You are right once again morgen me and goodwoman will make an extra effort to make better choices just as I'm sure the guys who "allow" women to use them are willing to take responsibility for their "bad choice" which determines their bad circumstances
No but really have you done anything interesting lately??
good, I understand your anger and frustration but I'm sure not all men are playing games just to get sex...I mean is it really that important to them that they would go to that length to get it? Naaa
scruffie, If I see a man's profile that even suggests the word "bored" in it thats a big Q for me to move on to the next one....big red falg that screams IMMATURE!!
Actually 10K I have not won the lotto but there may be some very positive changes in my life soon. I don't want to say anything too soon but wish me luck...
Looks are way down at the bottom of my list of priorities which is why I sometimes get laughed at and criticized believe it or not mostly by men. Thats why I chose this topic.
The last guy I dated was not good looking AT ALL by most people's standards and he told me that his guy friends would tell him that I must be "dumb" or "blind" for not realizing that I could "do better than him " and they would say things like "why would she want to be with you?" as if I had some sort of hidden agenda because he was overweight and I was still with him....but he was just fun to be with and we clicked. Does he have to look a certain way??
Frank, So so so so true. It is human nature to be a bit envious from time to time and yet some people will take it to a whole new level.
Being aware of people like this around us and doing everything in our power to establish trust between us is crucial because of this reason when we are in relationship......
place, Sounds like you did the right thing in leaving the relationship. When all is said and done if you're not feeling good about yourself when you are with him...doesn't that in itself say everything??
The point is this: for example, the woman that your are with could be drop dead gorgeous and you are one happy guy but when you are with her in public every other guy is drooling over her, checking her out and making comments about her though she may be the most loyal faithful woman in the world after a while you may begin to feel as though you just don't want to be with someone who is the center of every guy's attention and who is causing friction between you and your friends......it could become to much to handle.
Just an example and something I have seen before with friends....
balt, I believe you have missed my point completely. I am simply suggesting that some people may become insecure at the fact that their girlfriend or boyfriend is popular or regarded as a great catch by others......
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morgen BTW,NO ONE could ever be as "interesting" as you...how could any of us compete?