take, I think that both us women and men tend to become much more cautious and perhaps unfortunately a bit jaded. We really do want to trust but we are afraid of trusting the wrong person who will take advantage of our trusting nature.
When we are n our 20s its just another painful lesson learned but when we get to be in our 40s and 50s having to go through something like this would crush our world I have been in one relationship after my divorce and it lasted two years.
I am now ten times more cautious and yet I feel that this latest experience has brought me to the realization that I will prefer to be alone than to be with someone who is dishonest and deceitful.
Well, Time for me to turn in. Think I will go put on my BLACK PJs and brush my teeth with my BLACK toothbrush and then I will go to bed and dream of BLACK sheep
Frank, Perhaps its just the Michigan men as Swiss always says ....something in the air? I have heard that men don't really want to be "formal" anymore" casual is in formal and "dressy" is out ?? Don't know.
Whatever the case the first date COULD turn out to be the last one day and how do you want to remember it? Thats the way I see it anyway.
In my case my ex did not and still does not make much money so as the saying goes , you cannot squeeze blood from a turnip .
The way we handled the financial aspect is he give me what he can when he can and I know he will give whatever he can...he has always been generous with me and the kids with what he does have , the only problem is that he does not have much.
I have to agree with you music, for me its better to be open and honest and divorced rather than having to live a lie for the children's sake....and is it really better for the children to hide what is really going on?
Hey terbear, Age is just another number that we have to keep track of and if what they say is true that substance and character are what keep you young, you are still a teen
10K, You know what?? In saying what you have just said I think I understand...seriously weird as this may sound unfortunately for you 10K...you have a certain "look" and by that I don't mean you are bad looking. To the contrary you are good looking but with kind of a "badboy" kind of face.
Maybe this is how guys see me? ....maybe if we get face surgeries we can change how people view us
So what some of you are saying is that dark colors make you think of "someone who is bad?" what about dark features and how ridiculous are we going to get with this??
kittens, I know down south is different. I was in Kentucky once and people waved at me as I drove down a country road. I was puzzled because I did not know any of them. My southern friend said to me: "Oh, they wave at strangers here as a way of saying "hi" and "welcome" I thought wow back in Detroit it mean "duck, I heard a gun shot"
balt You know what I'm talkin about
morgen, cheerio
Frank....the Black Night (and I won't tell anyone that you got serious)
Getting married!!
sherwood,thanks but "Nowhersville" will remain Nowheresville to people that I don't know personally.....
Capeesh?