Springguy: "NO" to me means: "New Opportunities". The important thing is to not give up and don't change who you are to accomdate a potential mate if in fact you say you are a good/ sweet guy etc. She has to accept you for who you are and vice versa. Don't settle for the first woman that comes your way immediately. Get to know each other well. Keep your list of requirements/expectations up to date and make sure she is in fact what you are looking for. Best of luck to you and remember if you ask 100 girls out I am sure at least 10 will say yes.
Stareyes: thank you for your kind words. I live my life one day at a time. Making tomorrows happy memories today. If I can make a positive difference in your life it makes me very glad. Life will always have it's ups and downs. The idea is to learn from our mistakes and grow spiritually and intellectually. The key is to figure out our purpose in life and how we fit in this world. As far as your English is concerned from now on you can change your outlook by saying: I may not know a whole lot of English/grammer, stuff about computers: you fill in the blank(_______ )but I am learning more and more everyday, and by doing that you are actually putting positive reinforcement in your brain and you will succeed...
This is Hilarious! Any self proclaimed Engineer or Business man that has the nerve to ask for financial assistance for his business from some one he just met is pathetic, let alone ask to be financed on someone's personal credit card. A real business man will have all the Banker/Investor Contacts that are necessary to finance a real business venture etc. If he is approaching an every day regular working joe/anne that should be your RED-FLAG WARNING....
Inner peace is priceless and it can only be found through deep soul searching. One must have inner-peace: not only before the storm, or after the storm but DURING the storm. Without self love, appreciation, and understanding of one-self. You can never truly love someone else if you don't know how to love your self first. We all grow spiritually and intellectually as we live our lives. Our paradyme or what we perceive as reality will be based on past/current experiences, intellectual abilities, where we have been, done, tasted, seen, etc. People may not always perceive things the same way you view them. I personally believe that being open minded, having humility, and treating people the way you want to be treated will always have a positive outcome in your life. If you are a lost soul looking to figure out your purpose in life, start by looking at yourself and see how you have contributed to this world positively to make a difference for our future generations... If you find out that you are nothing more than an oxygen bandit then it's time to refocus and start working towards your new goals....
She knew what she was after... Let me tell you. What a night mare did the short (Thank God!)relationship turn out to be... I made it and lived to tell about it...
@lovely: It looks like you perhaps lack in the reading comprehension department....Your attention span is quite short also. You apparently are trying to make a SAD attempt at bashing people. If you don't have anything good to say take your negativity somewhere else...
Dawndeb, You are absolutely correct there is a lot pain and emotional suffering that is brought upon by a sick family member. There are a lot of AA resources out there to help family members cope with alcoholic family members. The disease of alcoholism is a difficult and vicious cycle to break without help. AA is a worlwide institution that will lend a helping hand when a sick individual is ready to make a change for the better in their lives.
If this man can not accept you competely for who you are then you do not need to be with him period. The simple fact that he treats you different around friends is a BAD thing.
Bigcity KL. It sounds like your "crush" does not have any significant other in his life right now. Ask him to join your for a friendly cup of coffee... It's 2011 girls can go after what they want... ;)
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I can keep adding to the list but I will let other people post their opinions.... 
RE: I Got the Job!
Congratulations!! Remember that "NO" Means New Opportunities....