and dear blogger.... my suggestion to you is, instead of complaining we are materialitisc, you had better improve yourself, not only in your pocket, but also in your manner, from the outside, to the inside. all of my boy classmates, they work hard but seldom complain things like you. because they know, in the real world, the real life not only needs love, but also need money. that is why, we, boys and girls, work so hard to make a living, in the hope that we can build a happy family together, in the future.
when you finally find a japanese or westerner girl who is not materiallistic, tell me. i give you congratulate.
music. about "Nan King or the second Japanese-Sino war", i guess we have exchanged some messages before and talked about it too. and about the Iris Chang too.
i guess the reason is like this: asian people are still poor compared to western people, so when they go to USA, they will feel that they are "lower" than the local people. since Japan is the strongest nation in Asian, so those girls you meet would like to say that they are Japanese, so that they won't be so "low" compared to the westerner?? i am not sure.
Did you remember the two Chinese boys in my previous pictures when I was still a "man" in my profile? They are good-looking and well-educated, but I just can not catch neither of them.
Jana.. I guess not all the Bulgarian men are the same? I mean, perhaps we should not generalize all the men... because there may be good man among them... So don't lose hope.. I wish you are well.
paul. i do not say that i am not materialistic. as i have said, we (including i) live in the real world, not in the dreaming world.
i am just wondering why the blogger does not find his local girls.... i don't think japanese girls or westerner girls will want him from my chinese girls' standard about "looking for parner".
i am still having salt when this happened. and i guess this thing first happen in Shang hai and Zhijiang where some bad people spread rumors and cause people to rush to buy salt...
If yourself has more charm than the Sweden visa or money or work permit, then why they would want to marry for the work permit? They would love you and marry you.
But if the visa or money have more charm than yourself, then they might be just for the work permit.
It will be your loss if a Chinese woman really loves you but you think that she just uses you to get the visa. Trust me, our women have better skills to treat their men.
And be careful. Some of them may really want to use you for the work permit. But don't tell me no Swedom women use American men for the green card.
My girlfriend is quite simple-minded. When she was at your age, she was so busy with her study at university that she seldom thought of love or single... I wonder whether she knows what love or single means... But that doesn't matter. She is at my age.
Stillofthenight... How far is your province to Vancouver? It has been saying that there will be a very terrible earthquake in Vancouver. Its principle is the same as the terrible earthquake that happened in Indonesia on 12, 26, 2004.
Scientists have been worrying about that must-happen earthquake in Vancouver for many years...
sister, honey, your thinking is very deep and i would like to read all of them. but may i give you a little suggestion? when you wrtite your deep words, please just leave some lines or space between two paragraphs, so that i can read them easily... my mother language is Congolese, so it is a bit difficult for me to read... sorry...
RE: Chinese girls are materialistic
musicman..and dear blogger.... my suggestion to you is, instead of complaining we are materialitisc, you had better improve yourself, not only in your pocket, but also in your manner, from the outside, to the inside. all of my boy classmates, they work hard but seldom complain things like you. because they know, in the real world, the real life not only needs love, but also need money. that is why, we, boys and girls, work so hard to make a living, in the hope that we can build a happy family together, in the future.
when you finally find a japanese or westerner girl who is not materiallistic, tell me. i give you congratulate.