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RE: I've lost my will to live

RELATIVES:

Most of the time they mean well but really have no clue about you, who you are, what you need to do or what it is you need in your life.

Trust me, I know about relatives and the profound effect they can have on your well being in every way. Whether its positive or negative.

My suggestion to you is this; STOP carrying everyone else's burden and STOP allowing everyone in yours and her family to make you feel as though your are failing in some way or as though you are doing something wrong.

Take a good long look at your situation and then YOU decide what step or steps you should take to improve your life and your situation based on what you need in your life right now and NOT based on guilt, pressure or false expectations of others.

I wish you luck and remember that there are others out there who may be or have gone through similar situations. Reach out to those people for emotional and psychological support. It does help.

RE: Funny thing)

I think some women like watching other women and I see nothing wrong with that. Sometimes I like looking at other women to get fashion ideas. Some women have great fashion sense and know how to put things together.
As far as appreciating great looks...I do enjoy looking at men. Mostly the way they walk, talk, their hand gestures, the way they smile.....ect. But hey , everyone is different

RE: To have kids or not...

My advice to both of you is focus on financial security as well as a secure personal life before making the decision to have a child. Unfortunately, it is a very complicated decision in today's world and raising a child in modern society has become extremely difficult in every way imaginable.....you are doing the right thing in not taking this decision lightly.

RE: where are the real men

There are some awesome men out there!!

Can't Wait!

morgen,
We,ve got plenty of room!

Can't Wait!

Ha ha....Yeah inthemind CS bus is ready to roll!! Got your bags packed??

If it makes you happy

sands,

You've made some really great points .

Thanks for reminding us that truly there are people out there who actually have psychological disorders, at different degrees of severity and perhaps we should just see it for what it is, understand it better and therefore not take any of it personally .

Yes, buyer beware

If it makes you happy

music.......just what I was thinking of!! he he

If it makes you happy

hank is a fan of mine

He likes to follow all of my blogs & make negative remarks about how "negative" he thinks I am

Its ok hank........we understand. Go ahead and get out those bad feelings. Here , have a drink on me now just relax and know that we are you friends not your enemies.

Everything will be alright...ok?

RE: i love you

I love you?? Come on ...why would any woman want to hear those words?
I personally would rather hear things like: "Hey you, whats up?" or how about: "You're pretty cool!"

RE: AGE DIFFERENCE! 10-20-30 YEARS! CAN IT WORK???

I think that it could work but ONLY if it is based on true mutual chemistry and real feelings for one another and NOT on anything superficial.

RE: If you know I'm a really good man

itc,
Yep, I think you've gotten your messege across. You are a good man...ok then, lets get on with it

RE: I Work for money

.....So, You are saying that the only way to get loyalty is with a dog?

RE: I,m looking for true love and marriage

Like Tina Turner said: Whats love got to do with it??

RE: hahaha

Even the animals don't like him?? Wow thats kind of depressing....has he checked to see if he has BO? Perhaps he needs a shave

RE: hahaha

Even the animals don't like him?? Wow thats kind of depressing....has he checked to see if he has BO? Perhaps he needs a shave

RE: what if..

Every stage of our lives is meant to have a purpose. It is only when we attempt to live as though we are in a different stage that we are actually in that we become unhappy and unfulfilled.

I would spend the last part of my life helping the young...I would give generously and love unconditionally

RE: OUT OF MY SYSTEM....

This is not something very uncommon unfortunately and you are not alone. the thing that puzzles me is when some men claim to be "the same" as women when I do not hear about that many woman (if any) just disappearing without explanation or stopping communication without notice. Most women need some sort of closer to a relationship where as many (not all) but the majority of men when they are not happy in a relationship seem to be able to just move on without closer, explanation or notice...and they seem to be with it.

My advice to you is get your mind completely off of him or anyone else who may come along until you know %100 that he is committed to you and even then do not ever give your heart completely....ever

RE: Life

Josie,
Wow, I've never heard it put quite that way.....but there is a lot of truth to that. "the good" can be a rare thing unfortunately but it is well worth looking for.

RE: Confusing men!!!

still,
I have discovered that men for the most part are very rational, practical and logical when it comes to their job and professional life. They plan things out and know exactly what their short term and long term goals are BUT when it comes to their personal lives, they do not have a clue and are all over the map.....

One moment they will say one thing and the next ....its anybody's guess. So don't feel that you are alone in this. Lets just not take anything seriously anymore and have ourselves a good laugh because I'm afraid that if we try to figure it out or take it too seriously we may end up going mad

RE: Is it just me, or is this whole thing like buying

H e l l o,

M y u s e r n a m e i s c y b e r l o v e..... I love walks on the beach, sunsets and romantic candle light....bla bla blayawn:


Yeah,
I like the old fashioned way better too

RE: … in a world full of strangers ...

Yeah Jode,

That is beautiful.

I had one of those moment once when I saw a very old woman ...probably in her nineties if not more....walked with a cane. As she walked by she stopped ,starred directly at me and said with a shaky emotional voice and tears in her eyes " you remind me of me at your age" she smiled and continued with "never EVER let anyone tell you who you are or what you are capable of doing" she touched my hand and walked on.......

I will never ever forget her

RE: What is LOVE?

Love is like the wind...it cannot be seen, cannot be planned or bought.....it can only be felt with the heart and cannot exist unless it is given away.

RE: Actually what all man looking in this site

RE: I want a real girlfriend

RE: what do ladies here want

virgo had uncovered our secret ladies....I guess we will to put away the shackles, chains and whips now!

RE: what do ladies here want

I guess its the same as when a man posts a profile saying that he is only interested in "inner beauty" and just wants a "good woman who is nice" and then when you email him without a pic he either will not respond or will say "do you have a pic?" and if he doesn't like the pic.......you will never hear from him again.

RE: I trust Cigarates more than girls

I trust crack more than guys......Hey, its a joke!!
Interesting blog

ACCEPTANCE and PEACE

virgo! I get the crust!!

ACCEPTANCE and PEACE

balt,
We have broken your lock! You can escape captivity now....you're free!!



@virgo
Yummy cat food

I must go out now to get some milk.....it is just gorgeous out there!!