oh my dear :( .. my parents got divorced around ten years ago, and my mother has taken the burden of raising the four of us, now my brother is doing that, I know how hard this is, and I can't stop feeling guilty when I think of my brother, but certainly I won't forget about him and I will make sure to help him when I get a good job and make it up for him so he won't feel like he wasted years of his life ..
just don't forget that good things happen to good people, and you are a good person ..
well, don't tell her something like "you are so beautiful and hot" or something that she might have read over and over .. write something special for her, you said you read her profile, maybe there is something interesting she is doing or likes .. try to start with a message that would make her reply ..
it is important to feel good about ourselves, and not to wait for someone to tell us how beautiful or intelligent we are, this way we will just get ourselves into the circle "I have to be good enough for them" .. be who you are and be proud
you seem like a very nice person, and you are a good looking guy!!!!!! Just let the ladies feel that you are a positive person and someone who is pleasant to be around, that what most women seek when they want to date ..
It can get so complicated, but if you are someone who can handle this type of pressure in a relationship maybe you can give it a try, otherwise don't try at all ..
I am not sure, but maybe I would .. sometimes when you get too emotional you may be surprised of what you might be capable of doing .. >> never done something though
I have lost a friend because of a lover years ago, it pained me more to lose that than losing him .. but I thought about it and said to myself if that friend was a real friend she would never have done that damage in my life ..
Sometimes it is not good to let someone gets too close to you, it is nice to have friends but we always should be careful ..
I don't think I would want that person to be part of my life, that would always remind of the time we were lovers, and it may influence any future relationship I consider ..
It is pretty hard to keep a friendship of that kind ..
Yeah I feel once we are trapped in the circle of trying to be better and the feeling that we are not good enough, the path of misery begins .. Life is so wonderful when you are being loved unconditionally, not because how much money you have or how beautiful you look ..
RE: Advice from men to women
lol very true about men! , always taking things easy