When I was dating and looking for the right man, it seemed that the harder I looked the more evasive it became. So, I stopped looking and started having fun. Well, I was at a party when my late husband walked in. He told a few jokes and then we started to talk. I thought that I would either not see him again or if I did we could become good friends. Well, a year and half later we married. Hang in there. Love is looking for you, slow down and let it catch up!
I remember being very jealous, my late husband was extremely outgoing and well liked by people. He always had a following, and sometimes they went just a tad too far. But, he and I were married for a long time so I guess I worried for nothing. Keep smiling and have a great day!
I think that we will be going back to nature in many ways. In all civilizations, a time comes when it emplodes and either disbands or goes back to basics. Perhaps we are at that level now or fastly approaching it. Electronics, computers, and such will press forward and continue to amaze us. Sooner or later, it will hit a barrier. Either resources to sustain it will run out or interest will shift.
Yes..it can be very unpleasant, but it is an inate emotion that can not be escaped. It can also be very constructive. Sometimes it motivates you and makes you try harder to keep what you have. Sometimes it drives you to become a better employee or employer. So, all in all...it is necessary. Taken to extremes, it can lead to horrible things. As I always told my kids, be what you are, do what you do, eat what you want....but do it in moderation.
I do not know anyone that is perfect, so you have a speech impediment, no big deal when you consider what other people are hiding. I am sorry if someone tried to make you feel inferior. You are just as good as everyone else. If someone does not want to be in your company then it is their loss. Hold your head high!
I am also feeling lost. Good thing we have our "kids" to look after. Paradise can be a jail without someone to share it with. I would rather have someone to love than all the comforts in this world.
Hang in there. I know that you will soon find the right someone and although there will be ups and downs, the downs will be easier to handle with someone at your side.
In the meantime, you have friends...well at least one!
I understand the question, but there are other things to consider such as what would you be exposing yourself to.... in today's world there are many diseases you can catch. Is a one night stand worth risking your future heath? Hot or not, I would recommend waiting until you know the person.
You have been offered some good advice by the people thus far. May I say, you were not wrong. If you had waited for her to return from the restroom and tell her you were calling it a night, she may have become impossible and caused you embarrasment as well as embarrasing herself. Good for you for not wanting to ruin other people's evening. One question, had her true self not come out in previous conversations? Regardless, I wish you well.
Yes, I do remember that movie. Hot car! Burt with his "rug" but he had a wonderful goofy smile. One of my favorite movies.
My grandmother told me about the start of NASCAR. I lived with her for a time when I was young, and the memories are great! She lived through so much, having been born in 1891.
You are doing very well--I don't see you as being shy. You always provide insight in your responses to questions. And you have shown that you can start and carry a conversation. There are plenty of people who will and do enjoy your company.
No it is not wrong. Even if she does not have the bill. You have children and sometimes they stay with her, what if there is an emergency while they are with her...??? Having a phone makes it easier to reach emergency services. Besides, I see no harm in helping anyone out, as long as I have the funds. One thing, don't count on being repaid. Just my opinion.
I do not feel as confident that things will be sorted out. I am glad that I put funds away for retirement. I have a friend that lives on Social Security and they are in a panic.
Perhaps we as a nation should stand up .... and shout, and make it clear that we will not go through this year after year!
Yes, you are right. There are more than a few unsavory people trolling this site. But, pick through the mess...there may be someone worth talking with. I am glad that you are not totally jaded, keep the faith....out of all the lemons there may be someone that is genuine. Lots of luck.
Keep looking, my husband of many years was considerably younger than me. We were very happy together. I always prefered younger men. Perhaps because I refuse to get old.
No one with a heart could laugh at you. This is such a sad and lovely story. I have read about love that is this strong. I hope that you are happy, otherwise this obsession can ruin your health--both physical and mental--if you are not careful.
I am sending you a hug and wished for a lovely life.
JimNastics Good day. Yes, I think we all get those types of emails. I even get the ones where they say I have great eyes or hair and my pix is of a bird.
Your photos are really quite nice, but you look so glum. How about rethinking your profile and putting a photo up that shows your wonderful smile. I was once told, a smile will break down any barriers.
I assume that you are going out in your neighborhood to young people's activities. But, try going to your church. Even if you are not an over the top believer, it is a good place to meet other people with values. Don't count on finding true love on a dating service.....most are jokes.
Be patient, enjoy your youth. I am certain that you will find love. I wish you well.
Well it would seem that you are venting your frustration regarding the situation in your country. It would seem that you are looking for someone to blame for the hostilities and such that is dragging your country down and robbing your pockets of money.
Perhaps the US would have withdrawn earlier had not Afghanistan and Pakistan not allowed criminals and murderous people like Asama Bin Laden refuge. So often I hear that the policies of my country is wrong, that we do things to "rob" other nations of their wealth. The list goes on. You launch into a harangue when our nation does not respond in the manner that you want. You take us to task if we are delayed in responding to your needs. Your country was first to hurl accusations that we did not respond to the needs of others when the tsunami hit, we took too long when the earthquake happened in Chili, and so on. But, who was there with relief, with manpower, with firefighters, paramedic, doctors........ Where was your support when we needed it? Oh yes, standing at the boarder offering support and comfort to Bin Laden and his followers.
For the most part I agree with you. Where we part company is on religion. I think that religion is absolutely necessary for many reasons that I will not go into. What I would like to know is the title of your book. I would like to read it. Thanks
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RE: jealousy
Vangelia,When I was dating and looking for the right man, it seemed that the harder I looked the more evasive it became. So, I stopped looking and started having fun. Well, I was at a party when my late husband walked in. He told a few jokes and then we started to talk. I thought that I would either not see him again or if I did we could become good friends. Well, a year and half later we married. Hang in there. Love is looking for you, slow down and let it catch up!