Yeah, Jim. The piano is great. I've got it by a couple of other groups and, it's even better. You ought to hear Clapton's version. It's really good. And, this place is borrrrrrrrring. I go to a few other sites and, I'm having much better luck with a few dates, etc.
Jode & A F, How do you feel about guys who shave their heads? I see them all over the place and, most of them seem to look like these white supremacist, etc. When I've asked any woman about it they usually say they prefer a guy with hair.
It seems that we get programmed for this in some ways. When you lok at a dating site, any dating site, what do you see? They hire models for the pics and try to con everyone into thinking that that's what you'll get. It leads one on to thinking that the average person on a site looks like that when we actually just look like ourselves. Since the web truly got worldwide, we see more and more of this and, I think it feeds into our not accepting people who really look like the real people you see around town.
This is one of the few "dating/singles" sites which actually has legitimate discussions about any of this. Most of these sites just feed you BS.
Hang in there, vanity. Those of us who like to come to a site like this know better and realize what's more real than those other sites. This place isn't perfect butt, it's a lot better than the flashy, looks places. Just keep talking and, you'll feel better.
Can't edit our comments. This; "And older guy knows how to make you feel good about yourself when your with him." S/B An older guy and when you're with him.
Most of my fishing is done with a flyrod in the evening when there's a good bug hatch which brings the bluegills to the top. I could live on bluegills. They're my favorite. I don't fillet them. I scale them and take off the heads and guts. By leaving the skin on and the bones in, they're juicier. Filleted fish are too dry, even deepfried. Then I stay out after dark and cast crankbaits for walleye. Walleye here a delicious. What's fun is being iout there alone at night and hooking into a big musky. You've really got to pay attention.
Another thing that's nice about fishing at night is that the idiots with boards on their feet aren't out tearing up the lake. It's peaceful.
A lot of this has to do with when neither of you wants to be with anyone else. There have been a few times in my life when I just didn't want to be with anyone else. It was mutual a couple of times so, that's how I would see it.
Seems that it works both ways when someone is looking for "Mr/Ms Right" when they're really looking for "Mr/Ms Perfect" and, in their eyes nobody quite measures up to what they think they want so, they sit on their hineys alone and frustrated.
I'm not perfect by any means and I've learned to accept someone for the good things they might bring to my life. I've dated a lot of woman and, some are good looking, some are smart, some have a great personality, etc. A lot of times I've gone out with a woman more than once just because we have a good time together.
And, I have found the "Mr/Ms Perfect" thing to be more true on dating/personals sites than in real life.
terbear, I'm 72 and, I do that. I do a good hour's worth of weights everyday. One day, upper body, second day, lower or leg work. I rotate that all the time. I usually take one day to do nothing so my body recovers.
Batter than CS on any other "dating" site
S/B "BETTER"