lana1234567 Blog Comments (663)

RE: Younger or Older?

dublin,
Its a strange thing. It seems that we woman have what I like to call an "expiration date" which states : "Best if used before age 40"

Stranger yet is the fact that though there are many beautiful 20 something year olds , there are also not so attractive younger women but I guess its a number thing...the problem is that numbers as well as people always change I guess some people have not thought that part of it through yet

Pressure and drama

Belle,
You read my mind! my thoughts exactly!

Pressure and drama

Belle,
Yes, it does seem like they want to have their (NOT ALL MEN) cake and eat it too and its almost as if they don't even realize how ridiculous they are being(ONLY THE "BAD" MEN< NOT THE "GOOD" ONES)

Pressure and drama

balt,
You did not upset me with you comment. All is well.

RDM,
I have to agree with you on this one

Pressure and drama

10K ...I can't take it! You crack me up.....but NO SERIOUSLY

RE: WAS IT SOMETHING I SAID?

Well, I can tell you that I have had some very strange occurring myself and wonder what the meaning is. For example:

I met a man for coffee about two weeks ago. I thought we hit it off extremely well in fact he kept telling me that he couldn't believe that he finally found someone who he really liked a lot and he couldn't wait to see me again. The next day he sent me these really sweet text messages saying things like: "I love your beautiful smile!" and "I hope you are having a great day!" and " can't wait to see you again!"...then two days later he seemed to drop off the face of the earth. He even canceled his profile. Gone, MIA , zip...no sign of him so I text "what happened?" and never got a reply.

I thought this type of bizarre behavior was just a "guy thing"

RE: PERSONAL TESTIMONY OF MY FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST

Why do I feel guilty every time I read one of these blogs??

The sky last night

Thanks everyone for the kind words.....family and real friends make all the difference

terbear,
I understand exactly how you must have felt...its scary but what more troubling is the fact the the boy who she is "crazy about" is no where to be found when times get tough. Isn't this when the person we count on and believe in should be there the most? I would be willing to bet that if my daughter called him for something which involved having a good time he wouldn't have been as "busy"...the thought of that honestly infuriates me

The sky last night

@10K Thank you

The sky last night

10K!!!

Now now! Sensitivity with a woman goes a long way

seriously though , yeah I understand he could have been busy but I could hear his voice on the phone and he obviously was insensitive. didn't say "are you ok?" or "wish I could be there for you" those words alone would have made a world of difference.

The sky last night

True itchy,
Thanks for the kind words

The sky last night

itchy,
Yeah, we want to save them or spare them of the hurt but at the same time we realize that they must feel the pain in order to grow and learn

The sky last night

coffee,
Thank you

balt,
And great dads like you...thank you

RE: The Importance Of Being... Funny???

Alone,
I agree I think we should laugh more like the time my ex boyfriend said that I make my own destiny and that I should only should first seek happiness within myself by being more independent and not needing him as much...so I said: "Your right! BYE!!" Unfortunately he didn't see the humor in it.

The question

purified,
Now that is one rule that makes sense...I will remember that

Thanks!

The question

balt,
I said that I was going for an interview which I had to cancel because my daughter became ill. I am rescheduling it for next week but I am not leaving ...never said goodbye did I? You silly

RE: Love

louise,

Lately it seems as though the first question a guy will ask you is "Do you work? and if so, what kind of job do you do?" BUT if we ask them about their profession we are made to feel as though we have ask them to donate one of their organs

Thats why I'm going back to school and then I will say Kiss my zucchini

The question

OR better yet, who's having ice cream? and what flavor is it??

RE: Thoughts

sweet,
I think its a "guy thing" they will go to the ends of the earth for you ....that is unless or until you let on that you actually like them back. THEN they become terrified at the prospect that they may actually be taken seriously and have show some sort of maturity and stability in a REAL relationship --->>>Ouch (they don't like that part) so they do the disappearing act and scram

Its a beautiful day in the neighborhood...

Yaacs,

Thanks for the advice and may I add you too would look wonderful in some living colors...perhaps colors which do not seem to resemble clay statue

RE: HINDERING SPELL CASTERS WHAT TO PRAY FOR

On a more serious note (if thats possible with this topic)

I feel that good and evil do exist but its not about "casting spells". "magic" or anything like that . It is simply up to us as humans and individuals to make a positive difference in this world by not being selfish and thinking of others because I truly believe that ultimately we are one on this earth and everything we do returns to us eventually in some form....Karma

Its a beautiful day in the neighborhood...

zahra,
Excuse my strange humor I get a bit slap happy late at night. I am better now that I have slept well and have my morning cup of coffee
Hope everyone has a great Saturday BTW

RE: When your children Get Aggressive,what is your act

I have two children and I know that no two are the same. each child is born with his or her own level of temperament, energy and innate character therefore each child must be handled a bit differently and yet at the same time you must attempt to be sure that they do not feel you are being "partial"...good luck on this one not a simple feat.
When I was a child I was very sensitive especially after my father's death so the WAY I was told to do something made a huge difference in the way I would respond and whether I would cooperate or not. My sister on the other hand was not sensitive but she tended to act out so she would stand up to authority and become aggressive and she didn't care about the way the order was given.

My advice is that the most important thing is that you really try to get to know your child as an individual. What makes him or her tick. Try to really understand their character without being judgmental and from there try to determine the best approach in disciplining that child. What works for one may not work for another child.

RE: The Ferrymen of the heart

I have met a few "farrymen" and I was not impressed

RE: Sooo Tired!!!

Scarlet,
Men have a sort of radar...they sense if you really like them or not and if they think you DON'T like them THATS when they get this strange signal to boldly and relentlessly pursue you. If , on the other hand they sense that you like them the slightest bit.....they are gone.....and you will never see or hear from them again

RE: Old friend

One example where a man is not afraid to make the first move

RE: HINDERING SPELL CASTERS WHAT TO PRAY FOR

I don't know much about spells but I believe there has been an evil spell cast on men to make them believe that the holy sanction of marriage is evil and they will become wild boars if they surrender to the power of love in a committed relationship.

Those who cast this evil spell on all men come forward!! Now!
No need to thank me I am happy to help

Its a beautiful day in the neighborhood...

Next I will die my hair pink , wear neon bright colors and a big frozen smile

RE: almost a geriatric dater.... 4

This is why my grandmother from Italy used to say: "you never, NEVER go see da guya! HE gotta walk 1000 miles to see you! en denna he gotta beg en say tenk you 100 times!!"

Getting married!!

Thank you Frank