..and i agree with ur previous comment Jim... some really double faced people here... .. few of the old timers r really big nut cases..full of cynicism n saracasm... ... vicious...
i think like love... the term friend is loosely used.
nowadays friendship is more about just ... hanging out together for movies or parties.. or trips... ( ... and yes ... u can feel the sense of competition, jealousy, sneering, saracasm ... from many of them) or making and hanging out with the right contacts!... or certain other benefits...
i think one should feel lucky to have even one or 2 true friends... rest every1 else is just part of a big circus!...
HERE'S A THOUGHT ...a modern corollary..rather amendment to 'a friend in need.... :) ... having lost some friends in the past ..during good times!! ( and may god bless them) ... i can only agree....... True friends rejoice in ...and last through your better/good times too!! :)
"True friends are those who are with us when the good things happen. They are pleased by our
triumphs. False friends only appear at difficult times, with their sad, supportive faces, when, in fact,
our suffering is serving to console them for their miserable lives" - paulo coelho
i'm beginning to wonder ... is there any point ..investing in any way in any guy at all ? how do u know if the nice guy u pick after all the effort n time ..doesn't turn into some1 like that ...
maybe it should never go beyond an ocassional date now n then ... so when they start acting funny or it's mind games...just kick them out of ur life ...
ummm... i think she's cool, stylish ... not out of the world but, not mediocre either... i like some of her songs n movies.. i liked her in shall we dance and the wedding planner, she looked believable in maid in manhattan too!
mayb that's the game ... mayb there's some thrill in it for him ... something to boost his ego ...
is this guy by any chance from louisiana ??? ... ... .. some one like that wrote to me sometime back ... we exchanged mails n mails ... n some pics... chatted on the web ...he seemed very earnest, nice, serious , blah blah ... we discussed lot of things ... he just kept going on n on how i was just right for him ..and he had feelings for me .... i showed lot of interest too ... we even exchanged no.s ... and talked once... 2 days later he wrote me a nice lovey dovey mail .... n how he was looking forward to chat wid me later in the evening ... to which i replied ... and then he vanished from d face of earth for almost 3 weeks... without a word... i left a little message on his cell .. and also a mail few days later ... but, no reply... so u can imagine what went through my head those 3 weeks or so..
then out of the blue more than 3 weeks later he sends me a mail on CS .. with some cheesy n hard to believe excuse about how busy he has been. ... n some lovey dovey stuff ofcourse
n i happen to know that he happened to be online here many times in those 3 weeks ..but, i didn't tell him that ... so what do u call this?
has something like this ever happened to any of u ?
RDM that's kind of true... coz it takes hours for it to dry ... it's a good chance to make the guys do all d work ...anything u want ... including holding d coffee mug for u ..while u take sips! .....
hey jim here in india girls put henna or mehendi on their hands and legs on some functions or as part of wedding celebrations. it's considered auspicious. it's a paste made out of leaves. totally safe and lasts for few days only
like someone said before.. to each his own. whether it's getting a tatto done or liking or disliking somebody for having one.
i personally feel .. piercings or big tattos everywhere ..especially on the face are a big turn off ..
... but a small tattoo might not irk me much ... depends what it is and where it is .
i also think it's unhealthy ...
but yes for some people it's symbolic of something ..and might have emotional value...
i personally feel that if one is really in the mood for one ... or wants to look funky...especially teens.... the temporary air brush ones are a good alternative... they stay only few days...what's more ..u can try diff. ones.
ofcourse ... but he made the effort ..and did so well ... spoke better than some people here.... but, that's not the point ... i'm making here... it could have been any language......
it's nice to have a open heart and open mind ... beyond prejudices ...
i've never hesitated to make the first move.. ....ummm it doesn't matter to me who makes the first move..more important is how it goes on from there...
there has to be a level of involvement, interest and effort from both the people.. nobody is doing anyone a favour..
i wouldn't like to be with someone who makes the first move ..but, later acts dicey... or even with someone who can't handle the fact that i made the first move..
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hi! Happy new year! how r u doin ? iwould like to c the pics too! do send me the link in messages . thanks.