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Send a kind thought tonight

I just got one...oh wait , its just my ex boyfriend again. Same thing!

Send a kind thought tonight

balt......Make Mine Mint and Mocha!!!

Send a kind thought tonight

morgen,
After reading all of your "M" words I think I will have a drink myself....make it a double

Send a kind thought tonight

Yes balt...to kind thoughts . Cheers to a gathering on my blog if you are feeling lonely tonight pull up a seat and come join us . Have some wine , snacks good conversation and some laughs with friends


cafe,
Lets keep the fun times rolling by not mentioning the "M" word tonight

Send a kind thought tonight

Thanks Jana....me too


....and Frank, YES! The black knight!

RE: Why do i feel lonely?

diamond,
I'm ok by my self with my thoughts ...the times I feel loneliest are when I am surrounded by people who don't understand me or with whom I cannot relate to.

Cheer up you have friends here

I think I've got it!!

Jana,
I agree they are just afraid that we may be smarter than them great new pic BTW!

Swiss,
Lets go! Got my credit card and running shoes!!

I think I've got it!!

Yeah,
You're right balt...I guess it keeps things interesting

I think I've got it!!

I have no clue Jana....taking up drinking is no good.

I think I've got it!!

Single I agree. I think it must be a subconscious reaction. All of us even women sometimes are more intrigued by the unattainable...remember the shiny toy truck your mom would never let you have? Well it looked even more desirable when she said "no" didn't it

RE: Frustrated

amrora,

It seems to me that as soon as a lot of men know that we really are into them they seem to back off. It's happened to me many times even AFTER I get into a relationship. Once he knows he has me heart and soul I am not a "challenge " anymore therefor hes gone.

I don't get it either. In my last relationship, the guy I was with seemed to notice other women a lot and now that I am single again I realize that I am getting noticed by the guys who are attached.

I think I've got it!!

True Jana...we are

I think I've got it!!

Jana....yes. I have tried approaching a guy that I like and the response is usually one of suspicion : "why would you want to go out with me?" or " do you do this all the time? go around hitting on men?"

But if you wait for them to approach you then the attitude is either: "she must already have a boyfriend so I won't bother" or " I will probably be turned down so I won't bother"

I think I've got it!!

Jana,
I don't pretend either and I am also still single which is why in my own strange way with twisted humor I am expressing my experience.
It seems that when I respond with a positive email and say things like " I like your profile too" I never get a response back but if I ignore the guy or act distant he never gives up....does this only happen to me?

EGO

Well,
I don't mean to say that ALL are here to boost their ego...I for one certainly am not I have made some really great friends but the distance and not being able to speak to some of the men here face to face could be the wall that really keeps some of us women and men for that matter from going any further.

EGO

cafe

Yeah...no drama would have to mean that either you've not been alive for the past 20 years or that you are hermit and social phobic who has had NO LIFE

EGO

Yeah, same here cafe seems like most people men and women like your profile but when they find out that you are a "real person" who is not "perfect" and who does not have a "perfect life" ......they're gone

EGO

Play...nothing wrong with just having fun as long as you are open and honest about it

EGO

Cafe,
LOL....not sure i'de be much help. I'm still looking for the mind that I lost a while back

EGO

hunt,
Yeah "marketers" ...marketing BS

Frank,
Oh, how you go on ! No really...go on!

EGO

balt,
Sometimes "playing dumb" is a smart thing to do


10K,
No mail? in how long?? No way ...I can't believe you. thought you were a babe magnet

RE: Playing Hard to Get

dublin,

I have noticed that difference also in my place of birth, Italy. The men for the most part expect and enjoy being the one taking the lead as far as making the first move or even the second or third

I believe that it may be just a general mentality or belief in certain parts of the world that the man should approach first and the woman can choose to respond or not.

Here in the states it seems that anything goes which is not necessarily a bad thing but can cause some confusion at times.

I love your PIC!

Aawww ...thanks balt <<<-----the man who always knows what to say

I love your PIC!

Thanks gaze!

I love your PIC!

Mark,
Thank you!


Critics...........so there! looking at critics now--->>

I love your PIC!

parti,
Hhmm......don't remember it at all. That must have been after the whole scotch whiskey breakfast party we had.


Frank,
YOU bet I do!! The Black Knight


narnia,
I will have to check on that....thanks

I love your PIC!

Virgo! Its liquorish of course!

I AM SO SICK AND TIRED

Hey Jana,

Hijack away! The more the merrier!

I AM SO SICK AND TIRED

WOW...now I'm sick and tired and confused

Where is the Love?

Hi Jana!

Well...sometimes I wish that I could be a fly on the wall so that I could hear what people say about me when I'm not around. Just the "spy" in me