of them had to go...
Yes, I would leave my lover to keep my Dog
98
54%
No, I would give up my Dog to keep my Lover
83
46%
Total Votes
181
Lets assume your lover can't be in the same Home as your dog or his health will deteriorate... Please be honest, I Just really need to know, Thanks...
What do you do to forget someone ?
Find someone else to think about
53
30%
Think of the bad things about this person
8
5%
You'll never forget someone !!
67
39%
Keep on meeting the person and disattach
3
2%
Just don't think about the person
43
25%
Total Votes
174
What can you do to put someone out of your mind and heart ?...
have you ever had your heart broken?
yes
154
no
9
6%
Total Votes
163
ive had my heart broken. have you?...
Are there any decent women out there?
No
22
14%
No:
7
4%
Maybe
18
12%
Oh ok then
3
2%
Yes
106
68%
Total Votes
156
Not realy a broken heart.Just defending men!...
does true love really exist?
no
23
15%
don't thing so
22
14%
yes
109
71%
Total Votes
154
I created this poll because i have never found true love...
have you ever dumped someone then taken them back later?
yes
73
48%
no
79
52%
Total Votes
152
I have hope he will take me back...
Broken heart, how long did it take to mend?
1 month
23
15%
6 months
20
13%
1 year
22
15%
18 months
9
6%
2 years
11
7%
Over 2 years
19
13%
Never Has/Never Will
45
30%
Total Votes
149
I met a man from another site. Dated for several months, began to fall in love with him and his kids and grandkids, and they me. One day he tells me he's decided he's not ready for anything as serious as we were getting. Said it wasn't me, or anyt...Read more
IF HE LOVED ME; WOULD HE STOP DRINKING??????
should I run and not look back?
111
76%
should I stay and help him?
35
24%
Total Votes
146
my new boyfriend has a tendency to blow all his money on wine, spirits and all when he gets paid.... thank god that I do not depend on him financially, otherwise I would be homeless. He has promised to stop drinking soooo many times that I cannot co...Read more
What is the most heartless way to dump someone?
In a busy shopping center in front of their mates
16
11%
Via SMS, Email or network site
54
39%
Have a friend tell them after times gone by
7
5%
The new partner tells them
44
31%
Don't tell them at all til they see you and ask
19
14%
Total Votes
140
Let us find out the most heartless method of dumping?...
One could fall in love many times in ur lifetime,but the first love is always special..do u agree?
Yeah
72
53%
Nay
63
47%
Total Votes
135
One could fall in love many times during the course of a lifetime, but the first rush of love always holds a special place in our hearts. I am not able to get over my first love and move on with my life :-(...
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN SOMEONE LIES ON THEIR PROFILE AND YOU MEET THEM AND FIND OUT?
DO YOU CONFRONT THEM ON THE LIE?
101
78%
DO YOU IGNORE THE LIE?
12
9%
DO YOU JUST GIVE UP PEOPLE BEING HONEST?HELP
16
12%
Total Votes
129
I Have had my heart broken so many times should i really try to get back in to dating
NO
21
17%
Maybe
31
24%
yes
75
59%
Total Votes
127
I Would like comments plz...
Is it right for your CS-found-bf/gf to tell you to cancel your account once you started dating?
yes
36
29%
no
45
36%
sign of immaturity and insecurity
35
28%
other
10
8%
Total Votes
126
He said it gives him a hint that I am still searching because my account is still here...What? You don't trust me, do you?...
how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
just once
69
55%
so long as its not important...ie wieght , age ,
25
20%
a few times so long as your really sorry
0
0%
just do not let know about your lover
1
1%
it better not be about your lover
2
2%
we all bend the truth a little
19
15%
other
10
8%
Total Votes
126
I was talking with a friend who was upset because someone lied about to her about their age..i was wondering if my new sweetheart lied to me ...what would i do..would it be over..what would you do? kds...
Does marriage destroy love?
yes..
27
22%
no...
52
42%
it brings expectations
19
15%
it is a prison...
7
6%
what's wrong with endless love?
20
16%
Total Votes
125
the title speaks for itself......
what do we really want most from people ..love ? ..respect ?..or understanding ?..choose one only !
love
50
40%
respect
46
37%
understanding
28
23%
Total Votes
124
and please explain why ?...
Is there really someone out there for everyone?
Woman - Yes for sure
26
21%
Man - Yes for sure
13
11%
Woman - Heck NO
7
6%
Man - Heck NO
7
6%
Over 30 and still looking
14
11%
Over 40 and still looking
13
11%
Woman - Hopefully
28
23%
Man - Hopefully
14
11%
Total Votes
122
Very sad and tired of being alone....
Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Yes.
20
17%
No.
14
12%
It really depends on the circumstances.
41
34%
I can forgive, but I never forget.
45
38%
Total Votes
120
What Happends Most in Divorce with Children?
They both end up equal
12
10%
The mother gets custudy of children
63
54%
Dad can't see the kids much but is better parent
6
5%
Mom can't see the kids much but the better parent
1
1%
Women lie in court to get what she wants
5
4%
Men lie in court to get what he wants
8
7%
Does not matter the Dad always looses
13
11%
Social Services help Mom not Dad
1
1%
Social Services help Mom and Dad equally
1
1%
Social Services do anything so Mom has custudy
7
6%
Total Votes
117
I am trying to find out what the majority thinks about what happens to Children after a divorce with children are involved. I have heard so many different things about the subject. Thank You...
looking for love
prefere to being single
14
12%
cant trust no man
4
3%
onces a cheater always a cheater
6
5%
it hurts alot
4
3%
i must be ugly to have him cheat
2
2%
i miss the compantionship
22
19%
looking for love again
40
34%
need to be love
14
12%
do u see any thing wrong with me
4
3%
what do u think
7
6%
Total Votes
117
love...
Why do long relationships sometimes breakdown; your opinion of the #1 factor?
Lack of communication between spouses?
30
26%
Lack of physical intimacy between couples?
8
7%
Lack of common goals?
8
7%
All of the above.
61
53%
None of the above.
4
3%
other
5
4%
Total Votes
116
What is your opinion as to why long relationships eventually turn into broken hearts and lives. It is a sad thing to see prevail in our society....
Is it hard sometimes not to be bitter?....After you have been really hurt?
yes ......sometimes....
42
37%
yes.......very hard
45
40%
not really ....... i just keep letting go...
21
19%
ha........i never take things that serious
5
4%
Total Votes
113
do you still feel bitter for lifes inequities...the truth and any advice please for those of us who are shocked and still hold hard feelings...
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