A married woman......i guess she is just looking for an adventure or to get out for awhile. Ok...why don't you let her come and but she should pay her own expenses, have a holiday with you but do not get too involve with her. Because once the adventure is over she will leave you and she will tell you that she cannot forget her husband. I saw too many similar situations like this already....
I met my present boyfriend at another dating sites few months ago and until now we are still together, happy and taking our time before we make a major decision about our future together.
Once in a while I visit CS....to read blogs and forums.
Fear is a vital response to physical and emotional danger, if we couldn't feel it, we couldn't protect ourselves from legitimate threats. But often we fear situations that are in no way life or death, and thus hung back for no good reason. Traumas or bad experiences can trigger a fear response within us that is hard to quell. Yet exposing ourselves to our personal demons is the best way to move past them....
long distance relationship is difficult to maintain and so many things to consider... perhaps in some cases it works but with my experience it doesn't...
I met a guy online and he lives in England which is approximately 2 hours with the speed train (eurostar), we met couple of times, but most of the time we spoke on the telephone. The guy seems great, few years older than me, we got along very well. But when you reach a certain age like me, you have to consider many things and make a careful decision. Like who will give up things like your work, your place, your family, friends and so on....There are so many buts and ifs....What about if i move to England and things doesn't work out for both of us. I always believe that you will know only the person when you both live under the same roof. He doesn't want to relocate, he wants to stay in London. Finally, I did not take such risk, perhaps when i was a lot younger i have more courage to do it.
Luckily, I found someone not so far from my place, so when things doesn't work out for both of us, I have nothing to lose except a broken heart....
Low maintenance woman doesn't necessarily mean the woman does not care about herself or appearance, it's more being at ease with the simple things in life and enjoying them.....
But you are right when you said that some pets are treated better than the people. Why i said that, one day the children of my friend who is 11 and 6 years old came to me and really very happy. They announced that their father and his girlfriend broke out. I ask why, they gave me a reply and they said that she never hug them and she don't let them sit on the sofa but her poodle can. They said that she love and treated her poodle better than them.
So, it prooves that some people treat their pet better than the people...
through the years i have lost many love ones including my dear father...
the last couple of years is much more difficult because of my divorce followed the death of my mother in law whom i love and adore so much. It seems the world fell down on my shoulder, but life must go on. It's not so easy but i found courage to move on with the help and support of my friends...
Life seems to be unfair but i always believe that things happen for a reason...
Besides, the strongest people are not those who always win but those who stand up when they fall....
Try to do some sports in the evening, afterwards have a nice bath, drink camomille tea and it will helps you relax. Perhaps it will help you put to sleep....
I can be able to forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you deny the other person's responsibility for hurting you and it doesn't minimize or justify the wrong....
Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.....
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RE: my 1st letter to my 1st love ,, it hurts
you doesn't even realize if the comment is sarcasm or not.....