RE: Happiness and Peace

I have found happiness and peace, and after searching for years and years, I found it in the last place I'd thought to look... within !rolling on the floor laughing

It began with the journey of self discovery about a year ago. I learnt to love and approve of myself, this gave me happiness because I no longer critized myself, it's best to be for ourselves not against, it's a good place to start laugh

Next I developed an attitude of gratitude, and started being more aware of all I had and focused only on the abundance of good in my life.

So now I had better self esteem and I was grateful for everything, no matter how small. I had learned to love myself and was now able to reach out to love others, unconditionally with no expectations. The attitude of gratitude also thought me not only how to receive gratefully but also to give unconditionally. If you try both of these in time, your time, you will find that moment by precious moment, happiness and joy will ooze from your every pore, and I am so hoping that you take the time to look within today... you will be so glad you did !

Check out some of my blogs/articles if you like.

teddybear

RE: Can a Man and a Woman?

Hello, beautiful people, yes I have many online friends too, this friendship is born out of mutual respect. I also believe that if we learn to love ourselves first, not in an arrogant or vain way, then we can really share that love with others and meet them halfway, with no expectations, unconditionally giving our friendship, sharing our light, and recognising our similarities and celebrating them instead of only focusing on the differences, we create unity.The genuine people stay and chat, and are content with this interaction. The other type of person I'm afraid are really missing out on something beautiful. You see we can be lonely and looking for love and only focus on getting what we want and accept nothing else, or we can enjoy the friendships that spring up, regardless of the outcome. Life is a journey, We always have the choice to enjoy getting there, or to wait until we arrive at our destination before we enjoy.

teddybear

RE: What is best?

Follow your heart or if still confused write down both issues - weigh up the consequences of any action you may take. Ask yourself, is it for the highest good of all ? And remember unless we make some form of a choice nothing will happen, there will be no result. Very few choices are like a life or death decision, life's about making the best of where we are now, making choices that appear to be the best for all concerned, and then facing forward,no regrets, saying to ourselves, I made the best decision I could at that time, and I can make another decision a little later on. Read 'Feel the fear and do it anyway' -Susan Jeffers, it'll help you !

teddybear

RE: I met a girl named "Clarity"

Wow, I really enjoyed this blog, thanks !

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RE: those who really want someone special ... are we o

Well I am genuine anyway, but I'm finding that some people are not what they say they are, or they live somewhere different to where they've stated in their profile etc. So I don't really know how they will find that someone special without honesty.

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Kindness

Hi Ebola, have you read the book love is letting go of fear, by Gerald Jampolsky? (I think I spelled correctly) Excellent book also feel the fear and do it anyway, by Susan Jeffers is great too. What we should know is that fear is not real, we create it ourselves most of the time.

lOVE heart beating Now there's a subject ! I believe we cannot truly love another person until we learn to love ourselves. If we haven't learnt this we go through life seeking for others to fill a void. This comes from my own experience of not being loved as a child. In the past year I've seen the difference in my life. I've learnt to love and approve of myself, I am whole, complete and fulfilled, now I do not seek for others to fulfil me, I am happy anyway.

My ideal partner will add to my happiness, he will add love to my life as I will his.... can't wait to meet him... so excited ! Lol

Yes we always have a choice and it is great that you recognise this. When we choose to be kind we make a difference in two peoples lives, ours and the other persons !

Thanks to both of you for your comments.

teddybear

Expectations

Thanks for the comments, and yes you're right I didn't 'expect' ! Lol, so I am gratefully surprised, thank you !

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How do we get hurt ?

Hi Lard,

Thanks for your supportive comments, I really appreciate them. I've just written an article to help us find what we want, I have to reduce it though, as it has too many characters, so watch this space ! Coming soon...

Paula

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The Happiness Within

Thanks Mariannah,

Wishing you all the happiness you can handle, best wishes not just for this year, but for the rest of your life !

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Destination You

Thanks for all your lovely comments.Having read many books, the one I found most beneficial to date was Louise Hay's book 'You can Heal your life'. This is where I really learnt the importance of self worth. I quickly followed her suggestions and they work. I feel that if we don't love and approve of ourselves and don't feel worthy or good enough, then we attract people into our lives who help us to reinforce this belief we have. This has been my experience anyway. We also go through life in a half hearted manner, never fully reaching our true potential.Because we don't feel that we deserve'the best',that actually becomes our experience of life. I've changed my beliefs about myself and found that my experience of life has changed too, and oh, it's so much better... I could never go back !

teddybear

What are you waiting for?

Ah sure, aren't we all a work in progress laugh Life's a lesson, let's learn it, no bitterness, anger, resentment, critizing ourselves, just moving step by step in the forward direction towards what we want, starting now, forget yesterday, can't do anything bout that now, forget tomorrow for the moment , it's far away. It's all about this moment, now and saying 'What can I do now to move myself towards my happiness?'' What could I do today, no matter how small ?'

teddybear

What are you waiting for?

Hi everyone and thanks for your comments. I discovered a year ago, just how much I could change my life for the better by just believing in myself, so now I share what I learn , as I learn it, in the hope that it will help another find their happiness, their joy. Wishing you all the very best that life can offer, yes you can have it.... just believe... take appropiate action and yes... receive !yay

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