Depends on the circumstances but if you are in front of many people smile politely, say in a half joking manner that you are feeling nervous this will help you find your courage
First check out the ring situation…… no rings or ring marks means “maybe available!”.
One good way of introducing yourself in a chance encounter is to accidentally on purpose bump into someone preferably making that person drop something that way you can make the excuse to invite the person out for a drink or meal as a way of apologizing.
Of course you could have a few “business” cards made up that can be discretely slipped in a persons pocket or bag that has your phone number on saying …. “We just bumped into each other… call me”. A photo would also help so the person remembers who they have just bumped into.
There is one very important aspect in turning a chance encounter into a date and that is make the person feel comfortable. If a person feels threatened or vulnerable…. Then you have blown your chances.
I am a knight Crusader sworn by oath to rescue beautiful damsels in distress, however my trusty steed has no wings to propel me to your side and I haven’t seen a dragon in a while.
Come to Tenerife......... I'm relaxing by the pool it is HOT in the sun, the water is cooooooooooooooool, refreshing and tempting me for a swim, the martini at my side is sweating droplets of pure delight as I gently sip it's flavor, the waiter has just brought my lunch.... crab salad.......... Lifes a dream.
Of course dont want to make you jealous!!!! hahahahahahahaha
@arose I value your comments but you did not strike me as the type of girl that was hypocritical, judgmental and cant keep two thoughts together to read beyond a sentence let alone understand a complete thought process of a paragraph. I actually thought you were quite bright. Amazing how looks can be deceiving!
@sail I don't care that you were not impressed at what I had to say. It also does not matter how long I have been on site or whether I should ignore you or not…. However it could be conceived that because you are still onsite then this fantastic man you have found may not be as fantastic as you believe him to be so you continue to play the field in the hope of finding someone better which has been the topic of many blogs I believe.
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Finding “the one” exists
@Saskia?You knew I would take the bait and reply to your post.... very sneeky!!